so what's with homosexuals and feminine looking men?

[TobiWanShinobi]

i thought the attraction was a contradiction. someone explain? ion want no beef i'm just asking

 

[Chie]

I don't even get what you're trying to ask people in the first place. If homosexuals go after bishounens (pretty boys)?

This thread makes no sense.

 

[TobiWanShinobi]

I don't even get what you're trying to ask people in the first place. If homosexuals go after bishounens (pretty boys)?

This thread makes no sense.

what the hell is that? not everyone buries their life in japan culture cause of some good reads and the odd decent visuals. also im asking why gay men like men that dress and act like women

 

[TobiWanShinobi]

troll how? you people are smart enough to decode my apparent bs lingo so someone answer me. why do gay men like men that dress and act like women?

 

[Floydical]

Well, yes, a homosexual man is likely attracted to masculine heterosexual men... but that's not ultra productive is it? Truth is that they obviously look for other homosexual men and considering most are feminine, they likely take on a more feminine look. The bottom line is that they must also find themselves attracted to feminine men as well, although they might fantasize differently.

Edit: Those who think the OP makes no sense are the trolls here. He's saying Homosexuals are attracted to masculine heteros, yet most homosexuals (those that would return their love) often dress/ act feminine.

 

[Joon]

Feminine men are general stereotypical perspective of a homosexual man when that is not necessarily true.

 

[BlazeRelease]

what the hell is that? not everyone buries their life in japan culture cause of some good reads and the odd decent visuals. also im asking why gay men like men that dress and act like women

I'm gay but I don't like feminine looking men.

It's rather offsetting and perplexes me as well, seeing as the whole concept is man-man based, but I guess just as different cultures find different things attractive, maybe this applies for different sexualities too.

I also try not to apply gender roles, like looking "feminine", as that is subjective, because what's feminine to you might be manly to someone else.

 

[Saikyokami]

I'm gay but I don't like feminine looking men.

It's rather offsetting and perplexes me as well, seeing as the whole concept is man-man based, but I guess just as different cultures find different things attractive, maybe this applies for different sexualities too.

I also try not to apply gender roles, like looking "feminine", as that is subjective, because what's feminine to you might be manly to someone else.

Tranny man those guys that dress in full drag wear make up those kind of guys
I don'T see how anyone would think of that as manly

 

[TobiWanShinobi]

I'm gay but I don't like feminine looking men.

It's rather offsetting and perplexes me as well, seeing as the whole concept is man-man based, but I guess just as different cultures find different things attractive, maybe this applies for different sexualities too.

I also try not to apply gender roles, like looking "feminine", as that is subjective, because what's feminine to you might be manly to someone else.

I see I see. I didn't mean just appearance though; I'm talking body language, they way they walk, talk etc. characteristics commonly found in women. You answered as a gay man and I appreciate it. I guess people like different things.

 

[BlazeRelease]

Tranny man those guys that dress in full drag wear make up those kind of guys

Tranny = total turnoff >_>

I don't understand that specific type of sexual attraction either, but that's what makes the whole concept of sexuality isn't it?

Just like I don't understand how someone finds a female attractive, it's just lumps in my eyes.

 

[BlazeRelease]

I see I see. I didn't mean just appearance though; I'm talking body language, they way they walk, talk etc. characteristics commonly found in women. You answered as a gay man and I appreciate it. I guess people like different things.

I have theorized that gay men started out acting feminine as a way to not conform to other men as they felt different from them, so they develope different speech patterns and end up feeling more "feminine" and then adjust their life style as such.

I guess since I never felt the need to conform with anything I didn't end up like that.

Nowadays though it's almost like "gay culture" so that's how they act.

 

[SasukeTheViper EMS]

Androgynous characters are quite common in the manga/anime realm.

 

[TobiWanShinobi]

Androgynous characters are quite common in the manga/anime realm.

kinda don't get why you asked me that but ok.

 

[Fountain]

Having women and feminine taste overall doesn't necessarily mean you gay, Just that you are a fаggοt, And not necessarily a fаggot since some people are born that way.

 

[EmotionalRockfish]

im asking why gay men like men that dress and act like women

Firstly, your making a generalization. Gay men all have different tastes, just like straight men and other people. Some gay men like feminine men because that's what they like. Maybe they find them aesthetically pleasing?

I'm a bi women, so I can't give you the exact answer. I have a preference feminine men because I'm attracted to femininity, I appreciate men that aren't bound by stereotypes and gender roles, and if your going to compete with the ladies, you better be just as pretty... But yeah, I find feminine men aesthetically pleasing, I can see gay men doing that too.

Also power dynamics.

 

[JStar King]

Firstly, your making a generalization. Gay men all have different tastes, just like straight men and other people. Some gay men like feminine men because that's what they like. Maybe they find them aesthetically pleasing?

I'm a bi women, so I can't give you the exact answer. I have a preference feminine men because I'm attracted to femininity, I appreciate men that aren't bound by stereotypes and gender roles, and if your going to compete with the ladies, you better be just as pretty... But yeah, I find feminine men aesthetically pleasing, I can see gay men doing that too.

Also power dynamics.

Thank you for this answer.

 

[BlacLord™]

Did you really just put all gay guys in the same box?