You shouldnt take things so seriously from people that you dont even know, none the less these people may not even be who they say they are. For instense, one can make themself out to be a beautiful women, with a great personality etc when in real life that same person could be a slob with no personality at all. Its the beauty and also the ugly of the interne
I know what your saying that there are some people on here who really need to take a chill pill(however I wouldnt call them evil). NB and Naruto in general should not be taken so seriously and should be seen for what it is: an Anime/Manga that will eventually come to an end like all others. So no matter if your a fanboy/girl, a moderate reader/watcher, or on the other end a NB/ Naruto hater- remembering that this is just a Anime/Manga a guy is writting then it will make your life easier and less stressful (and more fun here on NB)
Finally you also have to remember that written language can be taken in many ways. I can write something saying "Your a dork" and you can take that as I really do think your a dork, I'm being sarcastic/joking, or another way that I may not intented for it to be taken. Or being called a dork can have a different meaning to you than it does to me. So just remember that and it may make things seem less 'in your face' (just to clearify I am NOT calling you a dork, I am just giving you an example)
I hope that helped, I am not going to encourage you to leave or stay. There are people on here who can be mean, but there are people everywhere who can be mean (and there are also people on here who are really nice, you just may be looking in the wrong places). However you shouldnt let them dictate or affect your life to such a degree that you dont do the things you enjoy.
(There I edited it

for those of you giving me a hard time.)