[Discussion] Would you take back...

[Intuitive Mode Naruto]

there's a lot of hentai plot where a girl is found by some guy who then threatens to tell her boyfriend/love interest some secret about her he just found out unless she bangs him. Obviously it's fiction so it happens which it wouldn't in the real world but that's a scenario where it "might" happen.

Hmm, well if something like that happened in reality to me, I'd dump her/him anyways. Can't be trusting with people today.

 

[Forest]

Hell Nah

 

[Gintõki1]

Nope, i would not.
Couldn't trust that person anymore.

 

[Transcendence]

I've been cheated on twice. Lamented on the thoughts of both of them a lot, but ultimately came to the conclusion they weren't worth it. The first one actually wanted to get back together but after thinking about it, I couldn't bring myself to get back together. Trust me, the thought is there. You remember all the good things about the person and what you guys did together, but you'll never forget the bad, let alone something as bad as cheating. You're constantly reminded of that when you're with them. The relationship will never be the same.

Cheating is not something you do. It's a choice. When a person cheats, for that moment in time they were putting the thought of you aside and put themselves in someone else's arms. That is not a person who loves or who deserves to be loved. They are scum and trash.

 

[Dannie]

If the bish wants to cheat then so be it. I'll just find another fish.

 

[Intuitive Mode Naruto]

I've been cheated on twice. Lamented on the thoughts of both of them a lot, but ultimately came to the conclusion they weren't worth it. The first one actually wanted to get back together but after thinking about it, I couldn't bring myself to get back together. Trust me, the thought is there. You remember all the good things about the person and what you guys did together, but you'll never forget the bad, let alone something as bad as cheating. You're constantly reminded of that when you're with them. The relationship will never be the same.

Cheating is not something you do. It's a choice. When a person cheats, for that moment in time they were putting the thought of you aside and put themselves in someone else's arms. That is not a person who loves or who deserves to be loved. They are scum and trash.

They just love to throw out the word mistake. Tsk.

 

[Ryu Kishi]

They just love to throw out the word mistake. Tsk.

ya true, and they think there are no consequences to those mistakes. Yes we all make mistakes but we also have to pay for them.

 

[BlacLord™]

How in the world can someone be forced to cheat?

Rape.

You shouldn't blindly blank out potential scenarios without knowing all the facts.

OT: I don't do relationships, boring and I couldn't be bothered to make an effort for someone else. Casual fun all the way.

 

[Intuitive Mode Naruto]

Rape.

You shouldn't blindly blank out potential scenarios without knowing all the facts.

OT: I don't do relationships, boring and I couldn't be bothered to make an effort for someone else. Casual fun all the way.

Wtf. That makes no sense. If a girl gets raped doesn't mean she cheated.

 

[BlacLord™]

Wtf. That makes no sense. If a girl gets raped doesn't mean she cheated.

To cheat is to be sexually unfaithful, i.e. to have *** with someone else. Cheating itself doesn't define the circumstances.

 

[Intuitive Mode Naruto]

To cheat is to be sexually unfaithful, i.e. to have *** with someone else. Cheating itself doesn't define the circumstances.

Cheating to me is being sexually or emotionally unfaithful, willingly.

 

[Stephanos]

Depends on your definition of cheating. Cheating is commonly seen as the act of willingly kissing or having *** with someone else outside a relationship; others believe it starts at the heart (i.e., accommodating and feeding your urges) by secretly communicating and meeting with the person and lying about it or keeping it a secret (lying through omission) from your partner. If you're doing something that you have to keep a secret from or lie to your partner, then it's obviously something you shouldn't be doing. You can't control how you feel about someone, but you can control what you do about it.

And to answer your question... I have taken some back and ignored others. Can't say I have regretted either.

 

[Weazel]

Nah. Cheating is a definite deal-breaker for me.

It doesn't matter even if you're generally a... 'good' guy with everything else (aside from the fact that you've cheated of course) - if you're not satisfied enough with your partner, then you're better off finding someone else who will satisfy you, the same way your partner is better off finding someone else who's more faithful.

Or, if you're the type to fool around then you're better off not committing to a relationship.

I'd rather have someone break up with me straight before going off with another girl than two-timing. Makes things a lot cleaner.

Also, about a few of the posts above... Being a victim of rape = non-consensual. Cheating = consensual. They are not the same.