Everything is getting worse

[Sefirosu Masamune]

This is about the most ignorant thread i've seen in a while. The entire explanation is so biased and you pass your brother not attending school off as if it was nothing.

Your brother will be fine, i've seen countless people run away from home, 90% of them come back completely fine.

Well this is also a side of the spectrum. He should be going to school. If he was going to school this would not have happened. it is his fault for being rebellious, but her concern is for his safety. and honestly he would have never run away if he was not gonna be safe. he will be back home in no time

 

[Penguin]

Well said....the key to a man heart is through his stomach

Experience. I was hungry as hell when I caved in and went to my grandma's house. Subway has never tasted so good.

 

[Cfighter]

Is hard to give advice with the limited information you've given. You've described a single, isolated incident and thats not really enough to say much. I can say though that my friend has run away from home many times, and he's always ok. So try not to worry about it too much.

I can also say that reading this thread with this song makes things sooooooo badass.

 

[Blunt]

Kid will be back tomorrow or soon, especially when he has no money.

 

[FitzChivalry Farseer]

I think you're exaggerating the moment though. Don't put too much thought into it. If your parents are ok with it then you should be too. If their not worried then you should be even less. Let them handle that prob.

 

[cjayz 007]

Okay so, Today my mom and my brother got into it about him not going to school.
It got really bad and stuff. Then like 4 hours ago, my brother just came to my room, and gave me a goodbye.
I asked what he meant, he told me he was leaving. I didn't know what to do or say. Even if I said, stay. He wouldn't stay. So he left my room, and closed the door. Then like 1 minute , I heard him and my mom arguing about him leaving.

Then 3 minutes passed by, I went to see the situation. All I see is my mom crying to someone on the phone, and the door wide open. I couldn't believe she let him leave. I just can't believe this shvt.

I ran out to go get him but he was already gone.

I've been crying to the point where my head feels like my brain is about to break through.
My mom seems so sure he will come back, but I'm not too sure.

Now,my mom is talking to my dad. And they are sitting here, laughing and all cheery and stuff. Like WTF.

Can we all go back to the part where my brother just left?

Not trying to seem like an attention seeker, but no one seems to ask about how I feel.
Not one "It's going to be okay" was handed out to me tonight. It makes me feel like as it's like this
"Who cares about ,Panda?"

I think my mom is going to send us to live with our dad. I can't live with him.
You guys don't understand. I can't freaking live where he lives.
It's a place infested with molesters and rapist.
Just thinking about last time, I lived with him. Makes me want to go kill myself , A.S.A.P


Most people will probably post
"why are you telling us"
"Point of this thread"

I just want some input on this and like advice, and to be honest.
At least some damn comfort. Geesh, Ain't even get a damn hug tonight. Hell, when my brother left. He just said bye. No, nice I love you so much speech. U_U

FML.FML.FML.

u nid Jesus to guide u just give your life to Jesus, make him ur best friend, he will save your family and make everything perfect.

 

[Οdin]

He will most likely be back, so don't worry about it too much.

 

[Tingun]

I think you're exaggerating the moment though. Don't put too much thought into it. If your parents are ok with it then you should be too. If their not worried then you should be even less. Let them handle that prob.

That's way to optimistic of a suggestion.
Many things could happen to it's brother.

OT: Have you even discussed any of this with your parents?

 

[Disquiet]

Ah, I have five older brothers. Lots of drama growing up. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong, it leaves you with a sick feeling in your stomach when a member of the household is gone and everyone is all cheery. And of course, you're going to miss them.

As young as you are; not much you can do about it. You just have to trust your parents and your brother. I doubt your parents doesn't care whether he lives or dies. He may have other relatives out there as well. If days go by, I'm sure your parents will go search for him. Understand, that to your parents, it's important they establish who are the heads of the household. If they go all "Pleas don't go!", he may begin to think he can get his way.

I'd just wait if I were you; and try not to think about it so much.

 

[Craziie]

That's way to optimistic of a suggestion.
Many things could happen to it's brother.

