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There's this girl that I really like but I have no chance to get close to her, but when she goes to me, I can barely speak without trying to avoid eye contact, getting gut feelings and making things seem awks when I talk to her. I've liked her for two years but never had the chance to tell her until just recently through a letter. Most of my friends at school tease and pressure me just because I like her, they even piss her off on Facebook... Anyways, she said the whole "it's alright to like me" thing, but I can't to shift my interest away from her even though she friendzoned me already.. what should I do? D: I don't wanna be emotionally tormented..

She's loud/outgoing, smart, nice, pretty, etc, but it seems that she doesn't wanna be in a relo atm so yer...

help please :)

BTW anyone who helps I will give them rep :)
 
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lol, you need to step up your game little man.
 

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yer I know that but... I'm timid :L
 

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Ure HINATA man......be more naruto next time. Charge her like she is somekind of Juubi with u in ur ultimate Kyuubi Mode, i guarantee something will happen.
 

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To be honest I never understanded this freind zone BS lol if a girl don't like me I really don't give a fck Just move on I never ever had this what you people call Love is the most painfull thing to me that's just an illusion a human force himself to suffer from it but I really don't care she like me she like me she hate me she hate me lol keep moving on man I might be difference from most of people but an advice f she didn't like you go on and continue your life and forget about her.
 

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yer I know that but... I'm timid :L

You're probably just a kid. We've all been shy at some point in our lives when trying to interact with girls. ^^
 

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It easier said than done.
Stay being her friend, but show her how interestd u are. Flirt, but dont go too strong or she will think u are pushy. She said it was okay to like her, so like her, and show her that you like her, dont be awkward or else she will feel wierd.
 

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Tell her that you're interested in dating her and nothing else. It's not impossible to get out of the friend-zone, but if you're in it too long then you're stuck there.
 

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It easier said than done.
Stay being her friend, but show her how interested u are. Flirt, but don't go too strong or she will think u are pushy. She said it was okay to like her, so like her, and show her that you like her, don't be awkward or else she will feel weird.

Good advice but that never works. Nowadays girls don't want good boys, they like those cool looking dudes whom lives revolve around duchebaggery.
 

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yer I know that but... I'm timid :L

Dude if you think yourself as a Timid,you would actually act as timid even if you aren't Timid and the girl would approve that U are Timid!! Don't change but take that Timidness out of you and act more Confident Coz Girls like boys who have the right attitude and ooze confidence! :cool: Thats what I would personally look for in a Guy! :)
 

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Good advice but that never works. Nowadays girls don't want good boys, they like those cool looking dudes whom lives revolve around duchebaggery.

yeah, you're kinda right.. btw I'm a teenager so yer :L
 

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Lol Just playing...Well don't show her that your timid because sometimes girls can get annoyed when they see that you are..Not to bring you down or anything but that's girls...Act casual..She's a human being. xd Make eye contact..You can boost your self esteem in many ways..Try google...Take risks! You will eventually get close to her..It takes time..Unless she's a ****. :D and just wants a boyfriend for the **** of it.
 

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If you want to get over the crush, all it takes is time. There's not much you can do. Just start to ignore her, and when she comes to talk to you, don't act differently, be a little bit more aloof. This can actually make her a little bit curious about yourself as well though
 

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Forget about her and try to move on.

If you still have feelings for her: just avoid seeing her as much as you can.
>It is hard at the beginning but it works for the long run. Out of eyesight > out of mind!

The day you are over her you guys can be friends.
(But experiences say that maybe when you are over her you will see that she is stupid and you even don’t want to be friend with her anymore. ;) )

Good luck! :)
 

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haha just flirt like u aint trying to throw hands tho or somthing like that just to start talking dude depends on how she is but just grab her butt it will let her know that u like her
 

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It easier said than done.
Stay being her friend, but show her how interestd u are. Flirt, but dont go too strong or she will think u are pushy. She said it was okay to like her, so like her, and show her that you like her, dont be awkward or else she will feel wierd.

Pretty much this. Think of yourself as the tortoise. Because it you try to be the hare, well, you have yourself to blame for your shortcomings.
 

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Now that Punk its here don't worry bro : its seems that we have a sakura problem here , listen friendzone is just n excuse for not dumping your a$$ , but if you really like her & you a really shy...look yourself in the mirror & ask yourself are you a coward or are you gonna do something about it ..... GO BIG OR GO HOME BRO ! ...if you don't you'll never know what if .

#IN PUNK YOU TRUST
 

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Good advice but that never works. Nowadays girls don't want good boys, they like those cool looking dudes whom lives revolve around duchebaggery.

Im a girl, and you are totally wrong. But you seem like a person who has been placed in the friendzone ALOT.
If a guy is timid with me, automatically I wont be interested in a relationship. I wont take him serious. A girl wants a guy who ISN'T afraid to tell her how he feels about her. The reason why it may SEEM like girls go for the douche is cuz the douche at least isnt afraid to tell her how he feels. Timid is a female thing, a guy being timid is girlish and is a turn off. We want assertiveness. Dont be agressive, but dont give up on us either. Be a gentleman, and know what you want. We like a guy to go after us when they say they will, not a guy who says they want us, but is too scared to come get us.
 

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Sounds like my situation currently. I'll let you know how it turns out :T_T:
 

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Im a girl, and you are totally wrong. But you seem like a person who has been placed in the friendzone ALOT.
If a guy is timid with me, automatically I wont be interested in a relationship. I wont take him serious. A girl wants a guy who ISN'T afraid to tell her how he feels about her. The reason why it may SEEM like girls go for the douche is cuz the douche at least isnt afraid to tell her how he feels. Timid is a female thing, a guy being timid is girlish and is a turn off. We want assertiveness. Dont be agressive, but dont give up on us either. Be a gentleman, and know what you want. We like a guy to go after us when they say they will, not a guy who says they want us, but is too scared to come get us.

Man, am I glad I'm not a girl. I'm just wondering; why does it have to be so difficult? I personally haven't struggled too much with this problem, but why do you have to so damn difficult? :p
 
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