Marrige, yay or nay?

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Yeah, in the future.
 

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I'm married and none of the points you made applied to me at all.
Went to the court house, spent $40. That's about it. What can I say, I'm cheap.

It's not cheap, it's practical tbh. Who wants to spend millions of dollars on a one-day affair, only to suffer years of debt or bankruptcy for payments for that one occasion?
 

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I'm more like charlie harper,so nay...

Btw,in my religion and country,both are equally dressed in terms of quality.
 

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Similarly to Shikamaru's philosophy I also have hope to "marry a regular guy who isn't too ugly and not too pretty. Have two children, first a boy, then a girl. Retire after my daughter is married and my son becomes a successful man, and spend the rest of my life listening to music and watching clouds. Then die of old age before my husband."
 

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Similarly to Shikamaru's philosophy I also have hope to "marry a regular guy who isn't too ugly and not too pretty. Have two children, first a boy, then a girl. Retire after my daughter is married and my son becomes a successful man, and spend the rest of my life listening to music and watching clouds. Then die of old age before my husband."

:| go home.

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Yay.
 
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Yeah Marriage kinda sucks.
We are going to spend rest of our lives together,Lets spend all our money in one day...it sucks at least in my country some of them are arranged marriages,marrying a total stranger.decided by wealth and status not by love.I dnt get that logic.
also men desire to have a family,to have a wife and children and calm life I bet more men have destroyed their life trying to fulfil it.
 

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It's not cheap, it's practical tbh. Who wants to spend millions of dollars on a one-day affair, only to suffer years of debt or bankruptcy for payments for that one occasion?

Clearly not everyone is in the same boat, financially. If one can afford to make it an opulent occasion, then do so, it makes a big difference. Besides, it doesn't have to be uber-economical or overly lavish; it can something middling.

An intimate affair with a touch of je ne sais quoi.

OT: Yay.

This isn't a good place to ask such a question, seeing as a large majority are so jejune.
 
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Marriage is the end of all happiness, as so I heard.
 

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Yeah, marriage is pretty stupid in some ways-I absolutely agree with the whole divorce/male thingy. As one of my friends said "How is prostitution illegal, but alimony isn't, it's basically the same-you are paying for the ***** to leave.." LOL!

Anyways, marriage can be happy if with the right person.
 

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I think marrige is the biggest bull that exists on planet Earth!

First off, the guy has to spend his money buying the girl some dimaond ring! In most relationships the girls have the better ring by worlds!

(This is not rue at all, I have seen a lot girls asking for something cheaper. My friend has a ruby and It's way better than a diamond)

2.If there id a divorce, the guy looses a lot, as well as the fact that the court system supports the females more!

(Also a misdirection and improper statement. It's called a prenup agreement. The men who lose a lot are just the stupid ones who didn't make one. Also kids play a huge factor in that as well)

3.On the wedding day, the woman gets to walk down, she will have flower girls and roses under her feet while wearing a beautiful white dress, but the guy wears Normal casual cloth ... nothing special!

(Have you ever been to a wedding? I'm kinda seeing you have no idea what you are talking about lol. I don't think a suit that cost a few hundred is normal casual clothes....Those also aren't necessary, I have been to plenty of weddings without those)

4.Also why does the guy have to propose? Its Bs man!

( Also an old world idea. I proposed to my ex husband not the other way around, actually a lot of my friends did too. So this just also verified my idea that this is all coming from movies you have seen and not real life)

Most of us are here are guys so just imagen, paying a lot of money for some retarded piece of rock,than paying a lot of money so you can have some retarded ceremony and have some ink placed on paper!Than imagen having kids but divorcing, you would loose your kids and your house! Tell me where justice is?Why must love be measured with the amount of money you spend?

This is all stuff that isn't necessary, most guys do this on their own. Just to let you know my best friend payed for most of her wedding as do most, It's half/half. Sometimes It's a culture thing, you can't just generalize this all into one same category. I don't know where you get off trying to blame woman for everything in this...My ex husband didn't lose his house nor any money so I don't really know where you got this stuff. But It's so badly misplaces weddings in general..You have to consider people's customs and cultures.


I answered you in Italics in your original post.
 

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This is all stuff that isn't necessary, most guys do this on their own. Just to let you know my best friend payed for most of her wedding as do most, It's half/half. Sometimes It's a culture thing, you can't just generalize this all into one same category. I don't know where you get off trying to blame woman for everything in this...My ex husband didn't lose his house nor any money so I don't really know where you got this stuff. But It's so badly misplaces weddings in general..You have to consider people's customs and cultures.


I answered you in Italics in your original post.
Ex Husband. . ? When were you planning on telling me this?!
 

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Nay. Outsiders will cramp my style. To become stronger, I must have no bonds. Only then can I get revenge.
 
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