Please I need help!!!!!

[Kaneki Kun]

So my girl loves me and i love her. We say that we will always promise be together and love each other forever no matter what ride or die. Recently I told her I might be moving to California to live a better life and I asked if she wanted to come, she answered with a no.

So I asked her If I move there will you still be there for me as my girl and support me in a long distance relationship. She Said no. I love her to death. I would do anything for her. She can insult me, use me, do anything horrible to me and I would still be with her. But she isn't willing to go the extra mile for me. She broke her promise of always being there for me and staying together forever. Right now she feels like shit.

So my question to you guys is how do I fix this?
Do I forgive her for breaking our promise and continue our relationship or move on?
Edit: Thank you guys for the feedback. My boy is currently handling the issue.
So that's about it. **** these thots XD

 

[Cunning Linguist]

You can't fix it. A fundamental part of your relationship was just proven to be false. It's over

 

[Mgumbo]

If she's not willing to put up with a little distance like that (assuming you are already in the United States), then there's someone else out there that is. Forget her.

 

[Tomato God]

You don't. Changing peoples mind and changing people are different because the later is impossible. If she won't be happy she won't be happy. And life is too short to try, you need to understand that you have to let go and live on. Smile because you were good together not because you have to part. At the end of the day you are born alone naked and confused and we die the same. So you need to do what makes you happy till you get to point B.

 

[Callypigia]

She sounds like she really loves you when it's convenient for her.

Edit: Michael Jordan doesn't sulk. He just sucks at baseball.

 

[villain55]

Ninja, leave her. Don't let her stop you for trying to live a better life.

 

[Pirate King]

how old are you, how long have yall been dating

you sound too attached my friend, its gonna be a rough split

 

[From the Dark Spire]

You can't fix it. A fundamental part of your relationship was just proven to be false. It's over

This, exactly.

 

[demon of the leaf]

Try it and see how it works least you can say you tried and not have regrets

 

[Mellow]

You going to Cali my nigguh.

 

[FoolzBeWeary]

It sound like she wouldn't even try. And take it from a guy that has been in a long distance relationship for the last two years when I got order to leave Korea then got out of the army. Commitment is need to make it work. If she wasn't welling to try or go with you it's already fallen apart.

 

[wanderingcactus]

Oh the cruelty of women. At least shes straightforward with you.

Although, perhaps shes merely lashing out on you. Its a self defense mechanism thats saying "Idc, stop bothering me" type of thing.

Make sure that shes just another heartless girl rather than just a hurt girl being abandoned by you.

 

[Edward Snowden]

Ya it's over. I can offer you a sign copy of Heatwave. Would you like that buddy? A sign copy of Heatwave?

 

[phoenixforcexD]

If shes breaking promises when u guys are inches apart, i cant imagine miles
long distance only works when its both sided..ive been in one for 4 years
it was really hard, but if you guys are able to meet often and see each other, it can work..but if she isnt willing, id say move on

sorry for the negative response

 

[Emmaline]

I stopped reading after the first line.

 

[UCE]

​i see.

honestly you have to let her go! It hurts you to leave her behind, but honestly if she truly felt the same way you actually feel about her she would have say yes.

that or she simply doesn't want to leaver her family behind.
as i confirm she isn't able to go extra mile for you? Broke promise? She doesn't love you the same way! You do, or willing to go that far as you would for her.


my advice is to move on with your things and focus on that First. Later, if you wish to go Back for her and she isn't taken you May still have a chance.​

 

[Crossroads]

FDB, the women in California will probably suit you better anyway.

You're leaving out so many details, no one here can give you the proper advice you need to move on to the next task.

 

[Punk Hazard]

So my girl loves me and i love her. We say that we will always promise be together and love each other forever no matter what ride or die. Recently I told her I might be moving to California to live a better life and I asked if she wanted to come, she answered with a no.

So I asked her If I move there will you still be there for me as my girl and support me in a long distance relationship. She Said no. I love her to death. I would do anything for her. She can insult me, use me, do anything horrible to me and I would still be with her. But she isn't willing to go the extra mile for me. She broke her promise of always being there for me and staying together forever. Right now she feels like shit.

So my question to you guys is how do I fix this?
Do I forgive her for breaking our promise and continue our relationship or move on?

This is a horrible mentality.

You can't make her move. You say it's gonna make your life better if you move, but is your life bad now? Is it shit or can you still find happiness? Greener grass isn't necessarily worth the end of a relationship.

 

[Joker]

Your girlfriend is a thot, and probably has a dude on the side. If she didn't even attempt to compromise, she isn't worth it, just do you for now, and worry about the girls later.

 

[The Work]

Move on to the next

She broke the promise.