I need help in life right now

[SenjuOmar]

I'm a junior in high school right now. I'm behind in credits and I'm on the wrestling team but the problem is that I need to catch up on credits to be on the track of graduating senior year and to do that I must leave schools and go to a continuation school and there are two choices one will let me stay on the team and give me lots of time too for like a job and to hang out with friends (even though I don't have any) and the other will not let me stay on the team but I'll still have a lot of time to get a job and hang out with the friends I don't have.

On Tuesday im going to see what school will accept me hopefully it's the first one that will let me wrestle still but the thing is I'm a little over wrestling at this point I have friends on the team but I don't hang out with them outside of school and I feel like I'm missing out on the high school experience of hanging out and partying and all that stuff. So I'm thinking of starting to hang out with the kids who skate and bmx and party and do mischief things. Things I like doing but then I can't because I'm on the wrestling team and I don't have time for it. And I'm Friends with all those kids but never hangout outside of school we just talk at school if I see them

And there is this girl who likes me but is kinda a **** from what I heard and I don't know what I should do with her because she likes me a lot from the seems of it and she is friends with the skaters and bmxing kids girlfriends so if I hang out with them I can hang out with them I can hang out with her a lot More.

 

[Torche]

If you aren't interested that much in wrestling any more, ditch it. You're liable to not give it your all thus indirectly sabotage the teams overall performance.

 

[Floydical]

If a girl likes you, you might as well give it a shot with her rather than chasing after some girl who doesn't know you exist. You don't really have anything to lose and you might regret it later if you didn't at least try. Who knows, maybe you'll end up liking her a lot. If she's also in with the skater crowd, that just might help you fit in a little more. Whichever school you get accepted to, it seems like you should leave the wrestling team either way. Even if you make it in the school that lets you continue to wrestle, that doesn't mean you have to stay on the team.

 

[SenjuOmar]

If you aren't interested that much in wrestling any more, ditch it. You're liable to not give it your all thus indirectly sabotage the teams overall performance.

I'm still into just not as much because I feel like I'm missing out on more while in wrestling than getting out of it and I'm trying to have a fun time in high school and it hasn't been that fun so far

 

[Torche]

I'm still into just not as much because I feel like I'm missing out on more while in wrestling than getting out of it and I'm trying to have a fun time in high school and it hasn't been that fun so far

You'll just get less and less interested imo. Just ditch it than if you feel that you're missing out.

 

[roncato]

How old are you? I'd recommend you to keep doing wrestling. It's cool and activities like that won't ruin you as a person.

 

[DMT]

I didn't know that NB is a Psychiatric hospital

 

[SenjuOmar]

I didn't know that NB is a Psychiatric hospital

Well I've been asking around on all different websites and if firgued I'd come here too because NB always knows what to do

How old are you? I'd recommend you to keep doing wrestling. It's cool and activities like that won't ruin you as a person.

I'm 15 Turning 16 in a month but I'm a junior. And yeah I want to stay but I feel I'm missung out on that fun high school experience

 

[Morality]

There is a forum for this king of thing.

 

[Xlad]

Kill yourself.

This comment...

OT: I'm not too good at this. Lol But I could tell you that school is a bigger priority than sports. Am I saying it's bad? No, but if you need to catch up on credits in classes, do those first before sports. Try to finish/do better in your classes before friends. Education can help you go far. No, I honestly wouldn't recommend hanging with those who do mischief so to speak. Whatever they're doing could likely put your life in jeopardy.

Hope I'm reading it right though.

 

[SenjuOmar]

There is a forum for this king of thing.

Well I came here because I need serious help and I want to make the right choice

 

[Ciao]

Do whatever you think you'll enjoy the most and enjoy your time doing it. Being out of high school and having real responsibilities sucks.

 

[SenjuOmar]

This comment...

OT: I'm not too good at this. Lol But I could tell you that school is a bigger priority than sports. Am I saying it's bad? No, but if you need to catch up on credits in classes, do those first before sports. Try to finish/do better in your classes before friends. Education can help you go far. No, I honestly wouldn't recommend hanging with those who do mischief so to speak. Whatever they're doing could likely put your life in jeopardy.

Well that's the thing I like doing all those things but wrestling is in the way and I only have a few true friends on the team

 

[roncato]

I'm 15 Turning 16 in a month but I'm a junior. And yeah I want to stay but I feel I'm missung out on that fun high school experience

The most important thing for you is to get a goal. How about you skip some wrestling practices, and hang out with your friends more ? Do what your heart wants to do

OT: don't forget to use condoms.. XD

 

[Torche]

Well that's the thing I like doing all those things but wrestling is in the way and I only have a few true friends on the team

Are you friends with the "mischief makers"?

 

[SenjuOmar]

The most important thing for you is to get a goal. How about you skip some wrestling practices, and hang out with your friends more ? Do what your heart wants to do

OT: don't forget to use condoms.. XD

I just want to have fun and wrestling isn't fun at most times

 

[MadaraReturns]

bro i used to wrestle with friends, i'm very good i never lose, even if i wrestle with with 22 year old ppl (when i was 18, also fought someone of 120 kg when i was 65 kg, and won) but aside the bragging, are you a skater too? because if not, why specifically hang out with skaters?

 

[SenjuOmar]

Are you friends with the "mischief makers"?

Yeah I am but we don't hang out outside of school and I don't hang out with the wrestlers outside of school either just a few but the ones I do are pretty boring and we don't do much when we hang out

 

[SenjuOmar]

bro i used to wrestle with friends, i'm very good i never lose, even if i wrestle with with 22 year old ppl (when i was 18, also fought someone of 120 kg when i was 65 kg, and won) but aside the bragging, are you a skater too? because if not, why specifically hang out with skaters?

Yeah I'm pretty good at wrestling like really good one of the best on the team like 8th and our school is a ranked school in California but yeah I skate but I suck but I bmx more and I want to get into it again and that whole group of friends skate and or bmx

 

[Xlad]

Well that's the thing I like doing all those things but wrestling is in the way and I only have a few true friends on the team

True friends you say? You can still be friends with them even if your not on the team right? As for only hanging out with your teammates outside of school, I think you should do just that. Well, I'm just saying about the mischief part. What does high school experience mean to you? High school experience doesn't always/solely mean having parties and kind of things you mentioned. I'm not even sure where that came from.

If you really enjoy those things so to speak, then wrestling will just be in your way. If you do not enjoy wrestling as much, then you don't have to be in the team. I say you still should be in wrestling though. It's just my opinion.