[Discussion] Desperately Trying To Fit In | Is it Worth It?

[Waindo]

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The absolute, the genuine; the real YOU is not the unanimity of the Universe that we all share, but the ONE who negotiates and makes peace between your own universe and The Universe we all share. If you strive to fit in, than the one you really are, the one both universes depend on, will disappear.

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Is it worth it?​

 

[Wparker6804]

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The absolute, the genuine; the real YOU is not the unanimity of the Universe that we all share, but the ONE who negotiates and makes peace between your own universe and The Universe we all share. If you strive to fit in, than the one you really are, the one both universes depend on, will disappear.

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Is it worth it?​

Well I don't fit in & I'm glad. Seeing how human nature & the human condition has rooted into society & people, on average, accepting their faults rather than trying to change them is a similarity I don't want anything to do with.

FYI: better a first rate version of yourself than a second rate version of someone else. Don't try to be someone else, try to be someone better. Look back every day & see if the person that's here is in some way better than who was there 24 hours ago. That's the change you should strive to.

 

[DominiqueX]

Even with a translation, I don't understand.
What universes?

 

[Waindo]

Well I don't fit in & I'm glad. Seeing how human nature & the human condition has rooted into society & people, on average, accepting their faults rather than trying to change them is a similarity I don't want anything to do with.

FYI: better a first rate version of yourself than a second rate version of someone else. Don't try to be someone else, try to be someone better. Look back every day & see if the person that's here is in some way better than who was there 24 hours ago. That's the change you should strive to.

I agree. Wise thoughts dude.
Live, learn, evolve.

Even with a translation, I don't understand.
What universes?

I went a bit over the line with my vocabulary...

Your universe - your inner world, your perspective, thoughts, feelings etc.
the Universe - the outer world, your surroundings, family, friends, the society etc.

 

[Umari Senju]

"Better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not."

This is the motto I live by. I like the Tetris quip there was very to the point

 

[DominiqueX]

I went a bit over the line with my vocabulary...

Your universe - your inner world, your perspective, thoughts, feelings etc.
the Universe - the outer world, your surroundings, family, friends, the society etc.

Thank you <3
Now I think I got the message. xD

Well, I've tried hard to please other people for a long time. I didn't care about my feelings, my point of views, my thoughts just to fit in. But this behaviour is venomous and eventually leads to depression, for sure.
So a couple of years ago, I changed myself. I no longer care about what other people think of me. I no longer care if I please other people or not. All that matters is that I am true to myself and say/feel what I want to.
That makes life a lot easier and saves you from drama. That's also the way you find real friends. When someone likes you for who you are, it's perfect. Anyone else can just go away.
Don't be a part of the faceless crowd, the gray matter.

 

[~Ethereal~]

I didn't fit in and I turned out fine as wine baby.

 

[Waindo]

"Better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not."

This is the motto I live by. I like the Tetris quip there was very to the point

Pure logic.