Does having a girlfriend make you feel happier?

Fair Warning

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For me it did, but only for a little while.


People think love will last forever and they will be super happy and popular.

But no,

I am poplar, I have my off days too. Feel bad
 

Sir Blades

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Just a little and it only last for a bit. I make myself happier. I travel, go out, shop, hang out, surf the web, fine dining etc.
 

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Having a girlfriend should make u feel happier but if she aint doing the job then she aint right for u on some RNS.
 

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Depends on how much I actually like her.
 

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Most of the time yeah, you gotta be happy by yourself though too, otherwise you'll develop a dependency of the girl for your happiness (personal experience). Girls can make a guy happy, shit there are things girls can do to a guy to make him him happy beyond his wildest imagination... But it's up to a man to sustain his happiness without a girl. And there's plenty of ways to do that.
 

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My Girlfriend Drives me absolutly insane but i couldn't be happier and i like her so much it isn't even funny. its all about balancing relationships with other things don't let it consume all your time and of course if the girl isn't right for you either find a different one or just stay single for awhile
 

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Most of the time yeah, you gotta be happy by yourself though too, otherwise you'll develop a dependency of the girl for your happiness (personal experience). Girls can make a guy happy, shit there are things girls can do to a guy to make him him happy beyond his wildest imagination... But it's up to a man to sustain his happiness without a girl. And there's plenty of ways to do that.
Yanking the monkey is one way
 

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Depends on the girl , personality etc ......although a friend (girl) would be nice , getting tired of my sausage fest lol.
 

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Well it feels Really happy when you got your 1st Girlfriend,, But kinda normal after that
 

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Most of the time yeah, you gotta be happy by yourself though too, otherwise you'll develop a dependency of the girl for your happiness (personal experience). Girls can make a guy happy, shit there are things girls can do to a guy to make him him happy beyond his wildest imagination... But it's up to a man to sustain his happiness without a girl. And there's plenty of ways to do that.

This is 100% true.

A Partner can MAKE you happy.

Doesn't mean you ARE.

Being in a relationship is risky on the guys end if you don't know this. Women always look to guys as "jerks" and whatever. But in reality "jerks" are a survival response to how different women and men are. The thing is Men are taught "Honor, loyalty,duty" all our lives. That shit is shoved so hard into ourselves that it puts a man at a disadvantage at the relationship game. Super heroes, action movies and everything else we look to has these messages force fed to us. They are not bad messages but the ladies don't have these forced on them as hard. They are taught they are special, they are this and that and deserve the best just because they were born. " Plenty of fish in the sea" applies greatly here.

When you get dumped as a guy it's not just being dumped. It's almost like Failing your "duty" . So if you are not happy with yourself this can be a Really bad blow. So it's important that yes having a Gf makes you happy but don't for 1 second doubt that can't be taken away. ( even if you lock her in your basement ). So learn to live without and don't purposely chase it!
 

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its 50/50

I mean at point it can make you happy.
But then at some point it makes you unhappy.
 
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