Teen Pregnancy.(True Story)

[Jenga]

Sup.
I wanted and have started a topic about teen pregnancy to hear other people's opinions on it.
This is what happened few days ago.

Me and my friend were walking and he told me about this girl in his class that got pregnant and that she sometimes ask him for money to buy food and diapers and other stuff and my friend helps her,Then he said he feels sad for her and he will gladly help her and that she told him once that she made a mistake and shit.

I got a bit angry and told my friend that it's not his problem that he shouldn't help her because he didn't tell the girl to have *** with a guy , she decided too and that she must face the consequences, then he told me again that she said that she made a mistake.
That's when i got furious and said these girls know what they are doing , they are big mouthed and shit and when they get pregnant they want to come cry and say it's a mistake.
They sell condoms , the guy or her could of bought 1.
So i told my friend that if it was me i wouldn't help her.
What do you guys think , what are your opinions on this?.

 

[Punk Hazard]

What's wrong with him helping her? He's just being a good person.

 

[Jenga]

What's wrong with him helping her? He's just being a good person.

She always had a big mouth , bullying other people , laughing at others mistakes.

 

[P3ĮÑ 🥈]

Well the dudes being nice I think he should continue to help her but teen pregnancy is sad well to bad for her I guess

 

[Jenga]

Well the dudes being nice I think he should continue to help her but teen pregnancy is sad well to bad for her I guess

He's always letting people get to him , and when he has no money he comes and ask me and that's when i say No.
Besides he's not even the father of the kid.

 

[R4mbl3]

So your saying you got mad at your friend for helping someone out, even though they are not the greatest person in the world?

Your friend sounds like a good person, and you should be a good friend and support him and his decisions.

 

[Andrediemasjien]

nice people are always nice - Sherley from Community

 

[Aertes]

Pregnancy part:I believe that if you are not smart enough to know you need to use a condom then you are not smart enough to have ***,so don't.
Help part: I think you are a douche,no offence.As you said it's not your problem,so why do you have a problem with other people helping her??Is she eating your food??Is she taking your money??Is she wasting your time??No,no and no.
Have you any idea how much time,effort,love and 100 other things a child needs to grow up??Even if her pregnancy was a mistake,the child deserves to be raised with all comforts.If she can't give her to it and she needs help,she is right to ask for it.You can always decline helping but becoming mad cause other people want to help her??
People like you make me question kidness and intelligence of the human race...

 

[Jenga]

Pregnancy part:I believe that if you are not smart enough to know you need to use a condom then you are not smart enough to have ***,so don't.
Help part: I think you are a douche,no offence.As you said it's not your problem,so why do you have a problem with other people helping her??Is she eating your food??Is she taking your money??Is she wasting your time??No,no and no.
Have you any idea how much time,effort,love and 100 other things a child needs to grow up??Even if her pregnancy was a mistake,the child deserves to be raised with all comforts.If she can't give her to it and she needs help,she is right to ask for it.You can always decline helping but becoming mad cause other people want to help her??
People like you make me question kidness and intelligence of the human race...

The childs dad needs to help the girl,
When he is out of money he comes begging for money and i won't give him.
Girls always know if you have *** without a condom their is a chance of getting pregnant they want to have "wild-***" and shit and when they get pregnant they want to ask their mom and dad and friends for help..while none of them had *** with the guy but she did. She needs to raise the kid alone because she had *** none of us did.

 

[GreyWizard93]

Hm, mixed comments. im 19 and have a daughter, i love it!

back to the point, he is doing right by helping her even if she is a bad person but as a friend dude, you should support him. if your getting angry because he is COMPLAINING about her aasking for stuff then you need to tell him straight that if he wants to help her he shouldnt complain about it.

The only time you should be angry in this situation is when and if she stabs your friend in the back.

 

[GreyWizard93]

The childs dad needs to help the girl,
When he is out of money he comes begging for money and i won't give him.
Girls always know if you have *** without a condom their is a chance of getting pregnant they want to have "wild-***" and shit and when they get pregnant they want to ask their mom and dad and friends for help..while none of them had *** with the guy but she did. She needs to raise the kid alone because she had *** none of us did.

