Why is Relationship always overrated everywhere?

[Izou Xaxa]

YOu remember i often talked about such stuff but i wanted to hear opinions of the people in this Forum maybe you can give me other Opinions

Why the hell everywhere in reality, in school, in the internet, in any kindof Anime or eal life movie, why is everywhere the big topic relationship and everyone just concetrate on shipping everything on the world getting in my way ruining my fun

I thought after being asexual they would leave me but that topic is still there

I am not normal for getting angry baout it everyone says

I dont get the point about that anymore? I just wish i would never hear of it again

Can someone understand me or at least give an opinion?

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Well personally it helps you grow as a person. It's something we need as a species, it may not seem important right now but it will click.

Friendships and Romantic relationships will only help you learn more about yourself. I've had women put me in situations I never would've been in if I didn't now them. Both good and bad ones, same applies to friendships. It all adds to your experience and development as a human.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

Well personally it helps you grow as a person. It's something we need as a species, it may not seem important right now but it will click.

Friendships and Romantic relationships will only help you learn more about yourself. I've had women put me in situations I never would've been in if I didn't now them. Both good and bad ones, same applies to friendships. It all adds to your experience and development as a human.

I never fall in love i simply think it is better to live alone because a women would be simply in my way

I simply feel nothing special when seeing a female i mean is it neccesary to be in a relationship.....

Every boy wants a girlfriend and then XD they simply start wars over girls and just destroy themselves
Just being proud over having girlfriends and happiness suddenly they break up or make unneccesary dramas
I simply think a relationship only gets in my way and what i have seen from others i think it was not that special

I never touched a girl once and talk not often with them but that is no need to dislike me also everyone tells me i am gay but i am not
I am just someone that needs no relationship of any kind

I am not like the others that lose themselves in it

But the most people confront me with everywhere just everywhere and i am a weirdo for them for not wanting one

Also this may sound weird but why do people think about that stuff in the first place

Actually i respect you but one thing i wanted to say from ym perspective i also could develop myself through power and a job

But i like your opinion unlike the other people i know you do not insult me but try to to discuss with me

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

I never fall in love i simply think it is better to live alone because a women would be simply in my way

I simply feel nothing special when seeing a female i mean is it neccesary to be in a relationship.....

Every boy wants a girlfriend and then XD they simply start wars over girls and just destroy themselves
Just being proud over having girlfriends and happiness suddenly they break up or make unneccesary dramas
I simply think a relationship only gets in my way and what i have seen from others i think it was not that special

I never touched a girl once and talk not often with them but that is no need to dislike me also everyone tells me i am gay but i am not
I am just someone that needs no relationship of any kind

I am not like the others that lose themselves in it

But the most people confront me with everywhere just everywhere and i am a weirdo for them for not wanting one

Also this may sound weird but why do people think about that stuff in the first place

Actually i respect you but one thing i wanted to say from ym perspective i also could develop myself through power and a job

But i like your opinion unlike the other people i know you do not insult me but try to to discuss with me

You may have not hit puberty yet, which there's nothing wrong with.

But what I'm talking about it different. Of course you can develop yourself somewhat from a job. But there are just some things you can never know emotionally, spiritually, physically.

Like for instance if you had a girlfriend who you were to meet for lunch. When you get there the first thing you see is her hugging a guy. How your emotions effect you when you see that, you're decision making. These are all things that help you in learning about yourself.

I have a million examples.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

You may have not hit puberty yet, which there's nothing wrong with.

But what I'm talking about it different. Of course you can develop yourself somewhat from a job. But there are just some things you can never know emotionally, spiritually, physically.

Like for instance if you had a girlfriend who you were to meet for lunch. When you get there the first thing you see is her hugging a guy. How your emotions effect you when you see that, you're decision making. These are all things that help you in learning about yourself.

I have a million examples.

