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Mihaelz

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Hello everyone,
I apologize if this is in the incorrect section, but due to chatterbox being about 'Random' topics I decided it seemed fit. I have a bit of an issue, now I understand that people on here are of younger age. But I do understand that not the entire community is of young stature.

I have a bit of a problem. With my fiance, she is currently well very angry at me. I wanted to ask the community what your thoughts are about the situation. I already know what I should do but I just want your opinion to ensure what I'm doing is right. My problem is my first 'Love' contacted me recently, and my fiance noticed I found it hard to talk to her, she could hear the pain in my voice. I don't know why but she believes that I still have love for this other woman. Which is understandable because I mean she was my first love. I guess she is jealous or something but I don't understand why it's wrong. It should be clear that it hurts to talk to someone who broke your heart, because you can't ever forget your first love. It's normal for many people. I've tried explaining it to her and she just cries and doesn't believe me. I decided that in order to ensure that I have moved on is to show her that I meant it when I told her I wanted to marry her. So I decided in order to prove this I must show that I know her, inside and out. I'm thinking of doing everything that she loved to do when we were dating in just one evening.


Summary for all them lazy readers:

I'm going to make my fiance her favorite food and then take her to the house of blues in downtown where I will perform a song for her that I made myself. Then we'll see how the rest of the evening goes xD.

What does NB think of this?
 

Wang

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I think you should probably not talk to you ex when your fiancé is around. Your plan sounds very romantic, no homo
 

Jellal Fernandes

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I took the Lazy route. Sorry...But go for it bro, It's pretty cool of you to do that.
 

Kamishiro

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Hello everyone,
I apologize if this is in the incorrect section, but due to chatterbox being about 'Random' topics I decided it seemed fit. I have a bit of an issue, now I understand that people on here are of younger age. But I do understand that not the entire community is of young stature.

I have a bit of a problem. With my fiance, she is currently well very angry at me. I wanted to ask the community what your thoughts are about the situation. I already know what I should do but I just want your opinion to ensure what I'm doing is right. My problem is my first 'Love' contacted me recently, and my fiance noticed I found it hard to talk to her, she could hear the pain in my voice. I don't know why but she believes that I still have love for this other woman. Which is understandable because I mean she was my first love. I guess she is jealous or something but I don't understand why it's wrong. It should be clear that it hurts to talk to someone who broke your heart, because you can't ever forget your first love. It's normal for many people. I've tried explaining it to her and she just cries and doesn't believe me. I decided that in order to ensure that I have moved on is to show her that I meant it when I told her I wanted to marry her. So I decided in order to prove this I must show that I know her, inside and out. I'm thinking of doing everything that she loved to do when we were dating in just one evening.


Summary for all them lazy readers:

I'm going to make my fiance her favorite food and then take her to the house of blues in downtown where I will perform a song for her that I made myself. Then we'll see how the rest of the evening goes xD.

What does NB think of this?
This will surely make up for her. Go for it. :)
 

Rorasa

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I think she'll be very happy. but seems like she is the jealous type, i think it would be best if you didn't have anymore contact with your ex
 

Arcaneos510X

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I can only say that i do not know either of you but it's clear to me if that's all there is to the situation that there was a miss-understanding, I can only wish you the best of luck on this painfull and righteous act of love...
And just a tip from personal experince " Do not ever let you're one true love slip away, ever "
 
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