Kill me. Kill me now. (Feminism)

[Vilvake]

This question was asked to an online "relationship expert."

Should I marry my poor boyfriend?

I’m 28 and have been dating my 34-year-old boyfriend for almost two years. This relationship was “hot and heavy” from the get-go because our personalities really clicked and he is the first man I have ever loved. However, I regret moving in with him a year ago not because I don’t love him, but because I’m not sure he can give me the type of life I want. When we met, we made the same amount of money. However, now I’m way above him in salary and I’m also going back to school for my Masters (I’ve always been an over-achiever). My future looks very bright compared to his. He lost his previous job and his current job pays barely enough to cover his minimum monthly expenses! The worst part is I’m not sure I have faith in his professional money-making abilities. If I stay with him, I can totally see a life where I’m bringing home the bacon while he’s the stay-at-home dad … which might be nice for some women, but that is NOT the life for me.

The warning signs of a bad boyfriend, from another site:

Look closely at his job history. They are sure predictors of what your life will be like.

If he's over 30 and has no money, do not let him move in with you, and don't marry him until he's financially solvent.

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[Supreme x Uchiha]

Well, as a man, he should fulfill his duties, especially since he has a girlfriend.

 

[villain55]

Someone has been out of the kitchen for too long. If i was the dude and seen this i'll dump her

 

[Domo Genesis]

Ummm what da fuq?

 

[NarutoB]

Lol dumb broad. If I was the guy I would mooch off of that ***** as much as possible.

 

[Joon]

She predicts the future?

 

[Sasukenumberonelover]

.. That ain't true love then U_U ..

 

[Trollo Lucilfer]

She mustn't stay with him U_U

 

[-Punk-]

This type of women are not worth it

 

[Οdin]

Women these days...

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[The7thHokage]

Someone has been a b!tch lately, and it looks like it isnt going away.

 

[Revyy]

That is horribly messed up. She don't really love him if she can't be with him when the cards are down. We need to kill her...Woman

 

[NarutoB]

That is horribly messed up. She don't really love him if she can't be with him when the cards are down. We need to kill her...Woman

Then take her money, because that's all she's good for. Lol

 

[Trollo Lucilfer]

That is horribly messed up. She don't really love him if she can't be with him when the cards are down. We need to kill her...Woman

I don't believe in love, it's all about the benjamin

 

[CurseSealofEarth]

Eh if I was a woman I'd want the man to make more than me.

But if I was a woman Id also have huge boobs and never buy anything because I'd be a tramp. #equality

 

[The7thHokage]

Eh if I was a woman I'd want the man to make more than me.

But if I was a woman Id also have huge boobs and never buy anything because I'd be a tramp. #equality

Truth served, bishes !

 

[Narutohokage7]

Eh, b!tches be crazy.

 

[Hipster Madara]

Point of thread?

 

[SanguineJackal]

I don't have a darn problem in the world being the one bringing home the bacon, given that my career path is something I have a great passion in. My boyfriend has worked his rear off every day of his life and hardly seen reward from it... his ex has mopped the floor with him. And he's still fighting and working as hard as ever and refuses to give up.

Because he isn't being a lazy slob, and just works so hard he barely has time to do what he loves (teach guitar and detail cars), I would love nothing more than one day to be in a position where I'm happily in a career and he's able to have a small business doing what he loves.

There's nothing inherently sexist about it. It all comes down to what is agreed upon by the couple.

Who gives a crap what some website says about what makes a "bad boyfriend"? It's your relationship, not the site's.

 

[villain55]

I don't have a darn problem in the world being the one bringing home the bacon, given that my career path is something I have a great passion in. My boyfriend has worked his rear off every day of his life and hardly seen reward from it... his ex has mopped the floor with him. And he's still fighting and working as hard as ever and refuses to give up.

Because he isn't being a lazy slob, and just works so hard he barely has time to do what he loves (teach guitar and detail cars), I would love nothing more than one day to be in a position where I'm happily in a career and he's able to have a small business doing what he loves.

There's nothing inherently sexist about it. It all comes down to what is agreed upon by the couple.

Who gives a crap what some website says about what makes a "bad boyfriend"? It's your relationship, not the site's.

Preach, man preach. It would hurt my pride if i'm not the one bringing in the bacon though