Should I confront this guy?

[Sakura Michiko]

Almost 3 years ago I use to like this dude named Kody.He was really weird.He randomly stated he liked me on facebook one day but we never dated.He always dated super young girls (14-16). When I confessed my feelings to him I told him my age(I was 17 at the time) I didn't want to get him in trouble because I was underage (he was 20)than he stated I was too young but a few months after that he dated someone that was 15. So after he broke up with that chick he flirted with me and even asked my friends about me. He would message me on facebook but when I replied he would take days to reply.He asked me to date him right before I left to go to college. At that point I was really sick of playing about with him and I didn't really like him anymore so I said no. So a few months after that a couple of his friends kept asking me to have *** with them.I blocked them and said no. Recently that Kody guy tried to re-add me multiple times. Three days ago I was talking with my boyfriend and he told me that one of his friend told him that Kody spread a rumor a few months back saying we had ***. I was mad because I don't like being put in rumors especially that type.My boyfriend state that Kody was trying to get "cool points" with his male friends and I remembered all his male friends were asking to screw me. I got super mad. Should I confront this boy and give him a piece of my mind?

Edit:I did leave out my boyfriend helping because something happened a few months back were my boyfriend confronted that dude about something dealing with me..but the dude didn't answer his door because he was afraid of my boyfriend which is why I want to confront him myself.
Update:Thanks for the advice guys

 

[SilverfoxUchiha]

Stay well clear of him. Do not go there he is a sleaze

 

[solorflare99]

TL;DR

OT: Yeah you should

 

[Yubel]

Almost 3 years ago I use to like this dude named Kody.He was really weird.He randomly stated he liked me on facebook one day but we never dated.He always dated super young girls (14-16). When I confessed my feelings to him I told him my age(I was 17 at the time) I didn't want to get him in trouble because I was underage (he was 20)than he stated I was too young but a few months after that he dated someone that was 15. So after he broke up with that chick he flirted with me and even asked my friends about me. He would message me on facebook but when I replied he would take days to reply.He asked me to date him right before I left to go to college. At that point I was really sick of playing about with him and I didn't really like him anymore so I said no. So a few months after that a couple of his friends kept asking me to have *** with them.I blocked them and said no. Recently that Kody guy tried to re-add me multiple times. Three days ago I was talking with my boyfriend and he told me that one of his friend told him that Kody spread a rumor a few months back saying we had ***. I was mad because I don't like being put in rumors especially that type.My boyfriend state that Kody was trying to get "cool points" with his male friends and I remembered all his male friends were asking to screw me. I got super mad. Should I confront this boy and give him a piece of my mind?

I don't know how much of your story is accurate but you should ignore him.

 

[stRunF]

You shouldn't give a shit about it, I don't know why you do.
Don't take some entities' opinions seriously as long as they can't be considered human.
Retards were, are and will always be.
(I wouldn't call that flirting tho, he was just either messing with you or trying to get laid.)
If it'd make you feel better, you can confront him, that'll either give you some closure or get it even worse.

Out of curiosity, why'd you share this on an online forum?
Better to share it with someone you know than some random strangers, this is just a tip, don't get me wrong.
Also, users on this forums are mainly teenagers that don't have "problems" like you do, so makes no sense to me ,
good luck tho.

PS: in what kind of country are people that stupid that ask for *** on facebook? that's new to me.

 

[Cfighter]

You cannot prevent rumors. Throughout your life you will be called many things. Rumors are just that: rumors. What you can prevent is letting those rumors become something more.

If you want to blow off steam then blow off some steam to someone you trust. Blowing off steam to someone as disgusting as that will only give him satisfaction, and possibly spread more rumors.

Stay out of it. Forget about it. Move on.​

 

[ShishaMastah420]

Imagine how significant you believe your life to be, now imagine how significant he believes his life to be, now imagine a ant compared to the sun, that is how insignificant both of your life's really are, have a good night.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

You should marry him and have a nice life. That is the only way to get rid of these rumors.

