being loved

[legarcon]

What do you think it´s worst not being love at all or being loved and then lost that love?
Of course there are different kinds of love, like parental love, friends love etc, but the one i´m talking about this time is romantic love.
I dont wanna sound cheesy but what´s your opinion.

 

[Itachirules]

not being loved at all.

 

[Umari Senju]

"it's better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all."

depends on the person i guess.

I'd rather have loved and lost. At least I know what it means to have been loved or to have loved. Which means I can love/be loved again.

Never experiencing love at all, well that would probably be damaging to the human psyche I suppose.

 

[V h o]

Not being loved at all. At least the other one experienced love, and could potentially share it, but the other is kind of sad, I feel sorry for them

 

[elitenoob94]

Love is the exact saying: "A Mystery".

Recently I have changed my ways and dropped love. I'll wait until I'm ready. I'm too young right now. I have things in life to do before I find my babe.

 

[Itachirules]

"it's better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all."

depends on the person i guess.

I'd rather have loved and lost. At least I know what it means to have been loved or to have loved. Which means I can love/be loved again.

Never experiencing love at all, well that would probably be damaging to the human psyche I suppose.

thats what i said.. in a 5 word version though

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

Not being loved, that would be awful.

 

[Umari Senju]

thats what i said.. in a 5 word version though

actually not you didn't. you just said not being loved at all meaning you would rather never know love then to love and lose it. i was saying the opposite of that.

 

[Ryu Kishi]

Not being loved at all :NO:

 

[Itachirules]

actually not you didn't. you just said not being loved at all meaning you would rather never know love then to love and lose it. i was saying the opposite of that.

rofl your attempt to look smart failed. His question was which is worse to which i replied was never knowing loved.

 

[BlacLord™]

Ignorance is bliss.

"it's better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all."

depends on the person i guess.

I'd rather have loved and lost. At least I know what it means to have been loved or to have loved. Which means I can love/be loved again.

Never experiencing love at all, well that would probably be damaging to the human psyche I suppose.

Nah.

Never knowing love means never knowing what you're missing. Having loved and lost is what can cause damage, and can debilitate one's ability to "warm" again.

 

[The Mentalist]

What do you think it´s worst not being love at all or being loved and then lost that love?
Of course there are different kinds of love, like parental love, friends love etc, but the one i´m talking about this time is romantic love.
I dont wanna sound cheesy but what´s your opinion.

My personal opinion is that it is better to have loved and felt the pain of losing someone rather than not being at love at all. I can tell you from my personal experience there is nothing better in the world than to hug your girlfriend or that special person.

Of course the break up can be pretty devastating but hey what can you do se la vie.

 

[Umari Senju]

Ignorance is bliss.



Nah.

Never knowing love means never knowing what you're missing. Having loved and lost is what can cause damage, and can debilitate one's ability to "warm" again.

You have a point but if you never love at all, then you may never know what it is to be "warm" and come off as "cold" to those who have most likely have loved and lost. Misunderstandings happen, and no love could be seen as uncaring (which may not even be the case)

See where I am going with this? Not sure if I made much sense.

rofl your attempt to look smart failed. His question was which is worse to which i replied was never knowing loved.

I know and I wasn't trying to sound smart.

Just had to reread what you posted is all. But I stand corrected. no harm done

 

[Apdo]

18.83 years. It was the worst. But it wasn't as bad until I realized it lol.

 

[Tennis Robot]

18.83 years. It was the worst. But it wasn't as bad until I realized it lol.

Oh oops. ^That's me.

 

[Goetia]

Having love then losing it is some of the worst pain I can think of. At least if someone never knew love (when I say love, I say in regards to romantic love), they don't have anything to lose or never had anything to lose in the first place. When you lose that love you worked so hard to build, you feel so empty. It causes damage that never completely heals.

 

[legarcon]

Having love then losing it is some of the worst pain I can think of. At least if someone never knew love (when I say love, I say in regards to romantic love), they don't have anything to lose or never had anything to lose in the first place. When you lose that love you worked so hard to build, you feel so empty. It causes damage that never completely heals.

You gotta a point but also the fact that someone doesnt know what it is like to be loved doesnt mean it doesnt hurt, even though a person may not know by first hand what´s like to be loved, that person can see other people being loved, he can hear people saying and singing about love, he can watch in the tv movies and series about love while starving for love, the fact of the matter is that the person who doesnt know love still knows what he´s missing through other people, if he never saw other people loving each other he may never know what he´s missing and it may not hurt but since he can see other people loving he does know what he lacks, that is love, he know what love should be nevertheless he doesnt have it and feel it, but still feels a void created by the lack of love, plus the fact of seeing people loving each other and seeing himself alone makes him feel even lonelier, when you see people love each other but you are not loved, it feels kinda a self inflicted wound imo.

 

[Tennis Robot]

When you aren't loved, you feel like you don't deserve to be loved; like you are inherently unlovable. When you lose love, you feel like you did something wrong, and it can lead to a feeling similar to not knowing love, but not as bad.

 

[Transcendence]

Losing love after having it is worse, at least in my opinion. If you never had it in the first place, you don't know what you're missing. But if you lost it (like I have before), it casts a shadow over everything for you. It stays on your mind and can alter your mental state depending on how deep that love was.

 

[legarcon]

Losing love after having it is worse, at least in my opinion. If you never had it in the first place, you don't know what you're missing. But if you lost it (like I have before), it casts a shadow over everything for you. It stays on your mind and can alter your mental state depending on how deep that love was.

even if you dont have love, you can see other people loving, and that makes it more painful because you see other people have what you dont, even if you have never loved you still feel the need to love and being loved, if the person in question never saw people loving each other, he might not know what he´s missing but since he sees people loving each other he knows what love is but doesnt feel it by first hand.