Naruto's pain overlooked..

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I swear to god, people overlook Naruto's pain really bad. When the comparison between Sasuke and Gaara and Naruto is made.. for some reason, people put Gaara and Sasuke above due to these reasons:

-Gaara's dad tried to kill him 5 times

- Sasuke's whole clan was killed by his own brother.


And the excuse for Naruto's pain not being that high is this:

- he was simply not loved..... whats not there can't hurt you.


Realization and situation:


But here is the thing that people do not realize... The "unknown" hurts the most. Naruto being hated on wasn't the sad part to Naruto.... it was the "WHY"? What was the reason?? Why am i called a demon?? What did i do?? Who are my parents?? Was I just born for no reason?? Aka the "unknown".

Then on top of that, even after finding out.... Naruto had to live with the demon who killed BOTH of his parents.


Gaara and Sasuke:

Gaara and Sasuke had experienced love. Naruto SAW love... but no experience..

Gaara was the Kazekage's son... he had brother and sister who were loyal to him. (I dare anyone to deny this).

Sasuke's clan was killed .. yes it was sad we know, but atleast he knew who did it. In this aspect Sasuke's suffering is the least... he chose to cut people off.


Gaara knew he had a demon inside of him. Sasuke knew who had killed his parents and etc. But the thing is they chose to go down the path they went. They weren't forced to. When Naruto found out why he was hated on and so on.. he chose to go the right way. People will say Gaara had noone.. hmm manga suggests Gaara had Kankuro and Temari.. o_O. He chose to cut them off , like Sasuke did.



Conclusion

In situation wise , Naruto had it the worst. In the aspect of the kids, Gaara.. because he had a weak will.
 

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Garra never knew love, his siblings were loyal cause they feared him..

the one person he loved, his uncle, he mudered for trying to kill him, garra was a fked up kid
 

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Gaara's and Sasuke's death experience come when they're children.

Naruto was just a baby when his parents died, as a kid he is just ignored.

i would say, Sasuke have it worse.

right now Gaara has two siblings and a nation that love him, Naruto has friends and a nation,

what about Sasuke? not many.
 
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Garra never knew love, his siblings were loyal cause they feared him..

1. Is this a joke? Gaara did know love.. its a different thing that he got his heartbroken.. but he did know what it was.

2. If that was the case they would've left him.
 

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Naruto takes his shit like a champ. Kind of lucky really....

I like that he doesn't wallow in self-pity.

I don't know how shitty it would be to not have your life validated.
 

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It's a very debatable subject because they are all different situations. You can't really quantify pain.
 

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own gaara actions reason why temari and kankuro feared him.
 

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what?

naruto never had his parent.

gaara had his parents, they tried killing him

sasuke had his parents but his brother killed them

i dont no how you can say naruto had it rougher..
 

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I like this post... I just say they all had equal pain in their own way..
 

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Sasuke's parents and entire family was wiped out by his brother who he loved. The one who was suppose to protect him ended up taking everything that was precious to him away, and ran off without ever truly answering him. He was left alone with nobody to share his inner feelings with.

Gaara, targeted numerous times by the one who is supposed to protect him. Just when he FINALLY thought he knew what it was like to be loved, that same person tried to kill him.

Naruto, grew up alone without any parents. He was ignored and thus ended up as a brat.

See...At least Naruto eventually found people who he could relate to as a kid. Where as Gaara and Sasuke never did

I thinking haveing something precious taken from you, or used against you is worse than not having it in the 1st place,
 

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I overlook Narutos pain because he was a JERK. He pranked all the people and was unfriendly as on the other hand Gaara, Kimimaro, Haku had it worse but they still tried hard to be friendly.

Well you said Gaara and Sasuke chosed the wrong way ... but ... it was for a ****ing good reason. They had the most important thing in the world and then it was taken away from them. Naruto never had a family ... so he had nothing to lose from the start.

It's a big difference if you lose the most important thing or when you don't have it from the start.

BTW Gaara had no friends and his siblings feared and hated him.
 

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Honestly, once your life is a steaming pile of shit... Trying to equate the level of shittiness is not that important.

I overlook Narutos pain because he was a JERK. He pranked all the people and was unfriendly as on the other hand Gaara, Kimimaro, Haku had it worse but they still tried hard to be friendly.

