Friends that get engagement/marriage and pregnancies young

[Kamui Sama]

You don't celebrate with them after they get engaged or have kids? Yea that is wrong Lol

Disagreeing with their actions is one thing, but what is done is done. You don't seem to be a very supportive friend lol

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

My cousin got married recently who is 21. My bro got engaged recently who is 22. in the end I was over the moon with both of them. I never cared for what age they were when they made that decision. Because in the end every person knows themselves when it is the right time to take that step. You can't judge them based on how you view your life. Because no ones life is the same.

 

[Ryu Kishi]

there will be plenty of time to get married and divorced, then married againg and have kids with dif daddys and diff mothers who are on drugs cause their parents got divorced when they were young. So ya you have alot of time :sdo:

 

[Sakura Michiko]

you say its immature but if you had someone that you loved that much you too would like to marry them.
If anything you're the one being immature.

They're your friend and they're happy, be happy for them.

I do understand where you're coming from though.
Love is blinding and your friends are being naive they should sit down and think their future before trying to start a family.

I have a boyfriend that I love dearly. I'm not getting married now cause I know I'm not financially capable of dealing with that or kids.I'm trying to start a career.I told him that when he asked to be engaged to me.<Yea that immature.Only two of my friends who have kid are financially stable.The rest aren't and the two that had kids had them on mistake because their protection broke. I not supporting the other ones because they said they forgot to use protection or aren't financially able to support a family.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

My cousin got married recently who is 21. My bro got engaged recently who is 22. in the end I was over the moon with both of them. I never cared for what age they were when they made that decision. Because in the end every person knows themselves when it is the right time to take that step. You can't judge them based on how you view your life. Because no ones life is the same.

I not sure about that.Most of them aren't financially cable of raising kids or marriage.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

I not sure about that.Most of them aren't financially cable of raising kids or marriage.

Well my bro is and so is my cousin.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Well my bro is and so is my cousin.

I can't agree with having kids(unless it was an accident) or being married when your aren't financially capable. That can make life hard or harder.My cousin just got his girlfriend pregnant and he doesn't have a job and he always asks my mom and aunts for money.(I consider him a friend too).He told me he wasn't thinking about protection during the time of the act.

 

[Natsu Shazneel]

I can't agree with having kids(unless it was an accident) or being married when your aren't financially capable. That can make life hard or harder.My cousin just got his girlfriend pregnant and he doesn't have a job and he always asks my mom and aunts for money.(I consider him a friend too).He told me he wasn't thinking about protection during the time of the act.

If the issue is about money. Then can't one person marry yet still try to control him or herself during ***?