Insecurity and Facebook

[Sakura Michiko]

I have a friend who always trips about his girlfriend posting pictures on facebook. He says that he doesn't like it because it's messing up their relationship because she replies to the people that compliment her or like her pictures by saying thank you, she is in facebook art groups, and makeup groups. So he asked for advice and I told him that he was ruining the relationship because he was insecure and being too controlling and he needs to chill out before he becomes single again .He tried to deny that he was insecure. I'm friends with his girlfriend and she doesn't even post pictures of herself often. Is he being insecure?

 

[Saikyokami]

Yes he is
He needs to stop being a bitch

 

[im not]

Yes and they need to talk about it

 

[Sakura Michiko]

Yes and they nerd to talk about it

They always call me when they talk about it. It's stupid. He is the one always causing problems. According to his girlfriend when ever they fussed he always assume he is fussing too much or something stupid like facebook. They barely even fuss and he be tripping.

 

[seeid salih]

your avatar made me lol....anyways are you talking about your boyfriend by any chance??

 

[im not]

Well he needs to live with it or live without her

 

[Goetia]

Yes he is
He needs to stop being a bitch

I still remember that quote in your sig :/

OT: Yes, even if just a bit.

 

[-immortal-]

Good for him. Good for her, not a big deal.

 

[10th]

I don't know how long they've been together but I see couple red flags, they should either solve it or move on.

 

[Vapid]

He is most definitely being an insecure little bish and is showing signs of an aspiring woman beater.

Your friend should be jailed for life before it's too late and he lays his filthy hands on a woman.

 

[rickjamesbitceh]

controlling maybe, but honestly if he's feeling insecure it's probably because she's giving him cause to be. if it seems like she thrives when at the center of attention then most likely men are expendable to her, because all she's after is the affirmation they provide her. these sort of people are unsuited for a mature full-fledged relationship. they're immature, adult-children fixated on some point of their psychosexual development due to past trauma that only care about sucking up as much attention and admiration from their environment as possible, like a seedling. people are tools, sources of supply to them. look into histrionic personality disorder, the feminine variant of narcissism.

so it likely is cause for alarm, and one symptom of many this person likely presents. it's his gut feeling guiding him and from what ive learnt from my little time here on gods green earth, when it comes to people at least, it rarely leads you astray.

 

[Y3LL0WM4GT]

controlling maybe, but honestly if he's feeling insecure it's probably because she's giving him cause to be. if it seems like she thrives when at the center of attention then most likely men are expendable to her, because all she's after is the affirmation they provide her. these sort of people are unsuited for a mature full-fledged relationship. they're immature, adult-children fixated on some point of their psychosexual development due to past trauma that only care about sucking up as much attention and admiration from their environment as possible, like a seedling. people are tools, sources of supply to them. look into histrionic personality disorder, the feminine variant of narcissism.

so it likely is cause for alarm, and one symptom of many this person likely presents. it's his gut feeling guiding him and from what ive learnt from my little time here on gods green earth, when it comes to people at least, it rarely leads you astray.

LOL every time when I see your posts I can't understand a shit what you are saying, man your language is so alienated -_-

OP: From what I can see there won't be long time when they will break-up. In my opinion the guy has problem with himself.

 

[Sakura Michiko]

controlling maybe, but honestly if he's feeling insecure it's probably because she's giving him cause to be. if it seems like she thrives when at the center of attention then most likely men are expendable to her, because all she's after is the affirmation they provide her. these sort of people are unsuited for a mature full-fledged relationship. they're immature, adult-children fixated on some point of their psychosexual development due to past trauma that only care about sucking up as much attention and admiration from their environment as possible, like a seedling. people are tools, sources of supply to them. look into histrionic personality disorder, the feminine variant of narcissism.

so it likely is cause for alarm, and one symptom of many this person likely presents. it's his gut feeling guiding him and from what ive learnt from my little time here on gods green earth, when it comes to people at least, it rarely leads you astray.

How does one want attention when they rarely post stuff about themselves?

 

[Sakura Michiko]

I don't know how long they've been together but I see couple red flags, they should either solve it or move on.

They've been dating for a year.

 

[10th]

They've been dating for a year.

I think he should end the relationship, he's needy meaning he thinks he can lose her which means they weren't meant for each other so I think she will cheat on him as time pass if she ain't already. Also it depends on what type of pictures she posts and what comments she responds to.

 

[Naruto D Luffy]

He need to find another one and she need to find another one

 

[Sakura Michiko]

I think he should end the relationship, he's needy meaning he thinks he can lose her which means they weren't meant for each other so I think she will cheat on him as time pass if she ain't already. Also it depends on what type of pictures she posts and what comments she responds to.

She post pictures with friends or of herself. She is like 3 hours away from home at college and she'll post picture for the family and friend back home to see. She is a good girl.She wouldn't cheat because she was cheated on in all her pass relationships.