Kinda depressed here, it would be great to talk to you guys

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I know it's just that people could be SOOO MEAN ESPICALLY TEENAGERS. And they do it intentionally and laugh in front of your face. I don't have any guts to get up and stand up for myself. I can't say No. I always try to please people by doing whatever they say and they just walk all over me. I also change my personality a lot depending on a group of people I'm hanging out with. I just want to be accepted. But anytime I think someone excerpts me for who I am they just walk all over me and throw me in the trash like I'm dirt
It's alright,yes teenagers are cruel as hell, but since your a freshman,lay low for a couple weeks or months.
You know sophmores,juniors, and seniors be acting crazy towards freshman.

It's okay, don't worry, but your going to need to learn to stand up for yourself and not always be a people pleaser, because someone will take advantage of you, and let don't anyone do that to you EVERagain.
Life is cruel, got to be able say yes or no to what you believe in and not let people just treat you like a doormat.
It's disrespectful to yourself. It's okay if you like pleasing people but just don't give them the advantage of you.
I know the feels, but just try to hang out with people with similar interest as yours. Screw the cool people, they are most likely douche bags who probably will batter their wives or get pregnant earlier, not all are jerks but it seems like mostly.
Hang out with the nice people, and make sure you introduce the real you, don't hide it.
You'll be fine, just lay low for a couple weeks , and hang with the freshmans, unless you know some people from a higher grade than you... but don't let them walk all over you.
 
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Bro, point is.

You will make it through, stop letting all this negative bullcrap consume you.
Things get better, and it all depends on you.
Don't and sit around, and wait for someone else to fix you up, cause the only person who can heal you, is yourself
This song always helps me when I feeling down...

This song can be listened to in many different ways.

I basically listen to it like this:
I lost myself, and I'm struggling to find the old me.


I use to feel like I was looking in a mirror, and when I touched and it shattered, because this depression and everything wasn't me.

:)
Maybe you will feel the same. I dunno.
never heard this song before but it actually did lift up my spirits
 
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Probably "god" saved him. I don't believe you could prove that "god" is a man. "Jesus" was a man but you don't know about "god". Not trying to start some argument about religion not a subject I'm too fond of. Just stating what he basically said.
If God saved him, that's pretty cool. If people believe god saved them, I have no objections and I am happy for them.
 

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It's alright,yes teenagers are cruel as hell, but since your a freshman,lay low for a couple weeks or months.
You know sophmores,juniors, and seniors be acting crazy towards freshman.

It's okay, don't worry, but your going to need to learn to stand up for yourself and not always be a people pleaser, because someone will take advantage of you, and let don't anyone do that to you EVERagain.
Life is cruel, got to be able say yes or no to what you believe in and not let people just treat you like a doormat.
It's disrespectful to yourself. It's okay if you like pleasing people but just don't give them the advantage of you.
I know the feels, but just try to hang out with people with similar interest as yours. Screw the cool people, they are most likely douche bags who probably will batter their wives or get pregnant earlier, not all are jerks but it seems like mostly.
Hang out with the nice people, and make sure you introduce the real you, don't hide it.
You'll be fine, just lay low for a couple weeks , and hang with the freshmans, unless you know some people from a higher grade than you... but don't let them walk all over you.
Thanks bro I feel so much better now. I'm about to cry. I'm gonna look forward to high school now. Thank You so much and that song helped me to and reminded me about my best friend
 

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Thanks bro I feel so much better now. I'm about to cry. I'm gonna look forward to high school now. Thank You so much and that song helped me to and reminded me about my best friend
No problem. :win:.
And yes be excited, pass all your classes, and don't be afraid to beat a hoe, nah Jk. XD
never heard this song before but it actually did lift up my spirits
Glad to help. :)
 

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No it isn't. The fact that you believe those who can't recover sit around and do nothing about it discredits you. But I don't blame you for being so nieve. Seeing success can make success for others seem more attainable I suppose.

