do you think i´m weird

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I have never kissed a girl on the lips, i never had a girlfriend per say and i´m 23 years old, i´m not gay just l´m just really shy and not good with words, do you think i´m weird because of that?

If you´re a girl do you think it´s advisable that i tell a girl the fact that i never kissed a girl before and i never had a girlfriend if i´m interested in her?
 

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I don't think you're weird, I just think you're an introvert who is scared of being social and has no game. & don't tell a girl you've never been with or kissed a girl, that's just creepy and they will be weirded out. Take to people and girls like you would a relative whom you are on good terms with, don't think too much about it or you'll embarrass yourself.
 

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I could see some girls finding that weird, but girls are all individuals, just like guys.
 
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You're acting childish.

So what if you've never kissed a girl? So what if you never had a girlfriend? So what if you are shy?

It's weird to think that you're in a strange situation when you're not. Just be natural around the girl, if you're interested. Don't try to force brownie points and sympathy your way to get their attention.
 

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Nothing like a midnight squabble, two on one. Shieet I was just gonna head to bed too.
 

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I have never kissed a girl on the lips, i never had a girlfriend per say and i´m 23 years old, i´m not gay just l´m just really shy and not good with words, do you think i´m weird because of that?

If you´re a girl do you think it´s advisable that i tell a girl the fact that i never kissed a girl before and i never had a girlfriend if i´m interested in her?

Don't take this the wrong way:

Reach down. What are those?

Balls?

Use em

Girls love when u use em

Be a man, speaks your mind

Most girls hate men that can't speak their mind.

One of the benefits of being a man

(Not saying women can't or don't)
 
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I have never kissed a girl on the lips, i never had a girlfriend per say and i´m 23 years old, i´m not gay just l´m just really shy and not good with words, do you think i´m weird because of that?

If you´re a girl do you think it´s advisable that i tell a girl the fact that i never kissed a girl before and i never had a girlfriend if i´m interested in her?

So moving away from this little brawl, let's go back to the actual point of this thread. I will repeat myself.

So what if you've never kissed a girl? So what if you never had a girlfriend? So what if you are shy?

It's weird to think that you're in a strange situation when you're not. Just be natural around the girl, if you're interested. Don't try to force brownie points and sympathy your way to get their attention.
 

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Don't take this the wrong way:

Reach down. What are those?

Balls?

Use em

Girls love when u use em

Be a man, speaks your mind

Most girls hate men that can't speak their mind.

One of the benefits of being a man

(Not saying women can't or don't)

@bold , Lol. that's a lie , but okay.
 

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Lol no, you've still got plenty of time. You can try taking little steps to overcoming your shyness. But the most important part is to be yourself around other people :)
 

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I don't think you're weird, I just think you're an introvert who is scared of being social and has no game. & don't tell a girl you've never been with or kissed a girl, that's just creepy and they will be weirded out. Take to people and girls like you would a relative whom you are on good terms with, don't think too much about it or you'll embarrass yourself.

It's not about "having game" or being scared of sociality.

And unless the OP is a kid in school, the kind of women he likes shouldn't "weirded out" by the fact that he hasn't kissed a girl. But since he's 23, most women that he should seek are mature enough and more often than not, find it cute.

It's bad advice to not tell a woman, especially if they're one you see yourself getting close to. Why? Because they'll know as soon as the first kiss occurs that you've never kissed before. And they're likely to either highlight that fact or remain unsure of you.

Do tell a girl, but time it well because if you get it right, it breeds a powerful advantage. It shows a girl that you trust them enough to confide in them and that you're innocent. It can tickle that certain spot.
 

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everyone has their own time, and good things should be rushed. If a girl likes you, she likes you, goes both ways.
 

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Nah, nothing weird about that o-o
 

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You're as normal as any other guy. just remember , being an introvert wont help u much in life
 
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