[Discussion] Does love make men weak?

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I've been wondering about this for quite some time. It appears love affects men negatively by making us soft which in turn makes us weak and gets us off track in life. We become less productive and more needy, alot of great men in history have fallen because of love. Is this something men should stay away from altogether? What is your opinion?
 

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Love is an human aspect, not experiencing it is essentially not being human.

And while it makes us soft at times, at other times it makes one much more stronger.
 

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For me personally, it's the opposite.
 

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Love is an human aspect, not experiencing it is essentially not being human.

And while it makes us soft at times, at other times it makes one much more stronger.
I don't agree, just because someone doesn't experience or choose not to experience something doesn't make them less human. That's like saying you're not human for never having smoked weed.
 

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I don't agree, just because someone doesn't experience or choose not to experience something doesn't make them less human. That's like saying you're not human for never having smoked weed.

What kind of example is this?
If you love the wrong person you are weak.
Love the right one.He'll be for you there and that will make you strong.
 

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Depends on the person, mostly it causes a shift in priorities.
 

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What kind of example is this?
If you love the wrong person you are weak.
Love the right one.He'll be for you there and that will make you strong.
So Kagetora is a homosexual? That's odd considering his opinion about gay rights...
 

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I've been wondering about this for quite some time. It appears love affects men negatively by making us soft which in turn makes us weak and gets us off track in life. We become less productive and more needy, alot of great men in history have fallen because of love. Is this something men should stay away from altogether? What is your opinion?

Things like tenderness and love are commonly shunned amongst men. The reason for that is men don't want to be suffering pain due to heartache so they treat women like lesser beings. Calling women *****es and hoes is a defense mechanism for insecure men. Men that behave gangsta behave this way to show no openings. They refuse to put themselves in a vulnerable state so act gangsta and treat women like products. This behaviour is the real weakness.
 

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I was in love once. My love was all I could think about. I managed to obtain a picture of more. I just stared at it all day. I stopped eating and drinking. My bench press went down from 1000lbs to 999lbs. Finally my mom became concerned and checked out me. She came in to me room and said "Why do you keep staring at a picture of yourself?"
 

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What kind of example is this?
If you love the wrong person you are weak.
Love the right one.He'll be for you there and that will make you strong.

That doesn't make much sense. If you love the wrong person, you are weak? How does one decide who is right and who is wrong? How does one love the right one? Do you mean wrong person as in someone who doesn't respond to your love?
 

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I don't agree, just because someone doesn't experience or choose not to experience something doesn't make them less human. That's like saying you're not human for never having smoked weed.

If one holds no love, for anybody then how are they human?


These are usually the people to commit crimes, you have to have love for something even if its not a human.

However, you will experience love in some form or another because you're human & that's human nature.
 

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I was in love once. My love was all I could think about. I managed to obtain a picture of more. I just stared at it all day. I stopped eating and drinking. My bench press went down from 1000lbs to 999lbs. Finally my mom became concerned and checked out me. She came in to me room and said "Why do you keep staring at a picture of yourself?"

You weak mudafuka.
 

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It is just your brain and chemicals. You start crave for some one. Also everything in society expects you to do it. It is kind of glorified propaganda they use it to sell you stuff. Kind of like feminists describe patriarchy. I dnt know the name for it but it is a natural order. You need to impregnate some one to pass on the information as a human. Certainly tons of men in history perished because of chicks, to get a chick, to be able to get a chick of this evolutionary conspiracy abstracted by society. Men often genuinely love a person and then fall into depression or get financially ruined when they could have achieved other things. We humans can think I think we should be better than other animals on this planet so we need to find another way.

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That doesn't make much sense. If you love the wrong person, you are weak? How does one decide who is right and who is wrong? How does one love the right one? Do you mean wrong person as in someone who doesn't respond to your love?

If you love someone who gives no crap about you very much then you are wasting your time...
Take care of that one who cares about you.At this point love will never go against you
 

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It makes the weak weaker and the strong stronger. That's what the definition of weak and strong implies.

It depends on the person entirely, so a definite answer is impossible.
 

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It makes the weak weaker and the strong stronger. That's what the definition of weak and strong implies.

It depends on the person entirely, so a definite answer is impossible.

"Love overcomes fear"-Hinata.
Being alone makes someone insane,as long as you live you'll need supporters.And your parents made you strong.
 
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