I know from experience that the majority people who try thier hardest to overcome real mental scars will never fully heal from them.
Tingun May you please tell us your story sorry if I'm being nosey but maybe we could help. Your usually the funny guy but when thread like these come you tend to get serious. What happened during your life? I care. Sorry you don't have to say if you don't want
 
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Well there is no right or wrong answer here.
This is pretty much built off of believe, and what we choose.
I believe that it all depends on the person, which is why it is a mental wound.
You can call me nieve, it's perfectly fine. I'm just a person who believes wounds can be healed over time, and everyone has the strength to do it.

The people who don't even believe, be the main ones, who always suffer in the pain.
And they don't have to, if they just believe themselves, and think positive.
Negative ain't never going to do anything, but wiegh you down like bricks.
You are wrong. These assumptions you keep bringing up are the main problem with your idealistic belief.

I have seen those who have done everything, who have believed, who have stayed positive for years on end, and still cannot escape it. I've seen those who have buried it, but the pain will resurface eventually.

Some things are so deep that strength cannot be attained or lent to overcome them.
Whether you believe this or not it is a matter of absolute truth.
 

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i know what it can be like. my whole family is made up of people that cant be considerate (in any meaning of the word. to others, of their own situations, of the growth of humanity) or tactful. they they always just made things worse. for instance, one time some of my family members were sitting in the kitchen talking about that mayan end of the world prediction. i asked them to stop, because the topic makes me uncomfortable. they agreed. but the very next day, my mother forgets and brings it up half a dozen times; casually starting with me. she does have a very bad memory, but; all and all, she chose to live an unhealthy life. as well as to go about tasks in unhealthy manners. and so on and so forth; probably affecting her brain. to make matters worse; and despite my father consoling me on the matter, they still invite me to go to that end of the world comedy movie that came out. that same day my sister inadvertantly yelled in my face. she is a excessively childish, brash individual. she was trying to have a conversation between rooms; while she was walking towards it. and that's just the tip of the iceberg in my CRAZY family, and my tedious life.

i get by (barely) by smoking pot and watching murder mysteries; oddly enough (im an addict). i recommend watching harold and kumar. the first one only; not the second (even if you're not a toker), eat a big spoon of peanut butter, maybe buy a giant teddy bear. and; of the utmost importance, listen to uptown girl by billy joel.
 
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Since I never get to reply to Tingun, I agree with him 90% on everything. I suffer from two things, to be unmotivated and depression but it's a recurring thing with the depression. I think my depression stems on how people use to treat me in middle school like I was a piece of shit, oh and how my relationships with girls I like always seem to go wrong. I fell in love once but she she turned me down and went for friend right in front of me. I felt like complete crap I wanted to give up on trying for anything. This is where my Social Anxiety increase and me thinking shitty about myself. I won't lie I did think about suicide more then once but my will to not do something that will hurt others because of my foolishness stops me from ever coming close to even doing it ever.
 

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You are wrong. These assumptions you keep bringing up are the main problem with your idealistic belief.

I have seen those who have done everything, who have believed, who have stayed positive for years on end, and still cannot escape it. I've seen those who have buried it, but the pain will resurface eventually.

Some things are so deep that strength cannot be attained or lent to overcome them.
Whether you believe this or not it is a matter of absolute truth.
Once again, like I said. There is no right or wrong answer in this type of situation.
There really and truly isn't.
Because I have seen and met peopple who have believed and stayed positive, and live happy lives.
Ex: My cousin, she had 4 miscarriages, and her boyfriend left her, she thought all was lost, but she started to believe and think positive. Now she has a new boyfriend who treats her right, and is now awaiting her due date which this month.
She is living a very happy life, even though through all the pain.
Ex: An old friend, who moved away. She use to have issues with her parents, horrid ones.She still came to school and smiled everyday, and thought positive and believed. She is now happy with her parents, who went to family counseling and they are now living a good life.
Ex:My grandmother, my grandpa died back in 08, she thought it was all her fault, and as time passed, she believed and thought positive, now is very happy with her life, and dwells on anything.
Ex: My 7th gr teacher, he husband died, she too thought it was her fault, Cried everyday in class, but as time passed she believed and thought positive, and now is a happy , and cherishing her duahgter.
Ex: An old friend, She was lesbian, afraid to come out. She did, everyone was disappointed in her and looked down on her, but as time passed, she believed and thought positive, now is happy with her gf, and everyonne who looked down, are now supporting her.
I could go on and on about how many people's live have changed according to my "idealistic beliefs", just as you can bring up as many people whos lives didn't change, which why I say there is no right or wrong answer.
I have seen people whos live has changed and you have seen people's lives who haven't.

