Would you cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend if it was guaranteed they'd never know?

Would?

  • Yes, I would cheat

    Votes: 40 29.0%
  • No, I would not cheat

    Votes: 98 71.0%

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People with morals have been brainwashed into thinking that doing one thing (in this case, cheating) is wrong, plain and simple. And it's not even debatable.

It's all about upbringing. Most of you were molded to categorize things as right and wrong like slaves. Me? I was raised with freedom of thought and wasn't ideologically restricted as a child.

Getting mad because of this is silly. You can't help that you were raised to be a slave of your predecessors' ideals and convictions.

that's... horrible logic. the bolded especially...

upbringing is vital, sure, but with mass media in this day and age, it's tough no to get a grasp on how society functions. secrets, lies, betrayal are things humanity has shunned since day one, and regardless, it is done but not out of some dropped morality, but rather self preservation and/or a skewed sense of judgement.

usually when one cheats, there is a chance of being found out. here that chance does not exist, so self-preservation is not an issue and temptation in and of itself is fairly useless. the reason is because the person answering the question already knows the circumstances and is making a conscious decision to betray their significant other.

not really upbringing, just sumbag-tier bullshit.
 

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People with morals have been brainwashed into thinking that doing one thing (in this case, cheating) is wrong, plain and simple. And it's not even debatable.

It's all about upbringing. Most of you were molded to categorize things as right and wrong like slaves. Me? I was raised with freedom of thought and wasn't ideologically restricted as a child.

Getting mad because of this is silly. You can't help that you were raised to be a slave of your predecessors' ideals and convictions.
Not really. I just tend to refrain do anything that hurts other people, or in this case, myself. Morals protect the masses. If there were none, there would be chaos.
 

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Thanks for the input.


You're asking the wrong guy, I don't have those answers. The thought of cheating on my lover makes me sick to my stomach.

But it happens to millions of people across the world every day. The sensible thing may be to leave, but it's also not sensible to go on killing sprees, shoot up movie theaters and schools, throw acid on people's faces, sell people into slavery, but all that kind of shit happens. If a question of it not being "sensible" was the only thing inhibiting these people, then we wouldn't have these problems, would we?

Is it sensible to be a human that no one wants around because you can't be trusted?

Killing is worse for humanity, but everyone values happiness, and that's what cheaters compromise for there own lust and that is why it's wrong.

Not because cheating is wrong (an opinion), but because they are a detriment to human happiness.
 

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Because anybody can talk a big game, but I know well over half of you would do it. Over 50% of marriages fail every day and they all took vows in front of the good Lord himself to stick it out, no matter WHAT, forever and ever more. I don't know what fantasy world you're living in, but those rules simply apply based on objective foresight.

If Victoria Justice or Jessica Alba rolled through in a bikini looking for somebody to show them a good time, who are most people gonna choose, especially on a guarantee of never being caught? Their wife of 15 years who they've been sick of for years or some fresh new tail for a legendary night?

Maybe you'd abstain. Doesn't mean everybody else who promises to will, as the data clearly says otherwise. I'm just gauging the honesty.


Not everybody has that level of self-respect or respect for their chosen partner. Hence why cheating and affairs are such a high factor for divorce and what not.



You always come through, Scrafty.

And who are you to say that 50% of people here are lying? You keep talking like you know exactly what we're gonna do, is it because you yourself succumbed to it before, so you need believe that many others will do the same?

It's typical school failure. If you fail a test or subject, you feel bad, unless you see a few others also fail. You think to yourself ¨Oh I wasn't the only one, then I'm not so bad.¨ The more people who fell short, the less bad you feel about yourself for it. You have cheated in the past, you feel bad about it to this day, you have said so yourself. This is your attempt to feel less bad about it, after all, if many others also failed the test, it's not your fault, the test was designed for so much failure. You didn't fall short, you had no choice in the matter, it's just human nature to make that f**k-up at least half of the time.

Like I said, you oughta speak for yourself.

People with morals have been brainwashed into thinking that doing one thing (in this case, cheating) is wrong, plain and simple. And it's not even debatable.

