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Teen Pregnancy.(True Story)
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Jenga
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This is the post that ive been looking for..This girl can get a job and support herself.Your friend has a very kind heart and I respect the fact that you're looking out for him. As a friend, you're probably worried that she will suck him into her life and mess up his. The woman is 22 years old then why can't she get a job to support herself? Seriously she is bound to have family and friends that will help her out! I have a daughter of my own and I know how expensive things are to raise a child. However there are charities and even the gov't can help her out (where I'm from anyways)! He should be saving for college and trying to get his life straight first. The father of the child should be helping her out as well.
There are two sides to every story and I just hope that your friend's good deed isn't betrayed. (It happens all the time. U_U) Props to both of you though and wish you both the best.
+ If my daughter got pregnant at 16 or under 18 and if she comes ask me for help , sorry but i won't help her , You guys might call me a jerk or a a-hole but that's the way it is. You know that having unsafe *** can get you pregnant or diseases if you wish to have ***..all that happens is your responsibility you must deal with the consequences.
Peace out.
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This is the way i see it.
Everyone knows if :
You smoke your chances of getting cancer is high, you can die from smoking.
You have unsafe *** u can get STD's and get Pregnant.
You play with fire you can get burned.
You know the consequences everything you is at your own risk.
Everyone knows if :
You smoke your chances of getting cancer is high, you can die from smoking.
You have unsafe *** u can get STD's and get Pregnant.
You play with fire you can get burned.
You know the consequences everything you is at your own risk.
condom aren't 100% effective. maybe she did use one.
pregnant as in still pregnant or the baby has already pop out? because, you know, it doesn't make sense for her to ask for money to buy food and diapers when the baby hasn't even come out yet.
most people usually regret their decision once the outcome happen to them. she probably changed for better once she received that outcome.
your friend probably has feelings for her or is hiding something from you regarding his actual reason for helping her out.
either way, let him do what he wants, it doesn't affect you in any way.
it doesn't matter whether she knows the risk or not, or she used a condom or not, everyone has the right to changed, and she probably is changing or has changed. there's a chance she might be using him, but until that's revealed, let him help her and if he's low on the money, tell him to tell her that he doesn't have any money yet; that's all, and see her reaction. usually, you can detect a person's true nature once these kinds of situation happen; as in if she reacted selfishly to that, or continue to push him into giving her money, then she's playing him and if she acted all nice about it and stopped asking him for money then she has changed, or is changing [ but it could be an act so.. ask someone else about this; someone more mature, I don't see how asking a bunch of manga fans for opinion can contribute in this situation's outcome]
but, for now, let your friend be the idiot who's trying to defy the law of fire by playing with it, because he'll learn from this experience if she did play him, and if she didn't, maybe a different outcome might happen.
pregnant as in still pregnant or the baby has already pop out? because, you know, it doesn't make sense for her to ask for money to buy food and diapers when the baby hasn't even come out yet.
most people usually regret their decision once the outcome happen to them. she probably changed for better once she received that outcome.
your friend probably has feelings for her or is hiding something from you regarding his actual reason for helping her out.
either way, let him do what he wants, it doesn't affect you in any way.
it doesn't matter whether she knows the risk or not, or she used a condom or not, everyone has the right to changed, and she probably is changing or has changed. there's a chance she might be using him, but until that's revealed, let him help her and if he's low on the money, tell him to tell her that he doesn't have any money yet; that's all, and see her reaction. usually, you can detect a person's true nature once these kinds of situation happen; as in if she reacted selfishly to that, or continue to push him into giving her money, then she's playing him and if she acted all nice about it and stopped asking him for money then she has changed, or is changing [ but it could be an act so.. ask someone else about this; someone more mature, I don't see how asking a bunch of manga fans for opinion can contribute in this situation's outcome]
but, for now, let your friend be the idiot who's trying to defy the law of fire by playing with it, because he'll learn from this experience if she did play him, and if she didn't, maybe a different outcome might happen.
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Wow. I would say that this thread has gone to crap, but actually it started that way.
Dearest Jenga: if you don't want to help this person because of your closed-minded and juvenile views on ***, that's your problem. (Or, it's not I guess.) You can choose to disagree with your friend for helping her, too. But you, sir, crossed an already fine line when you went on your tirades on and off this thread. To put it bluntly, what is your problem, dude? Seriously! Your friend was doing a good deed for someone in a tough spot, and you had to flip out on him like that. And as for your half-coherent rants on how girls who get pregnant deserve to live with the consequences, or whatever, I invite you to imagine yourself in a similar situation. Accidents happen, man. Don't be a jerk about it. Take a chill pill and don't have premarital *** if you don't want to -that's your call - this girl doing so wasn't, and neither was any help your friends or whomever gave her. If this makes you so uncomfortable, do yourself, your friend, and this poor young woman a favor and butt out.
Dearest Jenga: if you don't want to help this person because of your closed-minded and juvenile views on ***, that's your problem. (Or, it's not I guess.) You can choose to disagree with your friend for helping her, too. But you, sir, crossed an already fine line when you went on your tirades on and off this thread. To put it bluntly, what is your problem, dude? Seriously! Your friend was doing a good deed for someone in a tough spot, and you had to flip out on him like that. And as for your half-coherent rants on how girls who get pregnant deserve to live with the consequences, or whatever, I invite you to imagine yourself in a similar situation. Accidents happen, man. Don't be a jerk about it. Take a chill pill and don't have premarital *** if you don't want to -that's your call - this girl doing so wasn't, and neither was any help your friends or whomever gave her. If this makes you so uncomfortable, do yourself, your friend, and this poor young woman a favor and butt out.
