I need help in life right now

[Torche]

Yeah I am but we don't hang out outside of school and I don't hang out with the wrestlers outside of school either just a few but the ones I do are pretty boring and we don't do much when we hang out

Well then maybe hang out with the "mischief makers" a little and see how it goes, after that make your decision.

 

[SenjuOmar]

True friends you say? You can still be friends with them even if your not on the team right? As for only hanging out with your teammates outside of school, I think you should do just that. Well, I'm just saying about the mischief part. What does high school experience mean to you? High school experience doesn't always/solely mean having parties and kind of things you mentioned. I'm not even sure where that came from.

If you really enjoy those things so to speak, then wrestling will just be in your way. If you do not enjoy wrestling as much, then you don't have to be in the team. I say you still should be in wrestling though. It's just my opinion.

That's why I feel like quiting and I want to just bmx party and hook up with all these girls and do all that fun stuff and wrestling doesn't condon it

 

[SenjuOmar]

Well then maybe hang out with the "mischief makers" a little and see how it goes, after that make your decision.

Yeah I was going to hang out with some of them tomorrow and I'll see what's good

 

[Blizzard3]

Haven't read all but first thing is first, if you are having doubts about a sport take a break. Don't do any wrestling for about a month then make your choice.
Now as far as the credits are concern, go to a community college. Not sure where you from, but one semester should count like a year. Take foreign language for ex. I believe you need 2 years of it to graduate. Take 1 semester (about 3 months) and it should count like a year. Of course this is a scenario if you are a hs student. If you are a college student, you are kind of screwed

 

[Xlad]

That's why I feel like quiting and I want to just bmx party and hook up with all these girls and do all that fun stuff and wrestling doesn't condon it

Well, if that's what you want. Then I won't or rather can't stop you. Lol As gobb01 mentioned, try it a little as see how it's going for you. Then come to a decision after that.

 

[MadaraReturns]

Yeah I'm pretty good at wrestling like really good one of the best on the team like 8th and our school is a ranked school in California but yeah I skate but I suck but I bmx more and I want to get into it again and that whole group of friends skate and or bmx

wish we could wrestle, nobody likes to wrestle me lol because i win easily, only older people.. but if they're good people, you can just ask them to bmx together? it's not that the rest of the world hangs out with eachother without someone asking the other person hahaha, tho it has to come from 2 side, so after you take the initiative, it shouldn't be that if you don't ask them to hang out or talk, that there won't be a conversation or chilling. if it is one sided, you should just leave them be and hang out with other GOOD people

 

[KingHashirama]

Here is the thing. School =/= Fun

American "view" of schools nowadays includes fun. That you need to have fun while going to school. But you really don't. Thats not what schools are for. You should be getting your education in school, and getting your self more knowledgeable. The time to have fun is after high school, while going to college and of course in your adult life.


People will say "you'll miss out on high school fun stuff".. not really.. you'll just miss out on some dances.. .there are way better dances after high school.


HOWEVER, this does not mean you can't have fun after school or w.e , I highly reccomend you keep doing wrestling. You will gain the ability to meet newer people in tournaments and etc, and build a circle. And also, get your credits up.

We have plenty of people doing "mischief" things.. don't really need more..


PS: Wrestling is nothing compared to crap you have to do for football in high school. X_X. However, for me it paid off because of the dudes on my team , and of course the females XD

 

[SenjuOmar]

wish we could wrestle, nobody likes to wrestle me lol because i win easily, only older people.. but if they're good people, you can just ask them to bmx together? it's not that the rest of the world hangs out with eachother without someone asking the other person hahaha, tho it has to come from 2 side, so after you take the initiative, it shouldn't be that if you don't ask them to hang out or talk, that there won't be a conversation or chilling. if it is one sided, you should just leave them be and hang out with other GOOD people

Well I'm friends with all these kids I talk to them more than some of the wrestling but wrestling takes up a lot of time so I can't actually hang out with them and I've been invited to hang out with them a few times

 

[MadaraReturns]

Well I'm friends with all these kids I talk to them more than some of the wrestling but wrestling takes up a lot of time so I can't actually hang out with them and I've been invited to hang out with them a few times

you can take a break right, from wrestling? i didn't wrestle in months but i'm still good, because wrestling is fast thinking and technique, also power etc but that's no problem to train. it looks like you're feeling bad because of missing the nicest thing a person has, childhood. idk how old you are but i think a break won't harm you, you probably won't wrestle every day of your life anyway. there has to be a break, because if you keep wrestling, what good does it do if mentally it's a torture. it's supposed to be a hobby, and if i hear you, you look to it as something you MUST do, and thats not good. the people you wanna hang out with already invited you, so why don't you just give it a try? especially if you want to have friends and a good time.

 

[Apêx1]

The struggle..