[Discussion] Relationships (mine) are stupid. (Please read)

[Kenotthib]

My current girlfriend and I have been together for almost three months. We've even talked about living together. But she straight annoys the s*** out of me. Example: she has peanuts at her house she offers me some, I say I don't want any, she'll beg me till I eat it, the only reason I do eat it is to avoid a petty argument. She did the same thing with koolaid, I F****** HATE KOOLAID, She kept begging so I drank her repulsive koolaid and merely threw up, like my opinion was gonna change because she added more sugar than normal people do. And then she says the stupidest stuff. Like since I have really curly hair and I'm dark skinned, she'll say I have good hair or indian hair.

I could of sworn the majority of indian hair is straight. And there's no such thing as good hair. On top of all that sometimes she'll say "We're going out to eat" like she pays for anything. And the one time she did pay (since I payed for the movie) she said that I owe her 5$ (which for the record I didn't pay). On top of all that I have no social life with her I'm at her house on the weekends friday, saturday, and sunday. I can't even ball with my friends anymore because I'm always with her. Sometimes I go to her house or I get her, go to my house, drop her back off, and go back to my house. She lives almost 30 minutes away. Then today when she asked if we were going to go out to eat (which she wants to go to another city for food) she gets mad and calls me a jerk for saying I'm limited on gas.

When I said we can just chill saturday instead of hangout friday she said "I can just hangout with other people". I spent nearly 400$ for prom(tux,hotel room,dinner,breakfast,and gas), I drive back and forth to and from her house, and I've bought her food from cookout like 8 times. And she dares have the nerve to say I don't do anything. Another example I don't eat donuts but I went and bought her a box of 12 donuts we got another 12 for free because they messed up our order as soon as we drove off I said I was gonna give my parents some and she said that she was gonna give them to her family (which I have no problem with) but she acted Like she had a problem with My parents getting any and we had 24 donuts smh.

She's not young we're both 18. Sorry for my rant but she irks the s*** outta me sometimes. This summer I was gonna focus on basketball but I know i'm going to be torn between her and it. What do you think I should do? Should I break up with her?

 

[Jasey]

If you two are serious, relationships are all about stickin' it out!

 

[hixa kuogame]

Break up. .

 

[straightup]

you my friend, are an *******. . . sounds to me like she's just trying to let you into her world and all your doing is being a little baby about it. suck it up man and drink the juice, eat the peanuts. if it means that much to her then do it not for you but for her

 

[AnimusOra]

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you are young dude and what you described is the typical relationship. But does she feel the same way about you? If she likes you or using you, don't put up with it and just break it off. If she likes you but you don't things will only get worse. Just sit down and talk with her about how you really feel and from there decide what you will do. You just need to have real conversations with her. Also 3 months isn't a long time for a relationship it is actually a fairly new one.

 

[Kenotthib]

you my friend, are an *******. . . sounds to me like she's just trying to let you into her world and all your doing is being a little baby about it. suck it up man and drink the juice, eat the peanuts. if it means that much to her then do it not for you but for her

I don't see how I am. Did you even read my post I clearly said I ate the peanuts so I basically already did what you said. but to do it repeatedly is annoying. And what's the saying "Relationships are about compromises" there is none with her I'm the one always compromising.

 

[Punk Hazard]

Some petty stuff here, but it sounds like you two aren't clicking.

 

[~Dream~]

Tell her straight up to mature the f**k up, I swear if I was her bf I would make her feel like shit. Break up with her bro, she's so not worth it. She's using you too man it's obv

The world doesn't revolve around this lousy ****.

 

[scorezor]

you my friend, are an *******. . . sounds to me like she's just trying to let you into her world and all your doing is being a little baby about it. suck it up man and drink the juice, eat the peanuts. if it means that much to her then do it not for you but for her

OH ***** PLZ -.- you don't know what you're talking about.

here's the problem dude: we don't know her point of view , we only know your point of view , therefore we can't help you.

 

[Kenotthib]

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you are young dude and what you described is the typical relationship. But does she feel the same way about you? If she likes you or using you, don't put up with it and just break it off. If she likes you but you don't things will only get worse. Just sit down and talk with her about how you really feel and from there decide what you will do. You just need to have real conversations with her. Also 3 months isn't a long time for a relationship it is actually a fairly new one.

She says she loves me and I believe her and I do love her to. She just takes selfishness to a new level. I think she uses me to her hearts content without realizing it (or it could be intentional)

 

[-Punk-]

3 Months is really nothing , I don't think you guys click like someone said above , break up & all the best in your futures endeavours.

