I kinda need some romance advice/help here.

[Ψ Veritas Ψ]

Over time you'll get over it, I did myself not too long ago.

not everyone does

 

[Heisenberg284]

oooh shit, you have been placed in the friend zone it seems. That sucks! Love isn't always *** and making love. Maybe you can still lover being friends. Maybe you guys friendship is better than a relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend. And if that's not the case, then, call a stripper. :|

Yup haha. It just makes me angry because we were getting to second base often, and nothing ever got bad or awkward between US, so
I don't know where she got the idea that further romance would mess us up. But oh well... Nothing I can do I guess

 

[maiavarepz]

honestly never been in that situation but those who i know have, never really got over it...it still is a high priority memory, but wont be acted on unless they see that person again, which was funny how the person they were feeling this for went to the same school XD, but jokes aside, live with it, when you think about her, remember how good it was and continue your life. dwelling on the past wont bring her back, but if you feel the need, look for her, if you know where she is, talk to her, if you want to try and get over her, just remember and do something else....occupy your mind with something else, and it will become a habit, do it more often and she will end up being a memory. how you want her to end up in your mind is up to you, the same applies to how you want her to end up in reality.

 

[Black Mamba]

drink and then drink again. repeat.

 

[Callypigia]

The problem is, I still have this belief i can still get with her romantically and I keep wanting to go after her. I don't think me and her would end on bad terms, because we click so well.

But that's so true. The second I start talking to her again, I'm right back to where I started and I'm heads over heels for her again.

Well, these unrequited love scenarios can be drawn out and painful. What did she say when you told her how you really feel about her?

 

[Maryeuh]

****.more.bithes.

Boom.

 

[Its sasukebase]

The problem is, I still have this belief i can still get with her romantically and I keep wanting to go after her. I don't think me and her would end on bad terms, because we click so well.

But that's so true. The second I start talking to her again, I'm right back to where I started and I'm heads over heels for her again.

I never had this problem. Do you know if she feels the same way

 

[ItachiDaSoloKing]

Over time you'll get over it, I did myself not too long ago.

LOVE your Avatar

 

[Heisenberg284]

Well, these unrequited love scenarios can be drawn out and painful. What did she say when you told her how you really feel about her?

I told her after she told me we shouldn't go any further romance wise. And she said she was beginning to fall for me
Too, but had a feeling we would both get really hurt and upset with each other eventually if iur romance went further

 

[Heisenberg284]

****.more.bithes.

Boom.

Unfortunately until I get over her, *** with another women won't be satisfying

 

[The Necromancer]

I know your feel.

and thats the best advice one could give i think
if you see a chance she'll love u back, and u would be good together then take it
otherwise really one should end it before she/he gets too deep

Ehhhhhheheheheeehhhh. I guess I kind of agree. I know I could never get over her because we never had closure and I needed to know what it would be like.

So if you need to figure it out, go for it. If it doesn't work, at least you know.

 

[Callypigia]

I told her after she told me we shouldn't go any further romance wise. And she said she was beginning to fall for me
Too, but had a feeling we would both get really hurt and upset with each other eventually if iur romance went further

Well, she's not going to be able to have her cake and eat it. Being just friends seems to be causing you pain. It's up to you to decide how long you want to suffer. It sounds like you've said what you need to and the ball is in her court.

 

[Heisenberg284]

Well, she's not going to be able to have her cake and eat it. Being just friends seem to be causing you pain. It's up to you to decide how long you want to suffer. It sounds like you've said what you need to.

I'm a senior in high school, so I only have 1 more year of seeing her constantly until I go out to college. I'm going to keep pursuing her, it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth when I give up on something

 

[Callypigia]

I'm a senior in high school, so I only have 1 more year of seeing her constantly until I go out to college. I'm going to keep pursuing her, it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth when I give up on something

Are you chasing her for love or pride?

 

[Heisenberg284]

Are you chasing her for love or pride?

I would be lying if I said pride wasn't involved. Both love and pride, it used to be 50% love and 50% pride, but I didn't realize until a couple days ago that i really do love her. So now it's mostly love.

It's weird, this love i have now is a completely different feeling then when I told her how I feel... It's more like powerful now I guess

Idk another word to describe it haha

 

[Callypigia]

I would be lying if I said pride wasn't involved. Both love and pride, it used to be 50% love and 50% pride, but I didn't realize until a couple days ago that i really do love her. So now it's mostly love.

It's weird, this love i have now is a completely different feeling then when I told her how I feel... It's more like powerful now I guess

Idk another word to describe it haha

What would you do if she decided there was no possibility for a relationship?

 

[Heisenberg284]

What would you do if she decided there was no possibility for a relationship?

I wouldn't be mad at her, because who am I to decide who she can or can't like? I will just be upset it didn't work out how i would have preferred, and obviously really sad. It would take me a while to get over it, and I would
Hope college comes quickly haha

 

[Callypigia]

I wouldn't be mad at her, because who am I to decide who she can or can't like? I will just be upset it didn't work out how i would have preferred, and obviously really sad. It would take me a while to get over it, and I would
Hope college comes quickly haha

I agree. You should respect her feelings, but yours matter too. If you just ignore the elephant in the room and the run off to college won't you be left with a bitter taste in your mouth?

 

[Heisenberg284]

I agree. You should respect her feelings, but yours matter too. If you just ignore the elephant in the room and the run off to college won't you be left with a bitter taste in your mouth?

Very bitter taste, very. But I've honestly tried everything possible, at this point. I have one last thing I'm going to try though. I respect she doesn't want to lose contact with me over a possible bad romance scenario, but at the same time very rarely do two people in high school click as well as we do, and I wish she would trust me when I say everything would work out between us

 

[Callypigia]

Very bitter taste, very. But I've honestly tried everything possible, at this point. I have one last thing I'm going to try though. I respect she doesn't want to lose contact with me over a possible bad romance scenario, but at the same time very rarely do two people in high school click as well as we do, and I wish she would trust me when I say everything would work out between us

Well, you won't be able to move on without closure. That can take many forms. She doesn't trust you, because you can't promise that everything will work out between you two. I would be curious to know the real reason she doesn't want a relationship. She's giving you a safe answer.