Changing you psychological characteristics is much, MUCH harder than you think. It's almost to do it.
And how the hell do you change your look so dramatically that you would be a handsome guy instead of a regular guy?
Some things you can't change.
well i was obviously talking to stuff like"being less lazy" and so on. sure its not easy, no one said it is, but its a matter of determination.... if you want it you do it, else you dont want it enough. and pretty much everything is changeable if there is enough efffort and determination... as for the looks even there you could change much things. sure you cant change like your eye colour or nose size or whatever(except for operational) but even if you just take more care of yourself you become more handsome( as in shower more, eat healthier, work out etc...)
You can only change psychological stuff and sometimes you can't even change them they established into you. And you can't change physical stuff except with surgeries but even then you don't get what you really want.
same as above...those are just excuses, cause its more convenient that way. its easier to say its not possible than just to try and actually do it....you dont want to be lazy? just stop being lazy, its oyu own choice. you want to care more about important stuff? start doing it, its your choice.... being less afraid of failing is a bit harder but still far from impossible.... all you need is determination and training. if you got both there is no need to be afraid to fail and you will eventually realize that. but in order to do so you have to WORK for it and thats where most people fail. they just want it to be changed by itself....no thats not how it works, you have to work for it put effort into it and eventually you will change U_U