Whether you believe it or not, I had a pretty horrible past, and it took my years to heal.
I can now speak freely about it, and not feel any pain about it, because life goes on, whether we want it or not, the more you dwell on something is the worse it gets. You can think I'm nieve or whatever, I'm used to it, but like my mother use to always say to me...

"When you let go , you are no longer hurt by whatever hurt you, and it no longer matters"
Which is why I look up to her, she went through truly a lot, and till this day she can sit and jst be like
"Whatever, what happened in the past, is in the past. I no longer care, what's done is done"

But it's all cool bro, We obviously have different views and beliefs here, and I don't really see the point of us going back and forth, back and forth about something where there is no right or wrong answer,.
I also want to point out, the truth that you are saying cannot be the truth if I have seen and expierenced myself different.
 

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Once again, like I said. There is no right or wrong answer in this type of situation.
There really and truly isn't.
Because I have seen and met peopple who have believed and stayed positive, and live happy lives.
Ex: My cousin, she had 4 miscarriages, and her boyfriend left her, she thought all was lost, but she started to believe and think positive. Now she has a new boyfriend who treats her right, and is now awaiting her due date which this month.
She is living a very happy life, even though through all the pain.
Ex: An old friend, who moved away. She use to have issues with her parents, horrid ones.She still came to school and smiled everyday, and thought positive and believed. She is now happy with her parents, who went to family counseling and they are now living a good life.
Ex:My grandmother, my grandpa died back in 08, she thought it was all her fault, and as time passed, she believed and thought positive, now is very happy with her life, and dwells on anything.
Ex: My 7th gr teacher, he husband died, she too thought it was her fault, Cried everyday in class, but as time passed she believed and thought positive, and now is a happy , and cherishing her duahgter.
Ex: An old friend, She was lesbian, afraid to come out. She did, everyone was disappointed in her and looked down on her, but as time passed, she believed and thought positive, now is happy with her gf, and everyonne who looked down, are now supporting her.
I could go on and on about how many people's live have changed according to my "idealistic beliefs", just as you can bring up as many people whos lives didn't change, which why I say there is no right or wrong answer.
I have seen people whos live has changed and you have seen people's lives who haven't.

Whether you believe it or not, I had a pretty horrible past, and it took my years to heal.
I can now speak freely about it, and not feel any pain about it, because life goes on, whether we want it or not, the more you dwell on something is the worse it gets. You can think I'm nieve or whatever, I'm used to it, but like my mother use to always say to me...

"When you let go , you are no longer hurt by whatever hurt you, and it no longer matters"
Which is why I look up to her, she went through truly a lot, and till this day she can sit and jst be like
"Whatever, what happened in the past, is in the past. I no longer care, what's done is done"

But it's all cool bro, We obviously have different views and beliefs here, and I don't really see the point of us going back and forth, back and forth about something where there is no right or wrong answer,.
I also want to point out, the truth that you are saying cannot be the truth if I have seen and expierenced myself different.
I see this discussion is fatuous. Simply, you believe that because you have seen some seemingly irreproachable people overcome some mid depth wounds, you believe that everything can be sated by a healing process.

I'm not going to consume my time "out-exampling" you seeing as you won't listen to reason. You base your assumption on limited experiential resources and refuse to believe anything that resides outside of your own experiences.


At the bold, your experience only covers a infintesimal part of society, it disprooves nothing that I have said, seeing as it does not proove in the slightest that everyone can heal. However, the fact that I have seen proof that your idea is false competely nullfies your idea, as you stated that all people can overcome their hardships, and a handfull is not all.
 
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Everyone has some good in their life...

Think of that again and again and try to smile on those things...
Watch a fun movie...

And


Be Awesome!!!
 
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