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Just leave her ass. Simple.

No offense but she don't love you. Not to mention she seems kinda crazy. But then again..I don't think any kids from this generation know what love is. They just throw it around..
Good point, more of infatuation than anything else really.
And even that is a stretch.
You have a really serious problem there .

Just move on .
If only it were that easy. :(

Talk to another girl without her knowing and then date her.
Sounds like some bad advice but look where my opinion got me xD
she sounds hella childish
You have no idea xD
We play COD together and if you team kill her she backs out and won't play with me anymore xD
 

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Sounds like she simply wants to play with your heart. Oh, and remember that no girl is worth killing yourself over. Lol
 

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She annoys me honestly .

She doesn't want you to talk to your friend because he was her Ex? Thats so selfish .

Let alone how she doesn't want you to talk to girls while she does Herself.
 

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Honest opinion, she not worth the stress, if she can't accept you and who you are friends with then she's not worth it, you're better off with someone more relaxed.
 

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Hah, you are lucky, at least she was worried about you after your suicide. My ex didnt give a shiet when I tried to kill myself over her Lol ( I spent not 12 days but 2 months at psychiatry -_-)
If you would of done it tight she would of noticed.
JK dude XD XD XD
 

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I wouldn't waste my time. She has commitment issues but wants you there as an option for her if she can't find someone better.

Don't feed into her bullshit. Find other girls.
 

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Sounds like she simply wants to play with your heart. Oh, and remember that no girl is worth killing yourself over. Lol
I like how you put Lol at the end xD
She annoys me honestly .

She doesn't want you to talk to your friend because he was her Ex? Thats so selfish .

Let alone how she doesn't want you to talk to girls while she does Herself.
When I try to talk about that individually she gets mad. So I just kinda back off.
Honest opinion, she not worth the stress, if she can't accept you and who you are friends with then she's not worth it, you're better off with someone more relaxed.
I'm home schooled so it isn't exactly easy to meet people. >_<
 

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Leave her and don't look back, life's too short to be stressing over one chick
 

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You never mentioned if you were in love with her or not so I assume that you're not. So what's the attraction here, ego? If so, it's not even a healthy ego build. Move on neither of you are getting what you want.
 

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People this days don't know the meaning of the word Love anymore ......I agree with what @Arabella said , it's not worth it .
 

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she can't tell you what and what not to do but leave herself "options" and freedom from you. tell her that if she cares about you then she wouldn't be doing all those stuff that make you feel bad. and if she loves then then she should show it and talk about it. i'm not saying to leave her because it looks like you still care about her but you got to have some demands, the bare minimum expected from her if she really cares. if she can't meet that then move on, when millehouse figures out there are other girls that will act better towards him he will have a happier life.
 

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For future reference, the OP is saying that it wasn't because of her that he tried to kill himself. It was a sanctioned incident unrelated to her.

OT: She's not worth it man. She's basically making you run in circles. She constantly is checking up on you and making you believe she wants to be something with you, but when you try to get serious she backs out. She doesn't know what love is, and she will only cause you problems in the end. Find someone else who will truly want to be with you and not play games.
 
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Hello I am new! Also here to help!

Look my rules are for relationships, if you have to worry about her all the time with guys, or your not truly happy its not worth your time man. Spend your money and time on a girl who would actually appreciate you.
 

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Leave her and don't look back, life's too short to be stressing over one chick
Sometimes it is hard to let go though. If it were that easy I would have already.
You never mentioned if you were in love with her or not so I assume that you're not. So what's the attraction here, ego? If so, it's not even a healthy ego build. Move on neither of you are getting what you want.
I know I feel towards her. Now as if it love.. I don't know. I hope not. I wish love to be something more. Something better.
People this days don't know the meaning of the word Love anymore ......I agree with what @Arabella said , it's not worth it .

she can't tell you what and what not to do but leave herself "options" and freedom from you. tell her that if she cares about you then she wouldn't be doing all those stuff that make you feel bad. and if she loves then then she should show it and talk about it. i'm not saying to leave her because it looks like you still care about her but you got to have some demands, the bare minimum expected from her if she really cares. if she can't meet that then move on, when millehouse figures out there are other girls that will act better towards him he will have a happier life.
I'll probably try that. Because it won't be very easy to just walk away.
For future reference, the OP is saying that it wasn't because of her that he tried to kill himself. It was a sanctioned incident unrelated to her.

OT: She's not worth it man. She's basically making you run in circles. She constantly is checking up on you and making you believe she wants to be something with you, but when you try to get serious she backs out. She doesn't know what love is, and she will only cause you problems in the end. Find someone else who will truly want to be with you and not play games.
I always seem to have the worst luck with ladies. I am too passive.
Hello I am new! Also here to help!

Look my rules are for relationships, if you have to worry about her all the time with guys, or your not truly happy its not worth your time man. Spend your money and time on a girl who would actually appreciate you.
I don't think I am happy, but if I'm not now i can't imagine the feeling without her.
 

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Let her go.

I know it's hard now but you'll be happier when you do.
She doesn't love you probably never has. She most likely likes having a guy around she knows she can control and the moment you question her authority she will get upset.

Or...

HANG DAT B-TCH RIGHT NAH!
I got the rope right here!
 

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Well, for the sake of this topic, I'm gonna be serious.

ONE: Stick to your own rules of your life. You are the king. You do whatever you like. You say whatever you like no matter what. Nobody tells to do that and to not do that.

TWO: Ask yourself. Are you looking for true love, a girlfriend who you and her each devotes to the other for the sake of loving each other? OR are you just ladies-man? Don't ruin someone's else life if you can't suppress your lust of women.

In case you have a girlfriend or what appears to be a shallow relationship. You need to be honest with yourself and the girl.

Personally, I despise lies. So I'm gonna tell you not to lie to anyone, and specially YOU. Don't think you're the man among men and hotshot. Trust and respect are important in relationship. You can be friend with other girls depends on situations. It doesn't mean you're gonna cheat on her. Just when you get back home grab her, hug her and kiss her. That helps to keep you emotionally away from other girls.

Seriously, some girls plan/like to ruin relationships of others for their own pleasures.

If I have a girlfriend, whenever I come back from work or any place, I would directly hug her, kiss her and tell her how much I love her. I see many women, and I get dirty/perverted thoughts. This and I'm single. I can't restrain my lust for women.

However, having a girlfriend, she can't tell me what to do and what to say. If she doesn't like my way and if she doesn't trust me, she can leave me and I'm all fine. At least not to hurt her. Cheating is harsh. Being single and spending nights here and there and getting laid with different girls, life isn't about that. Welcome to the nastiness of this world.
 

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In my honest opinion, she's being a hypocrite. Saying she loves you, but then saying she's keeping her options open, while not only refusing to date you, but also refusing to let you date others? Either she has to go, or she's with you all the way man.
 

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I dont even understand why you even care for such a *****.. Move on dude. Bishes aint gonna get nothin u.u
 

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Either change the girl's mind, or change the girl.

 
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