God I hate being single

Ageha Jaeger

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Try working out. It doesn't have to be at a gym or even with weights. Also try playing sports if it interests you or try some thing like dancing. I'm an introvert as well and I mostly keep to myself but there must be something you enjoy that requires you to be with people (eg. Team sports). As for girls, try tinder? You might be surprised. If you're in school join a club, if you're at uni join a club, if you're at work talk to other workmates about work and go for drinks with them.
Good advice. Personally I wouldn't go on tinder looking for gf material though.
 

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Let me tell you straight up, girlfriends are horrible. Some people will argue but they'll find the truth out for themselves eventually. There's a reason men tell their sons and you see it in TV and movies to avoid marriage and commitment at all costs. They burn through your time, your money, your feelings, your pride, and when it's all said and done, you're left with nothing. I dated an amazing girl I loved for 4 years, but she just changed and left me high and dry after everything I put into our relationship. My only regret in life is that entire ordeal.


Save yourself the hassle, heartache, and time and just get what you need (dat ass) and run. Love yourself and enjoy your time alone. The strength and happiness I find in myself is far greater than any I ever found in a girl, and it's inside you too. I work, hit the gym, grab a shower and some food, then the rest of the day is always mine and I love it. I don't have to check in with anyone when I want to play some ball or skate, I don't have to worry about what a girl is doing behind my back or dudes hitting her up, I don't have to satisfy anybody but myself. I'm selfish and I love it. It's not for everybody I guess, but it's perfect for me. Just me, my friends if I ever feel like chilling, and my dog. Wouldn't have it any other way.
 

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Well you don;t really need a gf to be happy. You probably like the idea of having a gf but its work
On the other hand with friends are awesome. You don't have to share same interests their are alot of dudes that watch anime or watch netflix etc. Just find something in common and go from there.
I go to the gym alot and even the most brolic people i talk too watch anime so theirs that anyone anywhere could have the same interests as you.
Lastly did you choose to be an introvert because you lack friends or are you a natural introvert
 

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Well you don;t really need a gf to be happy. You probably like the idea of having a gf but its work
On the other hand with friends are awesome. You don't have to share same interests their are alot of dudes that watch anime or watch netflix etc. Just find something in common and go from there.
I go to the gym alot and even the most brolic people i talk too watch anime so theirs that anyone anywhere could have the same interests as you.
Lastly did you choose to be an introvert because you lack friends or are you a natural introvert
Lack of friends
 

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Do NOT have one night stands Lol
But you seem like a good person. Don't worry I was single all the way until I was about 16, then met someone. Still with him.
You may feel lonely but it will get better, you'll meet someone, so you should reserve yourself for them.
And don't worry about dumping your feelings here, there are people who enjoy helping others, as unlikely as it seems. Besides it's better than the shitty vs threads everywhere.
You can't tell him not to have one night flings.
 
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