Well...luckily the war has fixed this!
Since the whole assassination attempt on Sasuke by Sakura, she has grown out of her crying dependance on others
Since the start of the war, Hinata has cast aside her shyness (FINALLYYYYY)
I can't call Tenten a fodder since she took down two Kakuzu masks, as well as used a SO6P weapon for an extended period of time (seemed much longer than what Darui could put out)
Ino stopped a Bijuudama, Sealed Ginkaku, stopped Asuma.
Tsunade became the Ultimate tank
Mei while being whiney during the Madara fight...it was reasonable since they were fu****...
Chiyo was a badass
Temari was always calm and collected...no longer as much of a b**** though!
Konan almost solod Obito
With the passage of time they are no longer really annoying or hated by me!