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Alright. Here's my story:

So, a couple of days ago, a random girl sent me a request on Facebook. I obviously thought it was due to an accident. But, when I asked her, she said that she sent me a request, because she liked my comments on a certain meme page. I accepted the request hence, and I found out that she loved anime, metal and stuff. Exactly my type. Plus she was very beautiful. Thinking she was a fake account, I didn't reply to her chats much, but later found out that's she legit.

After that, we had a good regular conversation and came to know each other a bit. Soon, she started sending those Messenger Stickers(the lovey dovey ones) and stuff like hearts and kisses. And, yesterday, she requested for my Whatsapp, which I gave. We had a good chat again, and randomly she said that she's falling in love with me.

I obviously got weirded out. ._. She apologized for being so random and absurd and when I asked her what she really felt, she told me that she has a huge crush on me and stuff. I was still weirded out, as it was just out of the blue. I told her how I felt about the whole situation, and she told me to take my time, and apologized to me, and told me that we could stay friends and stuff. After a while, we exchanged pictures of ourselves, and later, I told her that I was really in a messy state of mind. So, today morning, when I asked her again, whether she wanted to take it further than just crushes and friendship, she replied with a Yes. I clearly told her that I wanted to get to know her first, and meet her once in real life. So, what should I do folks? I couldn't even properly sleep yesterday and eat my breakfast today. I'm really in a messed up state of mind. I do not what to do further.

PS: Serious answers please. And when I told her that I'm not her average 'stud' kind of guy, and she should expect disappointment when she meets me irl, she told me that she put personality above looks.
To quote her message:
"Appearance doesnt matter to me..because it fades..its about the heart who never gets tired when it sees its other half in another person"
 
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Well if you like her then you should go and meet her. If she is so commited to you, you can test it out. If it works then have a nice life, if not then you can just move on. Best of luck.
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Well if you like her then you should go and meet her. If she is so commited to you, you can test it out. If it works then have a nice life, if not then you can just move on. Best of luck.
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Thing is, I live in the Western part of the country, and she Eastern lol.
The only fear I have is that she shouldn't turn out to be some 40 year old woman. T_T
 

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Apparently this 'online' relationship of yours dosent seem to work out ... See you need to know about the person. Personality and looks might be tempting but its their behaviour and approach you should know about. Knowing a person is very important before getting into a relationship.
So my advise. You should first Do video chat and stuff and arrange a meeting. Get to know her well. See if you guyz are 'compatible' and then think of getting committed.. Plus. Always give yourself some personal space. If you had a messy relationship before. I say you take your time and then take any kindda decision.
 

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Then give it a chance. :yay:
Thinking hard on it.
I'd love to help you
Go ahead.
Apparently this 'online' relationship of yours dosent seem to work out ... See you need to know about the person. Personality and looks might be tempting but its their behaviour and approach you should know about. Knowing a person is very important before getting into a relationship.
So my advise. You should first Do video chat and stuff and arrange a meeting. Get to know her well. See if you guyz are 'compatible' and then think of getting committed.. Plus. Always give yourself some personal space. If you had a messy relationship before. I say you take your time and then take any kindda decision.
Yea, you have good points there. The issue is that she lives in Assam and me in Maharashtra lmao.
 

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Thinking hard on it.

Go ahead.

Yea, you have good points there. The issue is that she lives in Assam and me in Maharashtra lmao.
Oh

So you're a fukin Indian. I see.

Drop the Idea.. Watever i said is not applicable for Indians. .

Just find a nice Marathi girl for yourself and get going with it.. Block that girl from whatsapp and facebook. And try to live on. :)
 

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Oh

So you're a fukin Indian. I see.

Drpp the Idea.. Watever i said is not applicable for Indians. .

Just find a nice Marathi girl for yourself and get going with it.. Block that girl from whatsapp and facebook. And try to live on. :)
That's a stereotype man lmao.
It is not always the case. xD

Here u go
Very helpful.
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Oh

So you're a fukin Indian. I see.

Drop the Idea.. Watever i said is not applicable for Indians. .

Just find a nice Marathi girl for yourself and get going with it.. Block that girl from whatsapp and facebook. And try to live on. :)
I second this.It aint gonno work out.Let it go,Let it go u_u
 

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If you can meet...maybe it's worth a try. I once did go for a girl from another country...it didn't end well...I was quite deceived so be careful.
 
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