Alright this is the first time any of my friends lied to me, I need some advice here.
Yesterday I asked my friend Phil if he wanted to hangout later and he said, "not today" and I said, "What are you doing, playing cards with the guys?" And he said "I'm sleeping on my coach" He plays lacrosse so I thought he was just tired due to a practice.
But here I go on twitter several hours later and my friend Brandon posts a pic of him with Phil at this basketball game with several other of my friends.
I don't know why he would lie to me because I hung out with him and the other guys who went to the basketball game multiple times before and talk to them all the time in school.
Here is what I'm thinking:
1. He lied because he didn't want to hang with me
2. He changed his mind about sleeping when he got invited to go to the game
For 2. If I confront him and he says he changed his mind, then I mean, if I already asked him to hangout and he said no, then decided he wanted to do something, why wouldn't he hit me up again?
Basically my question and the point of this thread is, how do I confront him and what do I say? I don't want to look desperate or lame because we are both considered "popular" in my grade and I don't want to look like a puss but I need to know why he would lie to me. Again this has never happened before lol I don't know what to do
Yesterday I asked my friend Phil if he wanted to hangout later and he said, "not today" and I said, "What are you doing, playing cards with the guys?" And he said "I'm sleeping on my coach" He plays lacrosse so I thought he was just tired due to a practice.
But here I go on twitter several hours later and my friend Brandon posts a pic of him with Phil at this basketball game with several other of my friends.
I don't know why he would lie to me because I hung out with him and the other guys who went to the basketball game multiple times before and talk to them all the time in school.
Here is what I'm thinking:
1. He lied because he didn't want to hang with me
2. He changed his mind about sleeping when he got invited to go to the game
For 2. If I confront him and he says he changed his mind, then I mean, if I already asked him to hangout and he said no, then decided he wanted to do something, why wouldn't he hit me up again?
Basically my question and the point of this thread is, how do I confront him and what do I say? I don't want to look desperate or lame because we are both considered "popular" in my grade and I don't want to look like a puss but I need to know why he would lie to me. Again this has never happened before lol I don't know what to do