Whizgigger
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Hey guys! I just wanted to share whats happened in my life recently and maybe get some help from you guys. Before I begin, heres a little about me. I've been a fan of this website since back in 09'. I've never really bothered with making an account until last year. I enjoy reading and watching Naruto on this site. So pretty much Narutobase has sorta became a side family to me. I love drawing and listening to music. I find myself to be a very gentle type of person. Enough as it is, here it goes:
On December 16th, 2013 I caught my wife cheating. We have been married for 3 years as of December 23rd. I've known her since middle school. She was my high school sweet heart. It completly broke my heart when I found out...I couldn't get off my knees. I loved her to death. She was supposed to be my best-friend, my one and only.
Here is how everything happened: On December 13th she was supposed to leave town to go spend the weekend with her parents with our daughter to celebrate her birthday early. Our daughter is two years old. It seem normal and okay to me that she did that. When I got off work Monday the 16th, I noticed there was a vase of flowers in our kitchen. All I thought was that maybe it was given to her by her dad. Since my wife is a stay at home mom, money is rather tight. We shared a cell-phone.
There was a call that night around 5pm. I tried to answer it. She wouldn't let me. So that was odd, and we ended up wrestling for the phone. She won the struggle and ran to the bathroom and closed the door. At that moment I opened up her internet and clicked facebook. Since she is always logged on I don't have to log on. There was a new message from a guy saying "Babe last night was amazing, I miss you, I wish you could of spent the night." Reading that immediately BROKE my heart. I was bawlling that night like a friggin river. I questioned her later on why and how many guys, to only find out shes been sleeping with guys for over a year with atleast 5 guys...
She won't tell me the names of all of the guys. But I figured out two names (won't post it). I guessed names and how many she cheated on me with. She would say no until I got to the number 5 and stopped saying no when I named someone correctly...At the end she just stopped answering my questions.
We are seperated now. I've never been in such turmoil in my life. I'm so confused and lost. I've worked my ass off for her all our lives together so she could be a stay at home mom. I gave her a home, provided her food, and whatever needs she needed. I loved her with all of my heart! I've never hit her or anything. I just don't know what to do anymore....What do you guys think? There is alot more thats happened since I found out, but I don't want to bore you guys to death... :eww:
Edit:
She wants a divorce because shes been dating the last guy she slept with behind my back for two months. I already told her I want to work it out, but she dosn't. One of the guys she slept with is married and has 3 kids. The current boyfriend shes with now proclaims to be a jesus lover/rapper. Everytime I think about her (pretty much everyday) is haunting my memories....I can't sleep at night, I can't eat...everything just seems so depressing in my life right now...
On December 16th, 2013 I caught my wife cheating. We have been married for 3 years as of December 23rd. I've known her since middle school. She was my high school sweet heart. It completly broke my heart when I found out...I couldn't get off my knees. I loved her to death. She was supposed to be my best-friend, my one and only.
Here is how everything happened: On December 13th she was supposed to leave town to go spend the weekend with her parents with our daughter to celebrate her birthday early. Our daughter is two years old. It seem normal and okay to me that she did that. When I got off work Monday the 16th, I noticed there was a vase of flowers in our kitchen. All I thought was that maybe it was given to her by her dad. Since my wife is a stay at home mom, money is rather tight. We shared a cell-phone.
There was a call that night around 5pm. I tried to answer it. She wouldn't let me. So that was odd, and we ended up wrestling for the phone. She won the struggle and ran to the bathroom and closed the door. At that moment I opened up her internet and clicked facebook. Since she is always logged on I don't have to log on. There was a new message from a guy saying "Babe last night was amazing, I miss you, I wish you could of spent the night." Reading that immediately BROKE my heart. I was bawlling that night like a friggin river. I questioned her later on why and how many guys, to only find out shes been sleeping with guys for over a year with atleast 5 guys...
She won't tell me the names of all of the guys. But I figured out two names (won't post it). I guessed names and how many she cheated on me with. She would say no until I got to the number 5 and stopped saying no when I named someone correctly...At the end she just stopped answering my questions.
We are seperated now. I've never been in such turmoil in my life. I'm so confused and lost. I've worked my ass off for her all our lives together so she could be a stay at home mom. I gave her a home, provided her food, and whatever needs she needed. I loved her with all of my heart! I've never hit her or anything. I just don't know what to do anymore....What do you guys think? There is alot more thats happened since I found out, but I don't want to bore you guys to death... :eww:
Edit:
She wants a divorce because shes been dating the last guy she slept with behind my back for two months. I already told her I want to work it out, but she dosn't. One of the guys she slept with is married and has 3 kids. The current boyfriend shes with now proclaims to be a jesus lover/rapper. Everytime I think about her (pretty much everyday) is haunting my memories....I can't sleep at night, I can't eat...everything just seems so depressing in my life right now...
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