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A friend and I were recently discussing the topic of public misbehavior. It had come to our attention that people would act completely inappropriate in society, yet go almost completely unchallenged by those around them.
Now - I was raised to be respectful to those around me, and to adhere to my own moral compass. While I've had a few moments where I can say that I was off the mark with that - my environment doesn't usually do much to shape my behavior (or, rather, my parents were the environment that shaped my behavior, before - and it's fairly well established by now).
Anyway - there used to be consequences in society. If you put on obstructive, ignorant displays - people isolated you, or, in some areas, you a group of men would approach you and tell you to get your act together (further conflict was rare).
This lack of social response to problems has bred behavior like the one shown, below:
Notice, however, that once a consequence is administered (the taser) - the woman ceases being a disturbance.
This is basic psychological conditioning. Without it, we have allowed society to run well outside its bounds.
Think about it - how often do you sit there and ignore someone's inappropriate behavior (such as cutting in line)? Moreover, because so few bother to address these people's behavior, when they are confronted, how often do they attempt to start an argument while others remain unsupportive of the person who called them out?
These trouble-makers have begun to believe that they are invincible and that consequences no longer apply to them. They can act completely deplorable and get what they want because others don't want to deal with it. We have, effectively, allowed our society to be held hostage by the people who behave in obstructive and destructive manners.
Am I on the mark?
Off the mark?
Were you expecting a different topic when I said "social justice?"
Edit: video tag issue - resolved.
Now - I was raised to be respectful to those around me, and to adhere to my own moral compass. While I've had a few moments where I can say that I was off the mark with that - my environment doesn't usually do much to shape my behavior (or, rather, my parents were the environment that shaped my behavior, before - and it's fairly well established by now).
Anyway - there used to be consequences in society. If you put on obstructive, ignorant displays - people isolated you, or, in some areas, you a group of men would approach you and tell you to get your act together (further conflict was rare).
This lack of social response to problems has bred behavior like the one shown, below:
Notice, however, that once a consequence is administered (the taser) - the woman ceases being a disturbance.
This is basic psychological conditioning. Without it, we have allowed society to run well outside its bounds.
Think about it - how often do you sit there and ignore someone's inappropriate behavior (such as cutting in line)? Moreover, because so few bother to address these people's behavior, when they are confronted, how often do they attempt to start an argument while others remain unsupportive of the person who called them out?
These trouble-makers have begun to believe that they are invincible and that consequences no longer apply to them. They can act completely deplorable and get what they want because others don't want to deal with it. We have, effectively, allowed our society to be held hostage by the people who behave in obstructive and destructive manners.
Am I on the mark?
Off the mark?
Were you expecting a different topic when I said "social justice?"
Edit: video tag issue - resolved.