How do you dwal with rude people

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

How do you deal with di##heads and generally rude people. When they say something you find unpleasant whether they realise it or not how do you take it. I'm not very good with this kind of thing and I'm a big strong guy but alas words do hurt me . I think I come across to friendly and don't want to say anything bad and try to get along with everyone. I used to be the kind of guy no one would offend but I guess I don't give that image out anymore, some times people fear me for no good reason and other times when they should they don't and I kind of feel about offended as I must come across too nice or something. I'll give you an example, I was talking to this guy and was working a security Job, I'm looking to get into bouncing and like I said I'm a big strong guy and I mention it to this guy who is what I assumed a loser and failure which is true as my assumptions were later confirmed he tried to become one and failed. I say to the guy not any time soon I'm not ready yet and he comes out with it why cause you will get knocked out now I've never been knocked out in my life and anyone I have fought has had nothing but respect/fear and would not do so again.
I
have a quite nature and some have tried and failed, this is all in the past though. So anyway he says you will get knocked out and not all guys going to clubs are skinny little guys, now the only fear I have is I might hurt someone and lose my licence but this guy took the piss I felt like grabbing the ****er by the neck and saying you what mate? He is a fat little **** with glasses and it would take me 2 secs to take him out but I said that's your opinion. I need help in how to deal with these people when I feel offended do I not say anything and take the insult, do I insult back or make them shit their pants? I kind of feel anxious and threatened in that kind of situation I don't k ow how to describe it maybe I panick who knows maybe this is me exaggerating but what do I do and what would you do clearly walking away from the situation is not good as it continues to bother me. Also how do I get rid of people I don't wanna talk to some people are so rude and only wanna talk to know information and talk like its an interrogation is it OK for me to say piss off?

Edit: some advice would be nice

 

[Matt]

I deal with them by slapping them

 

[Dreemax]

Rinbo - hengoku

 

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

Rinbo - hengoku

Some serious replies man

I deal with them by slapping them

Well I could slap him but then the situation would quickly escalate, I need some advice dude

 

[Matt]

Hmm slap him twice? Then shank his gf

 

[Unbiased]

Shoot him if you never want to deal with him again. Pour bleach in his gas tank. Unscrew his tires to the point where they almost come off that way at high speeds they fall off and he gets owned, Put glass on his windshield wipers to **** up his car, key his car, sneak something he's allergic too in his food, give him antifreeze since it taste like kool aid, kill his pets etc.

 

[Champ]

How about having a fight with yourself internally, and be the bigger person. You already said you fear hurting someone and losing your licence. Think about that, plus if they're aren't mocking you everyday then it shouldn't be a big deal.

 

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

Hmm slap him twice? Then shank his gf

How about thrice? Get serious man, I don't shank people, if you mean f##k then no way bro she is likely a cancerous *****. So I just jab everyone who displeases me? I mean can't I be nice and be a feared badass or do I have to continue to prove my badassness?

 

[Da Best Ever]

Some serious replies man


Well I could slap him but then the situation would quickly escalate, I need some advice dude

is it more like bullying???, if it is then thats a different matter but if its just snotty comments then its a part of u growing up and learning how to deal with different types of people...i knw it sounds stupid but sometimes u just have to walk away...if its your brother or another family member u can handle things a lot different and in a more aggressive way

 

[Da Best Ever]

How about thrice? Get serious man, I don't shank people, if you mean f##k then no way bro she is likely a cancerous *****. So I just jab everyone who displeases me? I mean can't I be nice and be a feared badass or do I have to continue to prove my badassness?

obviously if someone is rude to u they dnt respect yo gangsta, so u have to go about things differently when u are around that person or just dnt go around that person

 

[Lrrrrr]

Ignore them? That's what I do. No point in worrying about them.

 

[Alice in Noodleland]

the actions you will decide to take will define you as a person.
After that decision , look at yourself in the mirror.

 

[Avinash012]

Being cool and polite.

 

[Holy Cross]

Give 'em the Waterbugs

 

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

Shoot him if you never want to deal with him again. Pour bleach in his gas tank. Unscrew his tires to the point where they almost come off that way at high speeds they fall off and he gets owned, Put glass on his windshield wipers to **** up his car, key his car, sneak something he's allergic too in his food, give him antifreeze since it taste like kool aid, kill his pets etc.

That is too extreme, all I would have to do is move close to him and say do you wanna keep your teeth to make him poop his pants why all this crazy stuff?

How about having a fight with yourself internally, and be the bigger person. You already said you fear hurting someone and losing your licence. Think about that, plus if they're aren't mocking you everyday then it shouldn't be a big deal.

I do all the time I'm just sick of it, do you think madara would just sit there and take it no and in the same way why should I? Forget the damn license I just don't wanna be the guy who does that nor the guy people mock as you put it, but how do I go about averting this problem. It is mainly internal there is a half which completely understands that the guy is a prick, the situation that he was unable to do something and now says other cannot, he is extremely negative and a prick to his mate who is awesome by the way. Then there is the other half which says this guy is an insect how dare he speak to me that way no one speaks to me like that and I feel like giving him something to remember

 

[Fluffyman]

Counter words with words or ignore it and counter violence with violence. Countering words with violence is a bad idea most of the time, it puts you in a bad light to bystanders.

Shoot him if you never want to deal with him again. Pour bleach in his gas tank. Unscrew his tires to the point where they almost come off that way at high speeds they fall off and he gets owned, Put glass on his windshield wipers to **** up his car, key his car, sneak something he's allergic too in his food, give him antifreeze since it taste like kool aid, kill his pets etc.

Nothing but b*tchmoves.

 

[Kaneki Kun]

Be the bigger man. The best thing to do is just laugh at the persons face and tell them their not even worth it and walk away. Don't look back though! Just keep swimming, also people only insult others because their jealous (Aka f**k niqqas)

 

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

obviously if someone is rude to u they dnt respect yo gangsta, so u have to go about things differently when u are around that person or just dnt go around that person

Thank you this should be obvious to me yet it wasn't thank you, you are right he who gives none deserves no respect and I should not bother with fools.

the actions you will decide to take will define you as a person.
After that decision , look at yourself in the mirror.

I know and that right there is the problem I wish I did not have a consciousness

Being cool and polite.

That's right brother preach the way

Give 'em the Waterbugs

I don't understand?

 

[Champ]

I do all the time I'm just sick of it, do you think madara would just sit there and take it no and in the same way why should I? Forget the damn license I just don't wanna be the guy who does that nor the guy people mock as you put it, but how do I go about averting this problem. It is mainly internal there is a half which completely understands that the guy is a prick, the situation that he was unable to do something and now says other cannot, he is extremely negative and a prick to his mate who is awesome by the way. Then there is the other half which says this guy is an insect how dare he speak to me that way no one speaks to me like that and I feel like giving him something to remember

Well if you see the dude everyday. I see three options if he bothers you, bother him ruin his day make jokes about how he's short and fat. Other is beat him up, last is get a restraining order.

 

[Lana Del Taka]

I ignore because I really don't give a ****U_U