 

[AnimusOra]

She says she loves me and I believe her and I do love her to. She just takes selfishness to a new level. I think she uses me to her hearts content without realizing it (or it could be intentional)

What women want is someone who will listen to them and take care of them. You said that you two love each other right? Then that means you both need to make sacrifices for one another. There is an old saying that goes "treat her like the queen she is and she will treat you like a king". Sit down with her alone and talk to her about how you feel and whats going on. Everything you said here in this thread you should be telling her and not us. She can't know whats going on if there isn't any communication. Let her tell you what she doesn't like that you do either and just talk, you will see eventually you both will be feeling alot better and more in love with one another by communicating and listening. Just talk to her and listen. That's the best advice I can give you.

 

[Colonel Armstrong]

My current girlfriend and I have been together for almost three months. We've even talked about living together. But she straight annoys the s*** out of me. Example: she has peanuts at her house she offers me some, I say I don't want any, she'll beg me till I eat it, the only reason I do eat it is to avoid a petty argument. She did the same thing with koolaid, I F****** HATE KOOLAID, She kept begging so I drank her repulsive koolaid and merely threw up, like my opinion was gonna change because she added more sugar than normal people do. And then she says the stupidest stuff. Like since I have really curly hair and I'm dark skinned, she'll say I have good hair or indian hair.

I could of sworn the majority of indian hair is straight. And there's no such thing as good hair. On top of all that sometimes she'll say "We're going out to eat" like she pays for anything. And the one time she did pay (since I payed for the movie) she said that I owe her 5$ (which for the record I didn't pay). On top of all that I have no social life with her I'm at her house on the weekends friday, saturday, and sunday. I can't even ball with my friends anymore because I'm always with her. Sometimes I go to her house or I get her, go to my house, drop her back off, and go back to my house. She lives almost 30 minutes away. Then today when she asked if we were going to go out to eat (which she wants to go to another city for food) she gets mad and calls me a jerk for saying I'm limited on gas.

When I said we can just chill saturday instead of hangout friday she said "I can just hangout with other people". I spent nearly 400$ for prom(tux,hotel room,dinner,breakfast,and gas), I drive back and forth to and from her house, and I've bought her food from cookout like 8 times. And she dares have the nerve to say I don't do anything. Another example I don't eat donuts but I went and bought her a box of 12 donuts we got another 12 for free because they messed up our order as soon as we drove off I said I was gonna give my parents some and she said that she was gonna give them to her family (which I have no problem with) but she acted Like she had a problem with My parents getting any and we had 24 donuts smh.

She's not young we're both 18. Sorry for my rant but she irks the s*** outta me sometimes. This summer I was gonna focus on basketball but I know i'm going to be torn between her and it. What do you think I should do? Should I break up with her?

living together at 18? are u sure ur ready for that?

but ill pray for u man

 

[Kenotthib]

living together at 18? are u sure ur ready for that?

but ill pray for u man

I'm not she is.

 

[Tingun]

Hahaha
hahahaahahaaha whipped

 

[SasukeUchiha910]

You tried hitting the b!tch

 

[Ldude]

If she annoys you, break it off. You don't sound happy.

 

[Rioxnation]

Communication is key for relationships to work, and it seems that you two lack it. I can understand your seeming anguish because I've had a relationship before my current one that included sorta of the same thing, only with guilt and depression if i don't do something. But if anything, you two should really talk about your wants and your concerns. It also seems she's just trying to control you and love and relationships is all about acceptance. So if this persists even with a proper talk, I really just think that perhaps she isn't the right person for you. But just know that If you really care about your relationship with her you'd at least try to make it better. Not by forcing on her or to argue, but to just old fashion talk it out.

It also seems you like freedom. So you really should make it clear to her about it. xD

If all else fails when you be completely honest with her (but dont call her names or anything, that'll just make it worst >.<), if she wont even listen to you then what's the point of calling it a "happy" relationship. Be honest, but not rude, ok?

Good luck to you :< Stay yourself because she should love you for who you are, if she doesn't and want to change you then it's not love, its just her perfection.

For the record though, not all relationships are doomed, so if this one fails, just take a rest and always ALWAYS become friends first before jumping the gun for someone. Friendship is extremely powerful and is the foundation to love. Communication is key

 

[Jewjitsu]

Break up.

 

[Transcendence]

So many threads on relationships as of late