What the hell are you going on about? Japanese culture is just different. Look what happened to west when it discarded femininity - Pink. Japan has a different societal set-up. People should just accept it. There is nothing sad about it.I am relating with the current trend of Manga . The Problem of Japan is peculiar they have the Lowest birth rate in the World High Paying Woman are the main force in Japan and they dont want to marry man with low salary .
This is the reason They are using Moe and Cute anime characters imposing women to behave cute and Kawaii towards their Husband/Male Counter Parts . Which is sad ..