I kinda need some romance advice/help here.

Heisenberg284 · Jul 13, 2014

So on the 4th of July i went to a party and had a one night stand with this girl. The problem was, I thought I had gotten over this other girl I liked but obviously I haven't because the whole damn time she was in my head while I was with this other girl in bed. Ever since then my feelings have returned in full force for this past girl and I can't seem to get over her at all.
Do you know some easy ways to get over a girl? Or something you did to get over a girl you loved. Much appreciated if you give a legit comment!

Callypigia · Jul 13, 2014

It sounds like infatuation more than love, to be honest. That goes away. It's only been a few weeks.

DrSexy · Jul 13, 2014

if its real love then no it takes years better get off sooner rather than later if u know it wont work out imo

Heisenberg284 · Jul 13, 2014

Diclonius said:
It sounds like infatuation more than love, to be honest. That goes away. It's only been a few weeks.

I loved her, and I thought I got over it, but like I said being with that other girl just returned my feelings once again. You may be right, it may just be a short term passion thing. I'm hoping anyway

Mahesvara · Jul 13, 2014

Give it time, eventually those feelings will go away. I know, because I have been in the same situation before.

Callypigia · Jul 13, 2014

Heisenberg284 said:
I loved her, and I thought I got over it, but like I said being with that other girl just returned my feelings once again. You may be right, it may just be a short term passion thing. I'm hoping anyway

Did you date the other girl, or were you just friends? Sorry I missread your post. I thought you said you were in love with the party girl. Tell me about the other one.

Levias · Jul 13, 2014

What in the world made you think this was a good place to ask for advice?

ItachiDaSoloKing · Jul 13, 2014

If you LOVE someone you simply can't GET OVER IT.... that's impossible considering love doesn't just go away you can only lock it away and not think about it...

So just lock it away and fall in love again it will help not think about the EX

Heisenberg284 · Jul 13, 2014

Diclonius said:
Did you date the other girl, or were you just friends? Sorry I missread your post. I thought you said you were in love with the party girl. Tell me about the other one.

We weren't officially dating I guess, but we were "more than friends" for sure as in we got intimate at times and stuff. She was just everything I look for in a girl, personally wise, and was the most beautiful girl I've gotten "close"
With. Idk, we just connected really well. Same sense of humor, music taste, both like to read and write, etc idk just really compatible with her haha

Callypigia · Jul 13, 2014

Heisenberg284 said:
We weren't officially dating I guess, but we were "more than friends" for sure as in we got intimate at times and stuff. She was just everything I look for in a girl, personally wise, and was the most beautiful girl I've gotten "close"
With. Idk, we just connected really well. Same sense of humor, music taste, both like to read and write, etc idk just really compatible with her haha

What is the reason you are trying to get over her?

Haosrithy · Jul 13, 2014

Call a stripper. Its what I do :|

ItachiDaSoloKing · Jul 13, 2014

Heisenberg284 said:
We weren't officially dating I guess, but we were "more than friends" for sure as in we got intimate at times and stuff. She was just everything I look for in a girl, personally wise, and was the most beautiful girl I've gotten "close"
With. Idk, we just connected really well. Same sense of humor, music taste, both like to read and write, etc idk just really compatible with her haha

Then why didn't you keep her... those are hard to find...

Davy Jones · Jul 13, 2014

Time heals all wounds. thats all you can do is wait. dont let it kill you. become the thing you love the most then you wont care if she loves you or not because you will love yourself and see how naive she is for not feeling the same.

Ventuis · Jul 13, 2014

Over time you'll get over it, I did myself not too long ago.

Heisenberg284 · Jul 13, 2014

Diclonius said:
What is the reason you are trying to get over her?

Well. It didn't exactly work out I guess. We still talk from time to time and what not
But... Out of the blue she said she just wanted to stay friends because she knew pretty soon we would get farther than just making out one day and she thought it would mess wth our
Close friendship if we had ***. I guess she didn't want things to possibly end on bad terms and we leave high school hating each other. She wants to talk with me and stay close friends for a long time

The Necromancer · Jul 13, 2014

DrSexy said:
if its real love then no it takes years better get off sooner rather than later if u know it wont work out imo

Yup. I just re fell for this girl I took 3 years to get over. Fun times. Fun. Times.

Ψ Veritas Ψ · Jul 13, 2014

DrSexy said:
if its real love then no it takes years better get off sooner rather than later if u know it wont work out imo

Necromancer4276 said:
Yup. I just re fell for this girl I took 3 years to get over. Fun times. Fun. Times.

I know your feel.

and thats the best advice one could give i think
if you see a chance she'll love u back, and u would be good together then take it
otherwise really one should end it before she/he gets too deep

Callypigia · Jul 13, 2014

Heisenberg284 said:
Well. It didn't exactly work out I guess. We still talk from time to time and what not
But... Out of the blue she said she just wanted to stay friends because she knew pretty soon we would get farther than just making out one day and she thought it would mess wth our Close friendship if we had ***

Well, that's because having *** would mess up your friendship. You have to decide on whether or not you want to be friends with her. If she keeps talking to you from time to time, you'll never get over her.

Heisenberg284 · Jul 13, 2014

Diclonius said:
Well, that's because having *** would mess up your friendship. You have to decide on whether or not you want to be friends with her. If she keeps talking to you from time to time, you'll never get over her.

The problem is, I still have this belief i can still get with her romantically and I keep wanting to go after her. I don't think me and her would end on bad terms, because we click so well.

But that's so true. The second I start talking to her again, I'm right back to where I started and I'm heads over heels for her again.

Haosrithy · Jul 13, 2014

Heisenberg284 said:
Well. It didn't exactly work out I guess. We still talk from time to time and what not
But... Out of the blue she said she just wanted to stay friends because she knew pretty soon we would get farther than just making out one day and she thought it would mess wth our
Close friendship if we had ***. I guess she didn't want things to possibly end on bad terms and we leave high school hating each other. She wants to talk with me and stay close friends for a long time

oooh shit, you have been placed in the friend zone it seems. That sucks! Love isn't always *** and making love. Maybe you can still lover being friends. Maybe you guys friendship is better than a relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend. And if that's not the case, then, call a stripper. :|

I kinda need some romance advice/help here.

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