[Debate] Can Confidence Alone Attract Women? Girls Say Im Too Fat.

[Pride]

I am a little overweight and chubby and i try to be confident but no luck. So whats more important confidence or goodlooks?

 

[Mari Makinami]

Charisma > all, my friend.

 

[Opiuchus05]

A mixture of both but it's pointless to be good looking and have no confidence

 

[Bimbonium]

How little is little? A mix of both, if she doesn't say yes, move on you'll most likely find someone you appreciate and appreciates you in return

 

[Joon]

Don't let what they say bring you down. You have girls that like guys who have a bit more meat on them or like you for you. It's about meeting the right girl.

Also, if you truly overweight (obese) like you unhealthy, you might want to hit the gym and eat healthy meals. IJS

 

[ChicagoJhawk]

If you don't love urself then how do you expect to find someone in the first place. You need to learn too accept and be comfiest about who you are which includes ur weaknesses and insecurities. When ur able to do that, women or men admire that as a good trait a partner should have

 

[Bling Kai]

I'd rather a woman be attracted to who I am regardless of my flaws like lack of confidence and physical attractiveness. Otherwise she ain't worth it in the first place. Though none of that applies to me anyway.

 

[Jack Spicer]

Possible? Yes. As others said, love yourself first. Might be one of the hardest things to do in life, I don't love myself half the time, but if you can find some sort of inner peace, you'll gain a new level of confidence in the form of being comfortable with yourself. Losing weight might help you in that. Not saying you should, but there are many paths to feeling comfortable. That might be one. Plus, although I said it was possible, it is more unlikely, I think. People are attracted to what they are. Personality is important, but so is appearence. Overweight isn't attractive to most people, I imagine. Still possible for someone fat to get someone not fat, but it is tougher.

But to answer the question...I think it is 60/40. Confidence and personality and being comfortable is more important, but not by much. Looks are very important too.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

How about you ask Biggy followers?

 

[Ripple Hole]

Charisma > all, my friend.

Dis ^

 

[Dark Sonic]

Lose weight and make them regret for what they've said. Hehe

 

[Yubel]

I am a little overweight and chubby and i try to be confident but no luck. So whats more important confidence or goodlooks?

Hahahaha, how ****ing ironic. You're a feminist white knight yet you're a fat virgin.

#Savage

 

[Pyro NB]

Confidence

 

[Jack Spicer]

Hahahaha, how ****ing ironic. You're a feminist white knight yet you're a fat virgin.

#Savage

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[Venomous Cobra]

I don't know what you talking about man, being chubby is kinda cool in my city, everyone likes those who got more meat in them. ****in' Murica.

As for your question, it's definitely possible but most likely not. So don't place your hopes too high, you just gotta love yo damn self regardless of how much of a shitty person you might be.

 

[Adam Driver]

I think looks are more important because it's the first thing you notice. But confidence goes far too especially when you're looking for a relationship

 

[Deadlift]

I've got a friend who is ugly, fat and looks like a kebab maker, and his girlfriend is a chick that you'd remember for your whole life even if you see her only once.
But I guess it's not much more than an isolate case, if you're very fat you'd better get a bit in shape

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

I've got a friend who is ugly, fat and looks like a kebab maker, and his girlfriend is a chick that you'd remember for your whole life even if you see her only once.
But I guess it's not much more than an isolate case, if you're very fat you'd better get a bit in shape

Is your friend a rapper?

 

[Jack Spicer]

Is your friend a rapper?

And/or rich?

Also, to be fair, he never said she was attractive. She very well could be the ugliest person ever as you also wouldn't forget a face of someone who is the ugliest person ever.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

And/or rich?

Also, to be fair, he never said she was attractive. She very well could be the ugliest person ever as you also wouldn't forget a face of someone who is the ugliest person ever.

Well he could say she is ugly cause he is jealous of him having such a pretty chick.