Raise the kid ALONE?

its bloody hard work dude. =/

 

[Selina]

If she used to bully others, that's her own mistake to deal with. I bet she's already kind of paying for it with the situation she's going through. Bashing her like that is only gonna lower you to the same lever she was before.

 

[Jenga]

Raise the kid ALONE?

its bloody hard work dude. =/

Everyone knows raising a kid is hard work , yet they keep making the same mistakes , it's time they learn from their mistakes and not drag other people along the road for something they did.

 

[Hellsbadass]

imo, if she is old enough to **** then she is old enough to pay for her shit. also why is not the baby daddy paying for the expenses? its partially his fault for knocking her up.

your friend has a kind heart, i just hope she does abuse his kindness

 

[Jenga]

imo, if she is old enough to **** then she is old enough to pay for her shit. also why is not the baby daddy paying for the expenses? its partially his fault for knocking her up.

your friend has a kind heart, i just hope she does abuse his kindness

Exactly what i mean. She's 22

 

[Hellsbadass]

thats not a teen!! she is an adult!!

 

[l Forgotten l]

He is just being a good person and atleast she is raising the kid and not leaving him/her in the dumpster, you shouldnt get mad because your friend is helping her out, my mom was a teen mom and it is alot of work, she has went through some major shit in her life and someone helping you out makes a huge difference.And ALOT of times(not all) girls get pressured by the boys to have ***( although it is the girls fault for allowing him to pressure and her doing it), and then when the girls gets pregnant, guys want to bounce. She made a mistake yes but your not going to help her because its not your problem or responsiblity, raising a kid alone is not like playing with a baby alive by yourself, she is a teenager she is going to need help.
Edit: she is 22 wow, regardless she still going to need help, even 30 yr olds will need help raising a child, money issues or not.

 

[Punk Hazard]

You should be more like your friend.

I find it ironic how you got pissed at him because he's getting involved in something that doesn't concern him, yet that's exactly what you're doing by getting pissed.

As long as she's not taking advantage of him and isn't making him pay for EVERYTHING or too much, it should be fine.

 

[Aertes]

The childs dad needs to help the girl,
When he is out of money he comes begging for money and i won't give him.
Girls always know if you have *** without a condom their is a chance of getting pregnant they want to have "wild-***" and shit and when they get pregnant they want to ask their mom and dad and friends for help..while none of them had *** with the guy but she did. She needs to raise the kid alone because she had *** none of us did.

Wrong in so many levels, I don't know were to begin.
If he begs for money don't give them to him.Why does it matter where he spends his money,as long as you won't give them to him??
Raise a kid alone,seriously,you think raising a kid is an easy job?
Yeah, having *** without condom is wrong but why are you blaming the girls only??Two people have *** (unless you use your hand) so why does only one of them has to take the blame for not using protection??It's a responsibility of both of them.
So if you too had *** with the guy too, you would be willing to help her raise the kid??Cause that last comment was sooo way of topic...
If you have a problem about your friend asking money from you,just don't give them to him.Why you need to complain and attack a girl,who is already in a bad situation??Will that make your friend not ask you for money?I don't think so...

 

[Jenga]

Wrong in so many levels, I don't know were to begin.
If he begs for money don't give them to him.Why does it matter where he spends his money,as long as you won't give them to him??
Raise a kid alone,seriously,you think raising a kid is an easy job?
Yeah, having *** without condom is wrong but why are you blaming the girls only??Two people have *** (unless you use your hand) so why does only one of them has to take the blame for not using protection??It's a responsibility of both of them.
So if you too had *** with the guy too, you would be willing to help her raise the kid??Cause that last comment was sooo way of topic...
If you have a problem about your friend asking money from you,just don't give them to him.Why you need to complain and attack a girl,who is already in a bad situation??Will that make your friend not ask you for money?I don't think so...

I didn't say i was making it my problem.
I asked your opinions on it.
He is giving her money to buy food and then come ask me for money to give to him so he could help her. lmao.