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King Volcano

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So two days ago it was Valentine's Day, and of course since I even existed there was no one. I cried a bit, but made it through. Other than that it was a day of lonliness and depression. It's true, it's scary, to realize when you have no one. I was going to give up, but before I even thought of actually doing it. I had this feeling she's out there, it made me smile. Every since then, and even before, for odd reasons, I've been told to wait, and now I have this feeling of patience I need to have. I think if I do, I'll meet her, because my friends have told me, you can't just do it, you have to wait, but I've been waiting over three years, but this feeling is different. So is this feeling real, or am I just making it up? I hope it's not the latter. I really want to meet her. I hate being alone. I hate it so much. There are people out there who say it's okay to be single, and love being single, but I can't do that. My heart is filled with so much love. I need someone. I just hope she exists, if not I'll just have to give up, and fade away. I won't commit suicide, but I'm sure I'll die of lonliness if that happens.
 

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I really don't care if people care or not. I have to express my feelings, or I go into depression
 

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Uh huh. Get outside, go clubbing, ask your mates to introduce you to people ETC.
 

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I feel what you're saying. Massively. Patience is a virtue. Decisiveness is as well. Someday, you'll be able Carpe that Diem. You just gotta find it.
 
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Just keep waiting, and don't ever settle for less than you deserve.
If you're young, don't sweat it.
Love is patient, and good things come to those who wait.

Sorry for all of the cliches, but hey...they fit.
 

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Uhhh bro, plenty of people are single. Tap some of dat christian mingle ass.
 

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hey......................................................................king Valcano have u loved someone in ur life or it is like u have loved any girl but she did'nt came to be your VALENTINE...........huh? i did'nt understand can u explain me?
 

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Once you find someone you love, spend time with them, and then get tired of it, you'll wish you were single.

 

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man you cant just sit there and wait. the chances are so low if you wont make a move. go out and hang out with girls there is nothing wrong with it. have fun bro dont let it get you down
 

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Go out of your comfort zone. Meet new people. Being patient is key, but if you don't do anything about it you'll remain alone.
 

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patience is overrated my friend

I was in the same situation a few years ago, and what I did was started working out, dropped 55kg/120pounds, got new haircut, new clothes, new atitude towards life, and most importantly every time you see a girl that you like how she looks, you go and talk to her..

easy as that


there is no girl that you are attracted to will just come to your home, knock on your door and tell you I love you, lets be together..

you gotta go out there and do it, no patience - patience leads to loneliness


+ with girls and love it's a numbers game, if you get rejected you, approach another girl, and another, not every girl will reject you, so no matter how bad you think you are if you approach enough girls, one of them wont reject you.


+ it really helps before approaching a girl, to read her bodylanguage and to know if she already likes you
 
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No need to prick up the room, dude.

OT: I feel what you're saying. Massively. Patience is a virtue. Decisiveness is as well. Someday, you'll be able Carpe that Diem. You just gotta find it.

Ya bro seize the carp.

Uhhh bro, plenty of people are single. Tap some of dat christian mingle ass.

Plenty of Fish/Whores is better. I'm 3 for 4 on that site.
 

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:) thanks I'll try to ask my bro if we can go out to the city to meet girls, haha. That's the only way when you live in the country
 

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werent you that guy ..that post that beautiful thread the other day about VDAY ? ....ohh man im sorry you are going through this ...i dont knwo what to say ...cause im not having much luck either ..so ammm ..*hugs
 

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I think if you just believe he or she will be out there. There's millions of people in this world. There has to be someone for everyone.
 

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I think if you just believe he or she will be out there. There's millions of people in this world. There has to be someone for everyone.


that's the misconception about love, it's not some magical thing that is created by some higher power..

when a guy and a girl like each other star spending time together and getting to know each other and start to have ***.. they become attached to each other and start having feelings for each other, they bond, and they fall in love

So there is no one for you out there.. there a lot of people for you out there

You don't wait for love to come, you make love happen
 
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