So you're going to compare different characters with different personalities with DIFFERENT situations with their fathers (Excluding Himawari but let's ignore that she has Hinata's personality cause we all know Hinata let people walk all over her despite her true feelings)
You mean how Sarada not only questioned whether her mother birthed or was even married to her father because she had yet to meet him? Do you also mean how Sarada went on an secret trip to meet Sasuke despite her having no business in doing so? Do you also mean how she flipped sh-t when she thought Karin was her mother? I mean I guess she was being pretty bratt and self-centered? Homegirl said Sakura wasn't sh-t to her despite her being the ONE to raise her and wasn't going to rescue her until after Naruto gave one of his gay little speeches again.
Now you can say "Well she never met Sauce! And she had every right to be angry cause she thought they lied" but then I could say even if she didn't meet Sauce all her life.. She should still respected her mother and shouldn't have said awful things towards her own mother even if she was adopted. :bdpf:
How bratty and selfish could a child be to claim her mother wasnt sh-t to her... better be lucky her ass got adopted in the first place.

And she was talking about leaving the village when her poor mother was getting beat up my Shin's father? Smh... selfish AF.
Shikadai? Shikdai has the exact same personality as Shikamaru. In his words... Acting like Boruto would be too much of a drag. So even if he did feel the exact same way as Boruto... The kid wouldn't even retaliate the same way. Besides Shikamaru had time to walk with his kid right after school without it being kage no bushin while Boruto was playing with an image trying to keep their game going so Naruto could "spend" more time with him. If I recall Shikamaru even said Naruto was busy and to stop bothering him but if he is just as busy as Naruto then why he's walking with his kid as soon as school let out?
Himawari? You got your answer bro. Himawari is a reserved child like her mother and even though she feels just as lonely as Boruto she doesn't want to bother her father about her own true feelings.
What does him throwing the cake? I just told you. It has to do with Naruto's constant absence because he cares about Himawari's feelings as proven by Boruto's and Himawari's description about their relationship. I'm pretty sure half of you would be pissed off(Most likely not pissed off enough to smash the cake) if you were in Boruto's shoes too. Boruto didn't throw the cake out of selfishness but out of empathy for his sister and mother and I'll stick with that because deducing that he is just a brat and making everything about him rather than looking at the bigger picture is the kind of blindless I rather not have.
One... Naruto is Naruto. Boruto is Boruto. They are two different people so say " WELL NARDO WOULD HAVE DONE IT!" is laughable because they are not the same people. If you're going to ask why didn't Boruto chase after Naruto with the bento then why didn't Naruto wait those extra 5 seconds for Boruto to get there with the bento rather than telling Shikamaru to apologize for him? He knew Hinata was sending the bento because he had to have told her he was leaving the village in the first place. Naruto couldn't take those extra 5 seconds to wait but homeboy was rushing towards Sasuke even though his poor child would be left with the bento box. Smh... Naruto = Selfish?
No, but in all seriousness. Boruto made it clear why he didn't chase after Naruto with the bento because he felt like he didn't deserve that. And now I can agree that was selfish of him but I'm saying he isn't as selfish as you're trying to make him out to be when during Sarada's speech.. He thought about his mother and that's why he let her get the bento because even though he felt he didn't deserve the bento... His mother made it for him out of love and that's what mattered at that moment. So yeaaaah
"Instead of coming to him.. He expects Naruto to be the one to come to him".... Lmao whaaa tho? Naruto's the parent and Boruto is the child. A child shouldn't have to chase their own parent around in circles to get 5 minutes of their time. What kind of backwards logic was that? XD