It's all about upbringing. Most of you were molded to categorize things as right and wrong like slaves. Me? I was raised with freedom of thought and wasn't ideologically restricted as a child.

Getting mad because of this is silly. You can't help that you were raised to be a slave of your predecessors' ideals and convictions.

I've actually seen another post of yours saying how you believe there is no goal in life, no merit to wanting to be something because we're all gonna die eventually. You're nothing more than a nihilist who needs to view and express the world in a shitty demeanor to feel good about all the shit he was forced to eat in own life. No, people with morals aren't brainwashed, you simply know, deep down, that your lack-of is an attempt to undermine people who see value in the world and their actions, because you don't wanna feel bad about your own lack of value. You can't see a value in the world and the actions of people, either negative or positive, but you can't be odd for it, you're normal, the people who do have values, and goals, and morals, they're the weirdos, right?
 

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Not really. I just tend to refrain do anything that hurts other people, or in this case, myself. Morals protect the masses. If there were none, there would be chaos.
What's wrong with chaos? Nothing. You were raised to think that mass mayhem, killing, rape and cheating are 'wrong'. Well guess what: 'Wrong' is a human construct.
 

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Mature isn't close to the right word. If anything, his situation shows these things about him at the time:

1. Lack of worth in his word-He broke the unspoken promise of commitment and devotion to your partner in a relationship, his integrity was compromised

2. Poor judgement and decision making skills-Staying in a relationship with someone who wasn't good to him and made him feel that way, as well as getting drunk and having *** with a stranger

3. Selfishness-He completely disregarded the feelings, wants and needs of his partner, letting his own desires and wants overtake him and lead him to doing something that would hurt them, based on irrational and brief, intense emotion.

If it wasn't for remorse, they'd be nothing redeemable about what happened with him.

I completely agree. I wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend. That situation has presented itself in the past and I turned the other girl down. I only said that stuff because I wanted to rile some people up because it's a boring Thursday night. But just because I didn't cheat, doesn't mean I condemn others for choosing to do so. Everyone is an individual and free to make their own choices
 

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It's human nature. Many have the desire to try other things.
 

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That is a very mature example of why someone would cheat. Sometimes ending a relationship isn't as easy as just leaving. You were in a bad spot and you gave in to a moment of weakness. It's one thing to do that and another to cheat on your wife and mother of your children by having *** with a different woman in your marital bed
I don't know if mature is the right word per se, but I appreciate you seeing my view. It's easy to cast stones, but there's 2 sides to every story. Like you said, leaving isn't as easy as people make it out to be sometimes.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not proud that I cheated on somebody I cared about. But things like this happen in life. I was mistreated, ran out of my own home, made to feel like a genuinely bad person because of little mistakes like forgetting to change the car battery or walk her dog. I was emotionally unstable, intoxicated, and I was weak. Such if humanity.

Lmfao . Of course. Even if she did.. Who cares.
Dead.
Mature isn't close to the right word. If anything, his situation shows these things about him at the time:

1. Lack of worth in his word-He broke the unspoken promise of commitment and devotion to your partner in a relationship, his integrity was compromised

2. Poor judgement and decision making skills-Staying in a relationship with someone who wasn't good to him and made him feel that way, as well as getting drunk and having *** with a stranger

3. Selfishness-He completely disregarded the feelings, wants and needs of his partner, letting his own desires and wants overtake him and lead him to doing something that would hurt them, based on irrational and brief, intense emotion.

If it wasn't for remorse, they'd be nothing redeemable about what happened with him.
I won't deny it was poor judgement and incredibly selfish, but the blame doesn't rely solely with me. I was mistreated, emotionally run-down, and my confidence was low. My inebriation and a girl who made me feel "good" combined with my troubled mindset resulted in us doing the deed.

It was certainly a mistake, but I don't regret it nor do I regret that shitty relationship. I grew immensely and learned many valuable lessons. The *** was pretty bomb too, I won't lie :hyper:

It is the year 2014. Morality is a constraint upon the great
Some Orochimaru-like thinkers up in this piece.
 

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What's wrong with chaos? Nothing. You were raised to think that mass mayhem, killing, rape and cheating are 'wrong'. Well guess what: 'Wrong' is a human construct.