Ya... Kids who are starved for attention do that. Hiruzen and numerous others pointed it out. Lack of attention and a structured home is what leads to actions like that. Gaara still had that uncle, and I'm not saying that makes it easier, but it definitely make s a leeway for him to be nice to folk.

He also definitely knew why the villagers hated him (or at least he had a faint idea because of the sand). He was aware of his situations. Naruto didn't have a clue in hell why the people around treated him like utter crap. For a kid, that's pretty horrible.
 
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Through Obito's pain, Naruto would acknowledge his and it would work out Obito's resolve to reject Moon Eye Plan - Sakura, Sasuke, and Naruto Relationship versus Obito, Kakashi, and Rin Relationship.
 

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Arguing about something like this is simply stupid. They've all had their fare share of pain.
 

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Well I'd find it worse to KNOW there exists someone right there before me but they, instead of loving me, hate me and did not care as to whether I lived or died. At least with Naruto's situation he has 1. A possible dream someone on his past cared for him (and actually before Iruka, 3 people of Konoha allegiance aside from his parents didn't hate him...he just never noticed or knew it), 2. While he may not know the reason, he has the ability to think of other reasons (it is fair to note the parents of people said to stay away from him... It was the children that would truly pick on and hate him.

For example, say you are avoided because you actually are a serial killing demon...not aware of this, you could simply think it's an sickness. So instead of feeling bad about being a murderer...you think it's because this helps people. Not the same situation, but just a parallel example.



Which is why I think Gaara had it the worst, and why for st least childhood (and this will come off somewhat fanboyish) Hinata had a not so pleasant one (though obviously it doesn't touch those three).

Would suck to know every day your father doesn't care for your life (shown during Kurenai's flashback: Hyuga doesn't need her), and a cousin who hates you for things you could not control...not to mention a dead uncle.



For me it goes Gaara, Naruto, then Sasuke for comparing the three children's childhoods.
 

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what?

naruto never had his parent.

gaara had his parents, they tried killing him

sasuke had his parents but his brother killed them

i dont no how you can say naruto had it rougher..

And apparently not having parents is so much easier then your parents killing you huh.... Still can't deny the fact Gaara was raised as the Kazekage's son... and with facilities available to him.


Well I'd find it worse to KNOW there exists someone right there before me but they, instead of loving me, hate me and did not care as to whether I lived or died. At least with Naruto's situation he has 1. A possible dream someone on his past cared for him (and actually before Iruka, 3 people of Konoha allegiance aside from his parents didn't hate him...he just never noticed or knew it), 2. While he may not know the reason, he has the ability to think of other reasons (it is fair to note the parents of people said to stay away from him... It was the children that would truly pick on and hate him.

For example, say you are avoided because you actually are a serial killing demon...not aware of this, you could simply think it's an sickness. So instead of feeling bad about being a murderer...you think it's because this helps people. Not the same situation, but just a parallel example.



Which is why I think Gaara had it the worst, and why for st least childhood (and this will come off somewhat fanboyish) Hinata had a not so pleasant one (though obviously it doesn't touch those three).

Would suck to know every day your father doesn't care for your life (shown during Kurenai's flashback: Hyuga doesn't need her), and a cousin who hates you for things you could not control...not to mention a dead uncle.



For me it goes Gaara, Naruto, then Sasuke for comparing the three children's childhoods.

In the end Gaara was raised with facilities available to him...

Kankuro and temari were therefore Gaara more then anything Naruto had.... all had to do was be nice.. simple as that.

Are you referring to Hiruzen? That he was therefore Naruto? lol....As far as Naruto knew, Hiruzen was only there cause he had to be as the Hokage.. lmao.

No mate, you are called a DEMON.... how can it be sickness, when your called a demon. o_O.


How were you born?

Why is that man hugging the kid and not you?

Where are your parents?

Did they abandon you?



(Personally, Madara and Hashirama and Tobirama and etc had it worst then these chumps.)
 
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what?

naruto never had his parent.

gaara had his parents, they tried killing him

sasuke had his parents but his brother killed them

i dont no how you can say naruto had it rougher..

i dont no how you gfot pat second grade
 

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I like this post... I just say they all had equal pain in their own way..

Correct. Also, they've experienced more love throughout the series:
Gaara: His Father saying that his mother always loved him.
Sasuke: Found out the truth, knows his brother will always love him.
Naruto: Saw his parents, etc. (not going into full detail).
 

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its better to lose someone you didnt know than someone you knew
 
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