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Its just that sometimes I put myself under a surgeons light and pick at all the scars

Its crazy I know but please help me bear it
 

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Think about shitty life is for awhile, and then think about how good life could be, if you pick yourself .
It worked for me, but I'm a pretty crappy nobody so.... >__> O__o
 

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That's not a very comfortable feeling.

Cosman is here. Let's talk :win:

edit: And to add to what others have said, if something like this is a continuing struggle, asking for help is a great option. Actually, asking for help from a friend or family member is always a great choice.
 
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that's the problem with scars they don't fully heal , they will always re-open:)
 

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Tips to help:

1. Look into new music
2. Make a list of all the good things that has happened to you
3. Try learning a new language
 

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May u be the juubi jinchuriki amen!!! Lol sorry but what is the sergery u're undergoing through. Scar reduction!!!
 

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May u be the juubi jinchuriki amen!!! Lol sorry but what is the surgery u're going through? Scar reduction!!!
 

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I usually just think about the positive things in life.
 

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That's not a very comfortable feeling.

Cosman is here. Let's talk :win:

Thank you, you know just here dealing with life and all my shortcomings

Its insane how my brain just keeps torturing itself like this
 

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You is smart
You is cute
You is important
You is special

Don't kill yourself.
 

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that's the problem with scars they don't fully heal , they will always re-open:)

I believe, mental wounds all heal over time, but the time is depending how slowly you want to heal, eventually they will close. Like a cut, and it gets a scab, if you leave the scab alone.. and let it heal..when it comes off. The cut is no longer there, but depending on how deep the cut, it will still eventually close.
Whethere the scar re-opens or not, depends on you.

OH well, probably made no sense but whateves.
 

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Well me too. I always think about bad things that are happening in my life but never the good things. MANY bad things happened to me plus MANY good things has happen to me. Plus I'm going to my freshman year of high school on Monday and I don't know if I should be excited or scared. I know I shouldn't be scared but I just see darkness coming along on high school. Like my sig I'm making that face anytime I think about it
 
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Thank you, you know just here dealing with life and all my shortcomings

Its insane how my brain just keeps torturing itself like this

I felt the same, and soon enough, I thought I was going insane, like coo for coco puffs.
But then thought, Why should I put myself down?
or Why am I, and what is my purpose?
And after about 2-4 years of being depressed, I got my answer, Doesn't mean it will take you long but there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, just go and reach for it.
The more you stay depressed, is the more you stretch the distance of you being happy.
Ask yourself questions , like why?
Question yourself, over and over, and eventually you will get your answer.

No, they don't.

Yes, they do.
It all depends on the person.
It took me years, and now my wounds are healed. I live a much better life, and I'm no longer an dark depressing negative person.
 

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Think about shitty life is for awhile, and then think about how good life could be, if you pick yourself .
It worked for me, but I'm a pretty crappy nobody so.... >__> O__o

Hey youre somebody that posted back right now and that makes a whole difference with me, thanks
 

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Hmmm i go out by myself or friends and have a few drinks at the peer or just take a long walk around the city or beach at night/evening
 

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Yes, they do.
It all depends on the person.
It took me years, and now my wounds are healed. I live a much better life, and I'm no longer an dark depressing negative person.

It doesn't depend on the person it depends on the wound.
 

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Well me too. I always think about bad things that are happening in my life but never the good things. MANY bad things happened to me plus MANY good things has happen to me. Plus I'm going to my freshman year of high school on Monday and I don't know if I should be excited or scared. I know I shouldn't be scared but I just see darkness coming along on high school. Like my sig I'm making that face anytime I think about it

High school is not all that bad, if you go in with a negative attitude, your most likely going to stick with it.
Be excited, your growing up. Sure it's a little scary at first, but after the 1st day or 2, things aren't hard to grasp, and the only thing that really differs from middle school is the academic grades(credits), the teachers, and the students.

It doesn't depend on the person it depends on the wound.

I believe it's the person, if you sit in your room all day, thinking about sh-tty life is...do you really expect to heal your wound?
It doesn't heal with negativity, but yet with the positive.
The more the person downs theirself, is the deeper the wound gets and the more time it takes.

It's all the person.
Mental...wounds.
 
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