[Discussion] Level of shyness/maturity.

[Sahin]

Depends on a lot of things.
Like, norms and values.
Things that is stimulated by relligion or things like that; Politeness, decency, proprieties, respect.
And what is passed on to us by our parents.
Its just not as simple as it sounds. So its not smart to judge or have an opinion about a certain persons behaviour. You dont always know what stimulates that behaviour.

 

[BREAKD]

Depends on a lot of things.
Like, norms and values.
Things that is stimulated by relligion or things like that; Politeness, decency, proprieties, respect.
And what is passed on to us by our parents.
Its just not as simple as it sounds. So its not smart to judge or have an opinion about a certain persons behaviour. You dont always know what stimulates that behaviour.

I am not judging people at all dear sir.
I was merely stating the fact that most people rather seem to avoid this topic

 

[Trinky]

I'm open to discussion of pretty much anything. I don't tend to get shy nowadays. x)
Saying that though, I still respect it when people don't feel comfortable discussing certain topics. Each to their own. ^_^

 

[BREAKD]

I'm open to discussion of pretty much anything. I don't tend to get shy nowadays. x)
Saying that though, I still respect it when people don't feel comfortable discussing certain topics. Each to their own. ^_^

Exactly! I don't wanna know about other peoples *** lives, but I just dream of a day
when people can talk about everything with anyone on any day

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

Being shy has nothing to do with it.

I for one just don't give a damn about someone else *** lives.
I find it pathetic if someone feels the need to show off what they do.
Keep what you do in bed to yourself and leave others out of your business.

 

[BREAKD]

Being shy has nothing to do with it.

I for one just don't give a damn about someone else *** lives.
I find it pathetic if someone feels the need to show off what they do.
Keep what you do in bed to yourself and leave others out of your business.

Like stated, I never said I was talking about *** lives.
on the topic of *** what you have experienced is not the only thing you can talk about.
For instance you can also talk about what dreams in association with it (this is more suitable
to talk about with closer friends). Like fantasies of where or how you'd like to do it once.
And even in that area of the aspect I even find my friends to be shy about things like it

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

Like stated, I never said I was talking about *** lives.
on the topic of *** what you have experienced is not the only thing you can talk about.
For instance you can also talk about what dreams in association with it (this is more suitable
to talk about with closer friends). Like fantasies of where or how you'd like to do it once.
And even in that area of the aspect I even find my friends to be shy about things like it

Again,keep it to yourself.
Your friends probably don't care about the "dreams in association with it ".

 

[BREAKD]

Again,keep it to yourself.
Your friends probably don't care about the "dreams in association with it ".

I seriously doubt you even get what I'm trying to get at, regardless of that.
this is an opinion thread not a I-need-an-other-idiot-to-tell-me-what-to-do-thread.

Nevertheless thank you for your contribution to the thread

 

[~WastelandSociety~]

I seriously doubt you even get what I'm trying to get at, regardless of that.
this is an opinion thread not a I-need-an-other-idiot-to-tell-me-what-to-do-thread.

Nevertheless thank you for your contribution to the thread

Really?

Cause it seem like this thread was already about I-need-an-other-idiot-to-tell-me-what-to-do .

If a person doesn't want to talk about it,so what.
And I do understand what you're saying cause most of my friends are like that (get drunk,go to strip clubs,and talk about what they would do to a hot female).

Regardless, I am giving my opinion.

 

[Kikki]

Maybe because what somebody does in his bed is private and not others' business, especially as you recently met them ? and maybe they don't appreciate you informing them about what you do in your bed either, as it possibly causes an awkward feeling and they most probably don't care?

This.

It really depends on the situation. It's totally odd in the internet. Really. At least for me it is. When guys are with other guys, they talk about stuff. I as a woman know it's the same when women are around each other. But sometimes things go too far and I don't want to hear it. It creates the weirdest mental images and you're losing respect for each other.

 

[Sahin]

I am not judging people at all dear sir.
I was merely stating the fact that most people rather seem to avoid this topic

I know friend, and I was trying to explain the difference in situation people has in general so that one can know why they act different, like some of them avoinding a topic etc