How to be happy ?

[Zook1]

What do they say, if you don't mind me asking? They could just be trolling you.

They say . . . . sorry it hurts just saying. THey call me fat, pig, sissy, and other things I don't want to say it kinda hurts my heart

 

[Naruto99Uzumaki]

pray for lord madara, thats your only chance to see light

 

[Zook1]

pray for lord madara, thats your only chance to see light

Wow so insightful :|

 

[Lyke]

I'm sorry what ?

I meant to say that they aren't your friends if they bully you

And well, a Lambo makes everyone happy

 

[Scooby Doo]

They say . . . . sorry it hurts just saying. THey call me fat, pig, sissy, and other things I don't want to say it kinda hurts my heart

Well I was also overweight when I was 14-15, and was teased for it. I wasn't called those things though. But I realized I need to lose weight so I went on a diet and did exercises. So I became fit

I suggest that too. Show them that you can change, you may actually feel better if you do some sports.

 

[Zook1]

I meant to say that they aren't your friends if they bully you

And well, a Lambo makes everyone happy

Oh hahaha Lol

 

[Zook1]

Well I was also overweight when I was 14-15, and was teased for it. I wasn't called those things though. But I realized I need to lose weight so I went on a diet and did exercises. So I became fit

I suggest that too. Show them that you can change, you may actually feel better if you do some sports.

Thanks I've been thinking of joining the track team in my school

 

[Hexuze]

They say . . . . sorry it hurts just saying. THey call me fat, pig, sissy, and other things I don't want to say it kinda hurts my heart

I was thinking something less extreme seeing how it hurts for you to just say it. They're not your friends, avoid them & find new ones. It'll take time but it's better than spending time with your current "friends", right?

 

[Zook1]

I was thinking something less extreme seeing how it hurts for you to just say it. They're not your friends, avoid them & find new ones. It'll take time but it's better than spending time with your current "friends", right?

Thanks for caring I feel a little bit happy now thanks

 

[Yatori]

There always a rainbow after rain You might at your hardest now but eventually you will pass through and I am very sure you will be more happy than ever !

Just remember God gives the hardest battle to strongest soldiers!

And you not the only one.. There always people who have more difficult/hard situation than you are in..and I think you still teen right ? May god bless you !

 

[FlyingRaijinLVL2]

A troublesome scenario indeed. Talking to your parents probably won't work, if there's a dispute between the two of them you cannot resolve it yourself. Let fate take its course and who knows, maybe they'll come to an agreement and stay together. As far as your "friends" bullying you, I recommend finding new ones. No friend would ever bully another one. It's one thing to poke fun at each other, but bullying is another issue all together. Cut your ties and start over. Find a new group of friends. As far as feeling happy... I don't know what to say. It all depends on what you enjoy in life. As a high school student, finding happiness can be difficult sometimes since your overloaded with work (Speaking from current experiences...), but the little bit of free time you have, make the most of it. Good luck.

 

[The Western Wheel]

Shift your focus, take the right steps. Happiness is a path you take.

 

[Funky Tiger]

Shift your focus, take the right steps. Happiness is a path you take.

Or you could eat junk food.

 

[Ψ Veritas Ψ]

Find joy in the little things. And aim for the big things.
Youre a smart, Logical kid, the best advice I can give you is concentrate on your school, and try to find a way to avoid being bullied. I suggest you fight back, or talk to the teachers etc.. whatever will get them off your back while maintaining your Dignity, so you will have no regrets. If your present suks then aim for a bright future, the best way is to bury yourself in your studies and get into a good college. In a few years you'll be 18, and you'll be making your own choices, in the meantime, try what you can to make things work out between you and between your parents. Trying doesnt hurt. But keep an open mind, and whatever comes, know thats life. C'est la vie. There are good and bad times ahead and past all of us, we just have to focus on what makes us happy.

for me. I always find the slightest hope in the darkest hours to make me feel better. And I spend my time doing what I enjoy to pass the time until the light is back.

What makes you happy? go out there and do it, even if you have to drag yourself due to circumstances. And get some new friends.

I remember when I was around your age, we had just moved to another neighbourhood and they were all long time friends there didnt want any stranger to interrupt their daily rutine. They were playing soccer so I approached them and I said can I play? Guy said no. I stood in the middle of the field and I said Im Playing, looking at them confidently. As much to my surprise, they accepted and soon enough we were all good friends. Point is, you gotta stand up for yourself and what you want, cuz life waits for no one.

 

[GhostProject]

Find a goal that interests you and relates only to YOU and your personal development.

Every day you can, take a step (small or big, doesn't matter) towards that goal and focus in on it.

You'll find yourself feeling much better if you can be confident that you, independent of others, have purpose. That's how I seem to keep my happiness. Steady progress towards my goals gives me accomplishment which in turn gives me strength for difficult times

Oh and also, if your friends are bullying you. They are not your friends. Sorry, but many of us have been through this. I know if your feeling down, isolating yourself from "friends" is the last thing you want to do, but being around bullying friends will lower your esteem which makes it harder to stay happy in bad times.

 

[Ψ Veritas Ψ]

Find a goal that interests you and relates only to YOU and your personal development.

Every day you can, take a step (small or big, doesn't matter) towards that goal and focus in on it.

You'll find yourself feeling much better if you can be confident that you, independent of others, have purpose. That's how I seem to keep my happiness. Steady progress towards my goals gives me accomplishment which in turn gives me strength for difficult times

for a second there I thought you said find a "goat" that interests you U_U
lmao that wouldve been funny

 

[Kishi Uzumaki]

People that feel happiest is ones, who do things that make them happy , just find what makes you feel happy and do them .

 

[RicardoA]

Well, first of all, if your 'friends' bully you, then they're not really your friends. You need to focus less on them and give yourself more attention. Meeting new people (who don't bully you) should help you getting over them and improve your social relationships.
Try buying something new, spoil yourself, leave the internet, do exercise, be active. That always helps me no matter what

About your parents. Well, i've been through the same, but everyone is different (we, are very different; i can see that just from this post) so my experience doesn't really count.
All i can share is that the divorce is between your mom and dad and if its happening its because there're issues than need to be solved. I'm sure its for the best. Do they argue a lot? And loud?
You have to understand that its something between them that most likely needs to happen, but it doesn't have to affect you more than it should. You'll certainly be able to spend time with both of them. You'll still have both parents there for you, they'll simply not enjoy or hang with each other like they used to.

And most importantly, give it time. Time heals a lot of things :bouncy:

 

[Xlad]

It's not the best advice, but find an activity you enjoy doing. You can always try to learn a thing or two, like playing an instrument for example. Remember what your goals were or create new ones. As for your friends, try to resolve the issues or at least ask why they behave that way. While I understand and can imagine a bit of what you're going through, mulling over the past isn't going to help. It may only get worse. Find new people or other ones you know can be trusted and talk to your parents. I'm pretty sure that the divorce has nothing to do with you, at least I hope so.

 

[Karna]

They say . . . . sorry it hurts just saying. THey call me fat, pig, sissy, and other things I don't want to say it kinda hurts my heart

What do you do when a 5 year old hits you, do you punch them in the face and be like payback *****, no. You know that's just kid who doesn't understand anything, the same applies to your friends , they don't personally care about bullying You, they just want to downplay SOMEONE so they can feel better about themselves, it's basic human Nature, it's nothing personal, figure them out, they are no different then a kid ,