I am 18 of course i hit that puberty already

Ok i see well so thats your view as for me i simply cannot even understand why it is so special i mean what is the actual reason for that well nevermind also if i would have a relationship i have to rely on the girlfriend and i would not be able to be my own leader

As for me i never talked to girls simply because i just understand them in a special way

When i see that i dont even see it as something special or important

Ok then tell me what does this mean to you? How do you feel about that? And what makes it so special to you?

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

I am 18 of course i hit that puberty already

Ok i see well so thats your view as for me i simply cannot even understand why it is so special i mean what is the actual reason for that well nevermind also if i would have a relationship i have to rely on the girlfriend and i would not be able to be my own leader

As for me i never talked to girls simply because i just understand them in a special way

When i see that i dont even see it as something special or important

Ok then tell me what does this mean to you? How do you feel about that? And what makes it so special to you?

@bold: That's not true though, the thing about a relationship is it's a partnership. It's like having a team mate you can always count on. And this world is a cold place to walk alone. You need people, shit will happen trust me. I thought I could do everything solo but you need people you can count on in the real world.

I see women as potential the ones that catch my eye I try to learn more about. They can't be important to you if you don't know them well, or they don't know you.

As for me i never talked to girls simply because i just understand them in a special way

All I can say is try, like you say a lot of things but have you ever tried? Maybe you'll be surprised.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

@bold: That's not true though, the thing about a relationship is it's a partnership. It's like having a team mate you can always count on. And this world is a cold place to walk alone. You need people, shit will happen trust me. I thought I could do everything solo but you need people you can count on in the real world.

I see women as potential the ones that catch my eye I try to learn more about. They can't be important to you if you don't know them well, or they don't know you.


All I can say is try, like you say a lot of things but have you ever tried? Maybe you'll be surprised.

I never tried and i do not wanna try even if i would not be asexual i think they would not have the slighest interest in me
Today there is a special type of boys they like but well i already said myself that i do not have interest so i just leave it like that

Also as you said i cannot see them as important when i dont know them but in fact i will be never able to talk with them or understand them it is already in my head like this from the start

Sometimes i am curious how they think but the only way to find that out is read their minds but that is impossible

There is also a huge gap between me and females i simply leave it like that

I can see that you treasure that a lot well you have different feelings than me

As for me i will not try because it is a waste of time for me and just like i said even if i wanted i am not they type that suits them

A female feeling for me sepcial is unrealistic

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

I never tried and i do not wanna try even if i would not be asexual i think they would not have the slighest interest in me
Today there is a special type of boys they like but well i already said myself that i do not have interest so i just leave it like that

Also as you said i cannot see them as important when i dont know them but in fact i will be never able to talk with them or understand them it is already in my head like this from the start

Sometimes i am curious how they think but the only way to find that out is read their minds but that is impossible

There is also a huge gap between me and females i simply leave it like that

I can see that you treasure that a lot well you have different feelings than me

As for me i will not try because it is a waste of time for me and just like i said even if i wanted i am not they type that suits them

A female feeling for me sepcial is unrealistic

How do you know though, if you never tried to experience it? You asked why it's so hyped but then don't try and find out? It doesn't make sense.

So which of these definitions applies to your "knowledge" you've aquired that let's you know what you're saying is true. How can you say women are a certain way if you've never tried to get to know one?

Define knowledge.

"facts, information, and skills acquired by a person through experience or education; the theoretical or practical understanding of a subject."

Which of these apply to your knowing?

 

[Izou Xaxa]

How do you know though, if you never tried to experience it? You asked why it's so hyped but then don't try and find out? It doesn't make sense.

So which of these definitions applies to your "knowledge" you've aquired that let's you know what you're saying is true. How can you say women are a certain way if you've never tried to get to know one?

Define knowledge.

"facts, information, and skills acquired by a person through experience or education; the theoretical or practical understanding of a subject."

Which of these apply to your knowing?