OT: Have you even discussed any of this with your parents?

No, I haven't discussed this with my parents because they're too busy having a good conversation about their life when they were teenagers. So no.

 

[Tingun]

No, I haven't discussed this with my parents because they're too busy having a good conversation about their life when they were teenagers. So no.

I'm sure they are. This is most likely the result of their reflection of the child-parent relationship especially around times of hormonal development.


Did you ask to talk to them about it?

 

[Jazzy Stardust]

It sucks but you have to get a grip and stay positive. There isn't really much you can do, you can't control your brother and he has to learn from his mistakes. It sucks but it's true. Just try to stay positive and remind yourself that your brother will be alright. Constantly thinking about the negative things won't do anyone any good, not only does it attract negative things but what if's will only hurt yourself.

Just calm yourself and get yourself together and just ask your parents about the situation. Don't get over emotional and start crying just ask them calmly.

 

[Craziie]

I'm sure they are. This is most likely the result of their reflection of the child-parent relationship especially around times of hormonal development.


Did you ask to talk to them about it?

I have tried to talk to them but my mom just tells me to go to my room.
And no.
That's not even close to what the conversation is about.

 

[Craziie]

I want to thank everyone who posted in this thread.
I really appreciate it, and it's nice to know atleast some people actually give a care. NB sure is cold sometimes but alot of people do have hearts.

 

[Tingun]

I have tried to talk to them but my mom just tells me to go to my room.
And no.
That's not even close to what the conversation is about.

It's most likely rooted in the same trigger. Why else would they be talking about being teenagers at such a time. As teenagers are constantly developing as a result of the coming of hormonal maturity the discussion of being teenage is equivalent to this.

You also are neglecting the fact that you are not the only one who has been hurt by this situation, neither are you the most experienced.

 

[FitzChivalry Farseer]

That's way to optimistic of a suggestion.
Many things could happen to it's brother.

OT: Have you even discussed any of this with your parents?

Well yeah but noone can control every circumstance. Hes gotta have something called trust.

OT: Do not worry about this problem op because if you do then its just going to upset your parents even more than they are already. Sounds to me like your parents are trying to get through your brothers absence by having a good time and your just bumming them out.

 

[Tingun]

Well yeah but noone can control every circumstance. Hes gotta have something called trust.

OT: Do not worry about this problem op because if you do then its just going to upset your parents even more than they are already. Sounds to me like your parents are trying to get through your brothers absence by having a good time and your just bumming them out.

His/her immaturity is baring him from understanding. This is bluntly put, but factual, I can't really take off that negative connotation.

 

[Tendou00]

Good luck man, try to ask his best friends you need to know if he's safe and have somewhere to sleep.
I hope he'll be back soon at home, i know some friends with similar story then always the brother come back.

 

[Stark]

I know we don't know each other, but if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here. I've given tons of advice and comfort to countless people whether on here or off the base.

 

[Craziie]

It's most likely rooted in the same trigger. Why else would they be talking about being teenagers at such a time. As teenagers are constantly developing as a result of the coming of hormonal maturity the discussion of being teenage is equivalent to this.

You also are neglecting the fact that you are not the only one who has been hurt by this situation, neither are you the most experienced.

You know what.
I am sick of you coming up with these assumptions about me.
1. I am not being immature. You said I was being ignorant, how?
Obviously him not going to school is a big damn deal if this is the situation. I have not neglected that. I'm more worried about my brother's safety rather than his damn school attendance.
2. I am aware that my parents are hurt but at the same time. Pushing me away and telling me to go in my room , is isn't exactly acknowleding that I have lost , a brother, and I will just add in the fact. That this isn't the first, I have lost one.
I have let them be for the longest.Nor have I even complained or whined to them about this situation.
I am in my room, not bothering them like they asked.
(By lost, here. I mean gone. No longer with me.)
Don't going throwing labels at me , that isn't even true.


Oh, and I am a girl. Ronald Mcmotherf-ckingdouche.