Let me be more clear. Is it weird? To me, yes, but I won't condemn them for it. I won't shame them and tell them what to do. If it works for them, doesn't hurt anybody, then an adult can do whatever they want to do, even if it means them loosing a limb. If they won't abuse a system or what have you, anything negative basically, then let them do it. Again, I'm not someone with an ego who feels the need to say what is right and what is wrong.
You seem very focused on my Mother. I have to inform you that she is already in a relationship. So, although your jealousy is understood, I do not appreciate you trying to impede on our relationship. So, back off of Mother, please. Stay on topic.