 

[The Work]

Well since your in college, no one is really going to care about his rumors.

But it's up to you whether to confront him or not about it.

 

[Hexuze]

Nah, it's not worth it. He's just seeking your attention, you're only giving him what he wants if you confront him. Ignore him.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

You shouldn't give a shit about it, I don't know why you do.
Don't take some entities' opinions seriously as long as they can't be considered human.
Retards were, are and will always be.
(I wouldn't call that flirting tho, he was just either messing with you or trying to get laid.)
If it'd make you feel better, you can confront him, that'll either give you some closure or get it even worse.

Out of curiosity, why'd you share this on an online forum?
Better to share it with someone you know than some random strangers, this is just a tip, don't get me wrong.
Also, users on this forums are mainly teenagers that don't have "problems" like you do, so makes no sense to me ,
good luck tho.

PS: in what kind of country are people that stupid that ask for *** on facebook? that's new to me.

Because I wanted advice from multiply people.I asked two of my close friends about what I should do but I want some other opinions.I'm in america.

 

[kuchiyosenojutsuironmaidn]

You're boyfriend did nothing? He simply passes on messages to you about this guy that's stalkin' and smearin' his girl? You should confront your boyfriend for not defending your honor. Your boyfriend is the problem. He leaves you wide open and vulnerable by letting these guys think there will be no repercussions for taking stabs at you. Don't confront the guy, though. That's how girls get hurt and even raped. Just sayin'
:wesobi:

 

[Sakura Michiko]

You're boyfriend did nothing? He simply passes on messages to you about this guy that's stalkin' and smearin' his girl? You should confront your boyfriend for not defending your honor. Your boyfriend is the problem. He leaves you wide open and vulnerable by letting these guys think there will be no repercussions for taking stabs at you. Don't confront the guy, though. That's how girls get hurt and even raped. Just sayin'
:wesobi:

I actually wrote about that in my post but I deleted it.I left a few things out.Because I though I was typing too muchh.I'm not going to slam my boyfriend for this because we would get nowhere if he confronted the guy. My boyfriend confronted him about something in the pass and he was afraid to come talk to my boyfriend.I accidentally tagged that Kody guy in some Boku no Pico(don't google it) stuff and he threaten me by saying he was going to get some girls to beat me and I told my boyfriend. My boyfriend went to his house the same day to confront him about that but the guy didn't come outside.My boyfriend was going to kick his ass.He deleted his threat. So I would rather deal with this myself because it I go with my boyfriend that Kody dude isn't going to answer his door.

 

[Angelic.]

kick him in the nuts

 

[YowYan]

You're kinda gullible as you didn't notice his shallowness beforehand. Him going for younger girls is typical for the type of man that wants meaningless *** and will go after young, naive girls that are easy to persuade.

All you have to and should say is that you will get the authorities on the case if he keeps trying to contact you, let alone spread rumors about you and other pathetic things.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

You're kinda gullible as you didn't notice his shallowness beforehand. Him going for younger girls is typical for the type of man that wants meaningless *** and will go after young, naive girls that are easy to persuade.

All you have to and should say is that you will get the authorities on the case if he keeps trying to contact you, let alone spread rumors about you and other pathetic things.

Wasn't going to call the cops because he has a kid on the way. I don't know if he dated all young girls because of *** because his current girlfriend is like 16 or 17? He's been with her for a while and she is pregnant for him.

 

[YowYan]

Wasn't going to call the cops because he has a kid on the way. I don't know if he dated all young girls because of *** because his current girlfriend is like 16 or 17? He's been with her for a while and she is pregnant for him.

So he made a 16/17 year old girl pregnant. Sounds like a good guy, yeah

 

[Rιver]

Damn son your story is 99% like what happened with my ex with minor changes. I hope I ain't Kody.

Also yeah you should smash him.

 

[King of Camelot]

You should ignore the man. And move on.

 

[Ōkami]

Who spells Cody with a "K"?