Blaming cheating on someone else.

[Sakura Michiko]

My friend was cheated on by her boyfriend and she insist on blaming it on some guy that was at a party with him. She told me this guy gave her boyfriend alcohol and her boyfriend made out with some chick. Her boyfriend is 20. He is an adult and can make his choices. I told her that he wasn't worth dating and it's not his friend fault because her boyfriend could have turned down the alcohol. She just disregarded that and brings up how she hates that guy for making her boyfriend cheat on her. Am I wrong for ignoring her now when she brings that up?

 

[villain55]

Slap some sense into her and tell her to move on. The dude knew what he was doing.

You know what you should have her meet me on Craigslist I'll talk to her for you

 

[Calpal]

dude shes in love leave her alone lol

really though you girls can be psycho sometimes, not to say we dont have our own fair share.
But girl alway be havin dis me like "woah" and like sometimes also mostly "wut"

 

[-Punk-]

You're right, she is wrong, not debatable.

Her Boyfriend was weak, as simple as that.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

dude shes in love leave her alone lol

really though you girls can be psycho sometimes, not to say we dont have our own fair share.
But girl alway be havin dis me like "woah" and like sometimes also mostly "wut"

"You girls?" How about no.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Slap some sense and tell her to move on. The dude knew what he was doing.

You know what you should have her meet me on Craigslist I'll talk to her for you

omg XD

 

[Transcendence]

You're in the right here. If he was really in love with your friend, he wouldn't have cheated. Anybody who uses alcohol as an excuse is lying to themselves. I've been wasted out of my mind and been hit on at parties and still stayed true to someone I cared about. You maintain enough cognitive ability to judge your own actions and surroundings. Your friends boyfriend is just scum.

 

[TheAncientJinchuuriki]

If she keeps denying it, then there's no point in trying to help

 

[The Legendary Noob]

how did she find out? was she at the party too?

 

[Sakura Michiko]

You're in the right here. If he was really in love with your friend, he wouldn't have cheated. Anybody who uses alcohol as an excuse is lying to themselves. I've been wasted out of my mind and been hit on at parties and still stayed true to someone I cared about. You maintain enough cognitive ability to judge your own actions and surroundings. Your friends boyfriend is just scum.

Exactly, my boyfriend has went to parties and got drunk but never cheated on me.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

how did she find out?

He told her.

 

[Avani]

Nah just keep ignoring her. That's the best thing IMO. It's not something you can convince her of at the moment if she doesn't want to accept it. In fact if she is herself talking about it without any reason and keeps bringing it up she just might be trying to convince herself. That's really a pitiable situation at the moment and she would have to deal with it herself and decide what's acceptable to her and what's not in the long run.

 

[Reraru]

You are right and she just needs some time. Dattebayo!

 

[Neji Hyūga2]

You're right, she is wrong, not debatable.

Her Boyfriend was weak, as simple as that.

^ completely agreed.

If he can't resist the urge, that's the guys own fault. The friend has nothing to do with it.

If he says "I tried" you counter back, "not hard enough".

There is no excuse for it honestly.

 

[Transcendence]

Also just to add on to my post, your friend is in denial. She's trying to convince herself that he isn't bad, but in reality he is. Again, I can't stress it enough. For those couple of moments he forgot all about your friend and made out with another girl. That's not love at all. She should just move on and forget about him.

 

[Tennis Robot]

He told her.

That's a good sign. How well do you know both of them?

 

[villain55]

He told her.

He told her on his own or was it because he knew other people seen him cheat and figured he would get busted?

 

[BlazeRelease]

You're right, she is wrong, not debatable.

Her Boyfriend was weak, as simple as that.

Precisely this.

 

[The Necromancer]

I have never been so drunk that I would do something I wouldn't do sober.

I've blacked out numerous times, and yet I still haven't been drunk enough where I would cheat on my girlfriend or bang an ugly chick.

 

[GivenItz Boomer]

Slap some sense into her and tell her to move on. The dude knew what he was doing.

You know what you should have her meet me on Craigslist I'll talk to her for you

"Talk"