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You've all probably seen the countless prank videos on youtube where normal everyday girls go much further than they usually would for a guy either showing off his money or his expensive car. Are these pranks revealing a side to women we didn't know? Atleast we're starting to see much more girls are like this then we initially thought, then are they all whores? I don't think so, there is probably an evolutionary reason for their behavior and here is what I think.
Even if we live in the modern world, our brains haven't developed much since our caveman days, infact it's in probably almost every female species behavior to want to mate with the alpha male who can provide security for them and their offspring, that's just common sense. Then instead of judging these women in these pranks who look like they would do anything for the right price and not liking you for your "personality". Something that goes beyond material possesions and we uniquely identify ourselves with which btw we think that's love when that happens because we've been fed that by mainstream media. Perhaps we should ask ourselves if love really exists in the first place. To me love is a vague concept that is thrown out there for people to believe that "the right one is out there" and I think it's alright to believe that, but truth be told: We don't love others for them, we love what they can do for us and this goes for everyone.
Now you might be thinking "OMG!! Are you saying I don't love my mom?! Screw you!" and I'm not the judge of that, it might sound harsh at first and I'll get a little freaky with you but there is something you need to understand. Thing is our whole lives are based on our value systems and how others fit in it, what value we give to others and what value they give to us. It doesn't mean we're good or bad people, it's in our nature to do this because it's part of our survival instincts to determine if it's in our best interest to have somebody in our lives based on what they can do/did for us. This happens on a subconcious level so we can't reflect without having observed it first, it's based on our upbringing of learning how the world works and I think it's good to have it aslong as we don't compromise our integrity or step on others to get what we want.
So I thought I would wrap this up, been rambling long enough about different things that are correlated. I hope you understand why there are "gold diggers" and how social conditioning prompts us to look at them in a bad light because truth be told, we're all gold diggers in our own way but the term is solely used to describe a section of women regarding money for different reasons, anyway I'm done.
Even if we live in the modern world, our brains haven't developed much since our caveman days, infact it's in probably almost every female species behavior to want to mate with the alpha male who can provide security for them and their offspring, that's just common sense. Then instead of judging these women in these pranks who look like they would do anything for the right price and not liking you for your "personality". Something that goes beyond material possesions and we uniquely identify ourselves with which btw we think that's love when that happens because we've been fed that by mainstream media. Perhaps we should ask ourselves if love really exists in the first place. To me love is a vague concept that is thrown out there for people to believe that "the right one is out there" and I think it's alright to believe that, but truth be told: We don't love others for them, we love what they can do for us and this goes for everyone.
Now you might be thinking "OMG!! Are you saying I don't love my mom?! Screw you!" and I'm not the judge of that, it might sound harsh at first and I'll get a little freaky with you but there is something you need to understand. Thing is our whole lives are based on our value systems and how others fit in it, what value we give to others and what value they give to us. It doesn't mean we're good or bad people, it's in our nature to do this because it's part of our survival instincts to determine if it's in our best interest to have somebody in our lives based on what they can do/did for us. This happens on a subconcious level so we can't reflect without having observed it first, it's based on our upbringing of learning how the world works and I think it's good to have it aslong as we don't compromise our integrity or step on others to get what we want.
So I thought I would wrap this up, been rambling long enough about different things that are correlated. I hope you understand why there are "gold diggers" and how social conditioning prompts us to look at them in a bad light because truth be told, we're all gold diggers in our own way but the term is solely used to describe a section of women regarding money for different reasons, anyway I'm done.