I experience from the people i know i also can see how the girls act and instantly know or assume that they would not have interest in someone like me that is not the reason why i am against it though, i also observed some other relationships and i have an imagination of how a guy has to act that a girl loves himi lack this special type ok and now the reason why i do not like the hype a person like me not wanting it for everyone else not normal and they all look atme with those faces that tell me they dislike me for thag

Well when i would try nothing would change the girls would just talk with me ok but they would not fall in love with me because i already said no girl in eqrth can love someone like me and well why dont i try? Because i dont know.........Because i never had anything to do with girls there will be never a wqy i will have a special connection to them one day andso i come to the conclusion that girls and me just cannot work

I mean you are probably a guy that can do that and also have a connection to it but as for me i am far really far away from females so yeah in fact i just feel like there is no need to try

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

I experience from the people i know i also can see how the girls act and instantly know or assume that they would not have interest in someone like me that is not the reason why i am against it though, i also observed some other relationships and i have an imagination of how a guy has to act that a girl loves himi lack this special type ok and now the reason why i do not like the hype a person like me not wanting it for everyone else not normal and they all look atme with those faces that tell me they dislike me for thag

Well when i would try nothing would change the girls would just talk with me ok but they would not fall in love with me because i already said no girl in eqrth can love someone like me and well why dont i try?Because i dont know.........Because i never had anything to do with girls there will be never a wqy i will have a special connection to them one day andso i come to the conclusion that girls and me just cannot work

I mean you are probably a guy that can do that and also have a connection to it but as for me i am far really far away from females so yeah in fact i just feel like there is no need to try

@bold: What does that mean? Why do you feel that way? It's not something you have to feel. That's literally like a curse.

 

[NineSNS]

You are very much in the minority with your thoughts regarding relationships.

But you are not alone.

There are some people who just aren't interested in a relationship.

Just because the majorly are different doesn't automatically mean you're wrong.

 

[Izou Xaxa]

You are very much in the minority with your thoughts regarding relationships.

But you are not alone.

There are some people who just aren't interested in a relationship.


Just because the majorly are different doesn't automatically mean you're wrong.

Problem is that i will be treated as so special and people tell me i am crazy for not having any interest

SOmetimes i wish we could live in a world with asexual only but that is impossible

Well you can imagine the situation like that
I wanna be asexual but it is not accepted

@bold: What does that mean? Why do you feel that way? It's not something you have to feel. That's literally like a curse.

That means simply as i said that girls have according to what i have seen and heard from others a special imagination of a guy how he has to be of course each one might think different .......people like me are not like that type so in fact simple said my type is not interesting and fitting at all for what girls want from a guy

Not everybody is able to have a relationship

I simply feel that way because of what i have seen from them and heard

but well that all is complex to explain i just know that their feelings, expectations of boys are uninteresting for me

 

[Ash Ketchup]

Problem is that i will be treated as so special and people tell me i am crazy for not having any interest

SOmetimes i wish we could live in a world with asexual only but that is impossible

Well you can imagine the situation like that
I wanna be asexual but it is not accepted



That means simply as i said that girls have according to what i have seen and heard from others a special imagination of a guy how he has to be of course each one might think different .......people like me are not like that type so in fact simple said my type is not interesting and fitting at all for what girls want from a guy

Not everybody is able to have a relationship

I simply feel that way because of what i have seen from them and heard

but well that all is complex to explain i just know that their feelings, expectations of boys are uninteresting for me

People telling you are crazy for having your own tastes, they are being disrespectful. Some people fall in love and make friends easily, others do not. Each one has its own rhythm.

I agree somtimes romantic relationship in real life are overrated. I have friends who think having a boyfriend/girlfriend is a must to, can't stay alone, and are afraid to be so. To me this are needy people, and shallow, in a way.
Anyway, I think nowadays people are very individualistic, and most lives in artificial paradises. Then some do not mind evolve with any one who pops up, they simply wanna be, regardless of the quality of the relationship.

And I think such relationships are observed cause, like stated before, real or imaginary characters evolve through this, no one lives on a desert island.
I like romantic relationship in animes, if are well developed and if is not the focus, besides hating romantic girly mangas and similar fluffy stuffs.