Lol Now you're just being ridiculous.
 

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Monogamy is nothing more than a commonly accepted lie.

How can people support monogamy and yet hate homosexuals? Contradiction much? Both encourage the altering of the natural.
 

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What's wrong with chaos? Nothing. You were raised to think that mass mayhem, killing, rape and cheating are 'wrong'. Well guess what: 'Wrong' is a human construct.
Lol, you are an idiot. You honestly believe you are above all that. So much bullshit in one post.
 

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What's wrong with chaos? Nothing. You were raised to think that mass mayhem, killing, rape and cheating are 'wrong'. Well guess what: 'Wrong' is a human construct.

I understand your mindset.
You believe everything, every concept, every idea, is meaningless, and that they are just existences in this universe.

Nothing is right or wrong, those are just man made perceptions that we enforce to make the world the way we want it to be.
 

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I understand your mindset.
You believe everything, every concept, every idea, is meaningless, and that they are just existences in this universe.

Nothing is right or wrong, those are just man made perceptions that we enforce to make the world the way we want it to be.
And that is a good thing. That is how we are supposed to live. Without it we wouldn't be living, and who wants to die?
 

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What's wrong with chaos? Nothing. You were raised to think that mass mayhem, killing, rape and cheating are 'wrong'. Well guess what: 'Wrong' is a human construct.

I agree that nothing in the world is inherently right or wrong, things that are right, and things that are wrong, those are titles that humans gave the world.

But it also up for human beings to interpret the world. There is no instruction manual to the universe, humans deciding what's right and what's wrong, there is nothing faulty about that, because the universe is ours, we decide what rules we wanna live by. Humans picking what's right and wrong is the greatest form of chaos this universe will ever see, and you know right?

Geographical differences in standards and values, Japanese eat dogs and watch schoolgirls get ****ed by octopi, we cringe, and they cringe at our non-pixelated vaginas.

Middle Easterners see a female politician, and their balls drop off.

Yes, truly, human beings saying ¨**** what the universe wants, who made it? We don't care. It's ours, and we're deciding what goes¨ is the ultimate form of chaos because by establishing a status quo of our own, we went against the one already there, and our status quo is immensely inconsistent and contradictory as a whole. The status quo of the world isn't against chaos, it IS chaos.
 

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I don't know if mature is the right word per se, but I appreciate you seeing my view. It's easy to cast stones, but there's 2 sides to every story. Like you said, leaving isn't as easy as people make it out to be sometimes.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not proud that I cheated on somebody I cared about. But things like this happen in life. I was mistreated, ran out of my own home, made to feel like a genuinely bad person because of little mistakes like forgetting to change the car battery or walk her dog. I was emotionally unstable, intoxicated, and I was weak. Such if humanity.


Dead.

I won't deny it was poor judgement and incredibly selfish, but the blame doesn't rely solely with me. I was mistreated, emotionally run-down, and my confidence was low. My inebriation and a girl who made me feel "good" combined with my troubled mindset resulted in us doing the deed.

It was certainly a mistake, but I don't regret it nor do I regret that shitty relationship. I grew immensely and learned many valuable lessons. The *** was pretty bomb too, I won't lie :hyper:


Some Orochimaru-like thinkers up in this piece.
Lmao, no. The blame is solely on you. If someone made you feel like shit, leave them. What the hell? What kind of excuse is being emotionally unstable? You chose to cheat, you chose not to leave them, you did it. In the end result, it's your fault and no one else's. Be responsible for you, homeslice.
 

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What's wrong with chaos? Nothing. You were raised to think that mass mayhem, killing, rape and cheating are 'wrong'. Well guess what: 'Wrong' is a human construct.
The internet is a human construct, stop using it since you're above that.
 

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What's wrong with chaos? Nothing. You were raised to think that mass mayhem, killing, rape and cheating are 'wrong'. Well guess what: 'Wrong' is a human construct.

so, are they "right" in your opinion?
and if there's no right or wrong and we all live in anarchy and free from moralities and ideologies, would that be your ideal world?
 
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