never having parents vs having parents then losing them

[Darth Uchiha]

It's a train-wreck. I have no idea why Darth Uchiha decided to share his personal life though. There are kids here, and morons. Suicide is too sensitive a topic to discuss openly here.

I didn't share my personal life, I shared my perspective, Vapid decided what my life was like, and decided to insult me.

 

[Darth Uchiha]

That will get you nowhere. I could sit here and feel entitled to be treated a certain way because of my experiences, and lash out at anyone who doesn't comply. Where would that get me though? I will have distributed my pain to someone else (with no knowledge of their pain), and brought it back upon myself as well. Nothing is alleviated; you only create more pain that way.

Whatever, he was wrong, I won't change that view, he's no better than a bully.

 

[Edenia]

It's about the same tbh. I would say loneliness is maybe a little worse.

I understand that, the thing is,the pain of solitude can be unbearable yes but it doesn't have the impact of a traumatic experience. I like to watch neuroscience shows and most people who go through mass murders or abuse, usually, no matter the time skip, repress them into their subconscious. I've watched a documentary in which children later in life got a syndrome of multi personalities including the one of the killer or abuser...they somehow always get back to that! I'm not saying it happens to all of them...


Whereas in children who were abandoned, given to adoption or lived without parents, the future consequences are not that extreme...most overcome that situation by finding love in their new family or getting along in a group with fellow orphans...of course there are many cases who reject the fact of being adopted when they're told later in life.

 

[Tennis Robot]

Whatever, he was wrong, I won't change that view, he's no better than a bully.

And you are better for wanting him to be just as injured as you?

I understand that, the thing is,the pain of solitude can be unbearable yes but it doesn't have the impact of a traumatic experience. I like to watch neuroscience shows and most people who go through mass murders or abuse, usually, no matter the time skip, repress them into their subconscious. I've watched a documentary in which children later in life got a syndrome of multi personalities including the one of the killer or abuser...they somehow always get back to that! I'm not saying it happens to all of them...


Whereas in children who were abandoned, given to adoption or lived without parents, the future consequences are not that extreme...most overcome that situation by finding love in their new family or getting along in a group with fellow orphans...of course there are many cases who reject the fact of being adopted when they're told later in life.

As far as psychological repercussions go, I would say that loneliness is probably healthier though. At least during the developmental stage. But I think it depends most on the nature of one's loneliness/love.

 

[Vapid]

I didn't share my personal life, I shared my perspective, Vapid decided what my life was like, and decided to insult me.

I know your kind, and though you couldn't help that you had your bread buttered before school and the real world, you are still just a little baby who couldn't handle the real world. I'm not bullying you; I'm just making an assessment based on what you've told me.

 

[Tennis Robot]

I know your kind, and though you couldn't help that you had your bread buttered before school and the real world, you are still just a little baby who couldn't handle the real world. I'm not bullying you; I'm just making an assessment based on what you've told me.

What are you trying to accomplish? I defended you; now I want to know why.

 

[shelke]

I know your kind, and though you couldn't help that you had your bread buttered before school and the real world, you are still just a little baby who couldn't handle the real world. I'm not bullying you; I'm just making an assessment based on what you've told me.

If bread a misnomer for muffin? Because I have heard of that kind differently.

 

[Darth Uchiha]

And you are better for wanting him to be just as injured as you?.

I don't presume to be any better, I believe, if he wants to make judgements of me and my suffering, he should first experience every second of it.

 

[shelke]

I didn't share my personal life, I shared my perspective, Vapid decided what my life was like, and decided to insult me.

You said you were bullied to the point where you became suicidal? Did I read it right or am I just insane as it's 6 am, and I have to sleep and cuddle my pillow for some dirty dreams to kick in?

 

[Tennis Robot]

I don't presume to be any better, I believe, if he wants to make judgements of me and my suffering, he should first experience every second of it.

As I said before, that will not benefit anyone.

 

[Darth Uchiha]

I know your kind, and though you couldn't help that you had your bread buttered before school and the real world, you are still just a little baby who couldn't handle the real world. I'm not bullying you; I'm just making an assessment based on what you've told me.

My kind, HAHA, what a joke! First off, I'm not rich, if that's what you believe, in fact, for most of the summer, my father was so poor that we didn't even have electricity at times. Little baby, yeah, I'd say 4 was a baby, face it, you're just another one of those pampered idiots, thinking they actually can even comprehend suffering, when they've always gotten what they wanted in life, the absolute worse type of person.

 

[Darth Uchiha]

You said you were bullied to the point where you became suicidal? Did I read it right or am I just insane as it's 6 am, and I have to sleep and cuddle my pillow for some dirty dreams to kick in?

I mentioned it because someone said that being bullied your entire life is no big deal.

 

[shelke]

This thread needs to be closed. This has gotten out of hand.

 

[Tennis Robot]

Perhaps I'm being too intrusive. I have definitely been ineffective. I'm sorry for that. I really am...

 

[shelke]

I mentioned it because someone said that being bullied your entire life is no big deal.

Let it be a lesson then. Don't share your personal life so freely. Even that has consequences.

 

[Darth Uchiha]

Perhaps I'm being too intrusive. I have definitely been ineffective. I'm sorry for that. I really am...

You're not the problem here.

 

[Tennis Robot]

You're not the problem here.

I was unable to resolve a conflict that I knew how to resolve. That is a failure on my part. My rhetoric needs work hahaha.

 

[Vapid]

you're just another one of those pampered idiots, thinking they actually can even comprehend suffering, when they've always gotten what they wanted in life, the absolute worse type of person.

You described yourself perfectly, and you know what's funny? It's not even your fault. Blame your parents for raising you to be such a little cry baby; with that upbringing, you never stood a chance in the real world.

 

[lucario14]

Getting back on topic, the OP is wrong.

 

[Tennis Robot]

In fact, I may have actually made it worse.