Why do girls get mad for no reason?

[HashiramaDescendant]

There are reasons for everything. Your inability to understand and/or refusal to accept them is entirely on you. Maybe if you stop trying to be a victim and think about things from other perspectives, you will figure it out.

I'm very empathetic though. I like to UNDERSTAND you know what I mean? But not if you're trying to kill me when I do. :|

 

[Tennis Robot]

I'm very empathetic though. I like to UNDERSTAND you know what I mean? But not if you're trying to kill me when I do. :|

You aren't empathetic enough then. Maybe you shouldn't just give yourself labels like that.

 

[NineSNS]

There is always a reason.

This. It's not that there isn't a reason. It's because you either don't know it (because you haven't asked) or don't understand it, which is more likely.

The good news is that if you try to understand, you'll get bonus points for caring, but may still not understand.

The bad news is that if you never ask, you'll never know OR understand

 

[HashiramaDescendant]

You aren't empathetic enough then. Maybe you shouldn't just give yourself labels like that.

I'm not Naruto, I don't try to understand those who endanger my life. But I do see where you're coming from.

This. It's not that there isn't a reason. It's because you either don't know it (because you haven't asked) or don't understand it, which is more likely.

The good news is that if you try to understand, you'll get bonus points for caring, but may still not understand.

The bad news is that if you never ask, you'll never know OR understand

I'll ask again tomorrow then. Maybe she will be less belligerent.

 

[Chie]

This. It's not that there isn't a reason. It's because you either don't know it (because you haven't asked) or don't understand it, which is more likely.

The good news is that if you try to understand, you'll get bonus points for caring, but may still not understand.

The bad news is that if you never ask, you'll never know OR understand

Listen to UzumakiSama. She's right. U_U

 

[SkillMillTill]

They are deprived of the D

 

[Risuna23]

I still haven't wanked for 4 days.:|

 

[Tennis Robot]

I'm not Naruto, I don't try to understand those who endanger my life. But I do see where you're coming from.


I'll ask again tomorrow then. Maybe she will be less belligerent.

Then you aren't empathetic enough. That's what love is.

 

[villain55]

This. It's not that there isn't a reason. It's because you either don't know it (because you haven't asked) or don't understand it, which is more likely.

The good news is that if you try to understand, you'll get bonus points for caring, but may still not understand.

The bad news is that if you never ask, you'll never know OR understand

This is not that legit it was last week I got screamed at by my gf during school to may I might add, I asked why she was mad at me and I got the cold shoulder and the silent treatment for the day. I still don't know what I did exactly.

 

[Reflection]

Because they are eternally subordinate to their male counterparts.

 

[Made in Heaven]

How do you know it's for no reason?

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Ask yourself this, do you get mad for no reason?

 

[Chie]

This is not that legit it was last week I got screamed at by my gf during school to may I might add, I asked why she was mad at me and I got the cold shoulder and the silent treatment for the day. I still don't know what I did exactly.

There are different people in each gender group. Some girls are more calm than others, just as some guys are more calm than others. So, the same thing won't work for everyone. What UzumakiSama posted is the standard way of dealing with it.

So, you're saying your gf randomly out of the blue yelled at you and then when you showed that you cared appropriately, she didn't talk to you? I doubt it to be honest. What did she say when she yelled at you? That might tell you something.

 

[Tennis Robot]

This is not that legit it was last week I got screamed at by my gf during school to may I might add, I asked why she was mad at me and I got the cold shoulder and the silent treatment for the day. I still don't know what I did exactly.

It shouldn't matter. If you love her, show her you care; no matter what she says/does. Even if she "hates" you. No one wants to be alone, and I'm sure that eventually she will appreciate that you are always there for her. Even if she doesn't, it should feel good

 

[HashiramaDescendant]

Then you aren't empathetic enough. That's what love is.

You're trying to set me up... :|

This is not that legit it was last week I got screamed at by my gf during school to may I might add, I asked why she was mad at me and I got the cold shoulder and the silent treatment for the day. I still don't know what I did exactly.

Exactly. Someone who understands what I have to deal with. Except guys always have to be the ones to initiate rapproachment lol.

 

[Tennis Robot]

You're trying to set me up... :|


Exactly. Someone who understands what I have to deal with. Except guys always have to be the ones to initiate rapproachment lol.

I'm not trying to set you up. I'm trying to make you think about something. If you really love someone, their happiness should be your sole concern. You stop caring about yourself in your desire to make them happy, and you don't expect anything in return for what you do for them.

 

[Kaneki Kun]

Bruh females are so complicated that they can't even understand each other at times. Us n*g**s are different we just straight up with shit girls always have to be playing mind games like we back in high school. If you ever win an argument or point you don't, you still lose. Patience is key that's the only thing I can say.

 

[Callypigia]

Stripped down to the most basic level and generally speaking, they see things from a different perspective. Evolution plays a big role in the collective difference of perspective genders have. Women tend to see things on a more personal and emotional level (important for child rearing) and men see things on a more extrinsic and logical level (important for hunting and gathering). Of course, everyone is different because of our life experiences, but there are millions of years of developmental reason we have to and need to see things different.

 

[NineSNS]

I can only add that if someone gets angry at you for not automatically knowing what is wrong, either:

You have a tendency to brush off or belittle the issue when she does tell you something that's bothering her, or

She isn't comfortable being open or honest. Sometimes this can change with time as trust grows, but sometimes it doesn't.

 

[Kaneki Kun]

I can only add that if someone gets angry at you for not automatically knowing what is wrong, either:

You have a tendency to brush off or belittle the issue when she does tell you something that's bothering her, or

She isn't comfortable being open or honest. Sometimes this can change with time as trust grows, but sometimes it doesn't.

Preaaaachhh