I really really need advice

[einsteinewton]

I know this has nothing to do with naruto....but i really need some light on this one.am currently a second year student,4 weeks ago i met this other girl at on campus she is doing 1 year.we went out a couple of times and she told me she was dating this other guy he left at home(were she comes from) after going out a couple of days we started having *** up until a days back and within that period i started developing feelings for this girl and i told her that but she just replied by saying i care for you too...am in a stage where i want a relationship with this girl even though we really stay far from each other...WHAT AM ASKING IS SHOULD I GIVE ME AND HER A CHANCE AND HOPE SHE WONT DO THE SAME THING TO ME OR IS SHE JUST USING ME FOR *** ONLY?????advice will be appreciated coz am really confused and don't know what to do

 

[Stark]

You sound like friends with benefits, you her side nìgga. You can change that eventually if you truly wish to be a couple.

 

[ObitoRolent]

I know what you're going through but idk how to respond.

 

[Slowpoke]

You already hit it while her "so-called" man was gone.
Mission Accomplished. Move on. ​

 

[Itαchi Uchihα]

You home wrecker! Lmao.

But she just seems scandalous, if you're the type to lay with a woman with no emotional attachment, go for it. If you put yourself in a relationship with her, don't cry around when she pulls the same shit with you.

 

[Itachi Solos All]

I'm sorry.I just have a hard time believing that anyone on this site ever gets laid.

 

[The Amazing Spider Man]

I see you have stronger feelings than she does. So yea it does look like she's using you. She will never admit to it, but it's kinda obvious she is.

 

[Its sasukebase]

does everyone here have relationship problems. i have no clue never been in that situation if was me and i loved her i would go for her

 

[UCE]

Leave her alone.U_U

 

[Gein]

She would have better answers than us.

 

[Its sasukebase]

I'm sorry.I just have a hard time believing that anyone on this site ever gets laid.

lol + rep for you

i cant rep you iou one

 

[Kαmi]

Well didn't she say she has a boyfriend? If so, you gotta get rid of these feelings. You've already figured it out, it's very possible that she will do the same thing to you. She's cheating on her bf right now so what can guarantee that she won't do the same to you?

If she's going back home over the summer, you should definitely just leave it at *** and no relationship. If she's staying in the same area as you over the summer, see where it goes and see if it's more than just lust. If you guys stay far from one another then you guys are almost doomed to have a failed relationship the same way she is in a failed relationship now.

Yeezus summed it up real nicely though, you kinda sound like a side niqqa Lol

 

[Davy Jones]

You already hit it while her "so-called" man was gone.
Mission Accomplished. Move on. ​

This. If she cheats on him, she will on you. hit, dont get attached, move on..

 

[ThanosInfinity]

Wrong section bud. Your moral dilemma touches me it really does just force a serious discussion on her though that may start an argument it might also shed some light on your situation.

 

[einsteinewton]

You sound like friends with benefits, you her side nìgga. You can change that eventually if you truly wish to be a couple.

how do i go about that???

 

[0jordinio0]

If you think it's cool to do another mans girl. You're not the type of guy I wanna know and don't deserve advice. Her coming on to you or not - so not cool man. You that desperate?

And good grief. Get a grip on your grammar and spelling. Didn't you say you were in college or something? Honestly, what a waste of a thread. Should have kept this to yourself because your reputation on this site will take a sharp plummet seeing as we all know now you aren't a guy to be trusted with anything.

 

[Elementalist]

N*gga if she did it to him she will do it to you, nd even if she don't, you will ALWAYS have that lil shred of doubt in the back of yo mind. It'll pop up at random moments when you not around her for long periods of time....you'll just be chillin eatin cereal or something nd you'll just wonder out the blue "is she f*cking another guy?" If you can live with that then by all means go ahead....if not...tell her you had a lot of fun but you just can't trust her in a real relationship....

 

[einsteinewton]

I'm sorry.I just have a hard time believing that anyone on this site ever gets laid.

hahaha some of us to get laid and alot for that matter

 

[Gein]

how do i go about that???

Really man if you want something with this girl.. (Who is a cheater)

You need to straight tell her you want to be with her and she best not cheat.
(say the cheating part like your sincerely concerned about getting cheated on)

 

[The Necromancer]

Well didn't she say she has a boyfriend? If so, you gotta get rid of these feelings. You've already figured it out, it's very possible that she will do the same thing to you. She's cheating on her bf right now so what can guarantee that she won't do the same to you?

If she's going back home over the summer, you should definitely just leave it at *** and no relationship. If she's staying in the same area as you over the summer, see where it goes and see if it's more than just lust. If you guys stay far from one another then you guys are almost doomed to have a failed relationship the same way she is in a failed relationship now.

Yeezus summed it up real nicely though, you kinda sound like a side niqqa Lol

Basically what happened to me.

I waited for this girl for 4 years and she kept me on the hook while she "decided" between me and her boyfriend.
Don't live my life. LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES!

If you think it's cool to do another mans girl. You're not the type of guy I wanna know and don't deserve advice. Her coming on to you or not - so not cool man. You that desperate?

And good grief. Get a grip on your grammar and spelling. Didn't you say you were in college or something? Honestly, what a waste of a thread. Should have kept this to yourself because your reputation on this site will take a sharp plummet seeing as we all know now you aren't a guy to be trusted with anything.

There are always 2 sides to the coin. I was in the same situation, and i can tell you I'm one of the most trustworthy people I know. Everything is a matter of perspective.